Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

after my last serious relationship crashed i feel like i just dont have that touch with girls like i used to. i cant seem to figure out what im doing wrong. i need tips, as a girl how can i redeem myself?

2007-11-11 18:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started dating this guy recently and there have been a few times where we are talking online and he calls me "cutie" or "cutie pie" I think thats adorable and I want to say something back to him...like almost a nickname. So what can I say back that isn't too over the top, but gets the point across that I like this guy. We haven't been dating for long at all so I don't want to say something too strong to scare him away.

2007-11-11 18:35:29 · 12 answers · asked by glamgal24 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 18:33:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last week me and my wife went to my sister-in laws wedding.My wife had been driving me crazy for day's to prepare for this wedding(cloths, presents, drinks etc..) When we got there my wife went to greet the best man (my father in-law) when we started to talk, my father in-law talked about "how boring and stressful this day has been and how he COULDN'T WAIT for it to be done and over",(i couldn't of agreed with him more) So before the wedding started me and my father in-law started to drink couple of beers together, while my wife went to go comfort the bride. (1 beer became 2 beers 5 beers ect...) Until me and my father in-law where completely wasted.. So at the Wedding reception my father in-law came up to me (completely drunk) and said "come meet my daughter) So i walked over to my sister in-law(drunk) and my father in-law said "You see does breast touch'em" (while pointing at my sister in-law so i go up to her and squeeze her breast (in sexual manner) her newly wed husband hits me

2007-11-11 18:32:45 · 20 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My first serious relationship ended because we were too young; we had a child out of wedlock and I was in college. My second was with a loving man who had a drinking problem. I married a man that had was on 20 dating sites and 3 were gay sites!? Help. I don't know if I will ever love or trust another person again!

2007-11-11 18:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

To sum this up quickly; I was 17 and pregnant, married the father, divorced within the year of the birth of the child. I married my best friend from high school and we have been married for 13 years now. We both have grown up together and have one child together plus the other from my previous marriage. I love him; but I know now that I am not in love with him and only married him so I wouldnt be alone. I can't imagine my life without him, yet, I can't imagine living the rest of my life with him. He is a great man; but, he has a terrible temper when it comes to me since I have been the ONLY woman ever in his life. I have started therapy but he will not go. He knows I am unhappy and he too is unhappy but when the subject comes up, he just shuts down. What can I do?

2007-11-11 18:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She dont combs her hair and she is eight years yet !

2007-11-11 18:27:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-11 18:22:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I are in the midst of an amicable divorce after 21 years. All that is left is to decide some details and bring the papers to the courthouse. It should be finalized before Christmas.

My husband has a girlfriend - I think it's great, she makes him happy, he and I make eachother miserable.

I had a boyfriend until yesterday. Anyway, my husband was very sympathetic and uncharacteristically supportive when I was upset by the breakup.

I went out with a very good friend last night as I needed a shoulder to cry on.

She asked me if I realized that this situation was really weird. The whole thing about him and I not 'technically' being divorced yet and both having other relationships.

My husband and I haven't had 'man & wife' intimacy since last spring. Both of us know that the other has been intimate with their new partner.

Our kids (older teens) know of our other relationships and approve of our choices.

Does anyone else think this is really weird?

2007-11-11 18:21:52 · 14 answers · asked by Tauri Athena 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We in a ldr.... been together for a year now and i havent seen him in 9 months........ just miss him so much and i love him to bits... just need some way to show him that i love him and miss him.... i need something t keep me going.... till he gets to new zealand in two years.... and we can be together... please help..

2007-11-11 18:21:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents are the complete opposite of that. they're constantly saying things like "When we grow old, you better take care of us", "I've given you everything that I had, so you have to repay us when you get a career", "You owe us so much, and we expect you to pay it all back when you get older". i don't understand HOW any parent could think like that. it's not like I chose to be born, right? they should've been willing to sacrifice everything and unconditionally love me. isn't that how parent-children relationships are supposed to be? or is there really a debt that i'm in?

2007-11-11 18:18:15 · 15 answers · asked by Rin 2 in Family

i hadn't seen him much most of my life, so i don't feel like he was a cousin to me, but i don't know why i like him, what should i do?
i think he likes me, but have said that he does not.
well, he was the one who lead me on, like seriously. so what is he planning?
is there something wrong with me? to feel that way.
but i really like him..

2007-11-11 18:17:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 18:15:16 · 24 answers · asked by Von S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband and were married for 8 years with 2 children(5 and 7). We have been divorced for 3 years and he has been with his fiance for 2 years and the wedding is coming up in 3 months. About 6 months after they started dating he stared calling me all the time when she wasnt around and still told me he loved me when we would get off the phone. Whenever he would come and get the kids he would look at me like he wanted me so bad. This went on for about 6 months and then his fiance started complaining that he was spending too much time at my house so he stopped calling and coming over as much. The other day I saw him at the grocery store and he hugged me and gave me that look again. My question is should I go to him and ask him if he still has feelings for me and if he is sure that he is over me before he gets married and its too late?

2007-11-11 18:13:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when a guy asks you ou, what makes you say 'yes'; what are the requirements the guy should have necessary in order for you to accept it. So that you think "yeah, sure, i'll go, i dont see any problem with you".....

2007-11-11 18:08:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 18:06:29 · 37 answers · asked by Apple Pie 2 in Singles & Dating

this chick who is 21 and im 18 sorta like each other, but shes afraid to go out with me cuz she dont wanna hurt me like some older guy hurt her....how do i get her past that....i mean shes told me she likes me and would like to go out but yet she wont so help?

2007-11-11 18:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What was it like on your wedding day?

2007-11-11 18:02:34 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are both 15. I really feel as though I am falling in love with him, and he says he feels the same. Well, we were talking, and I want to give him a blow*job. The thing is, I never did something like that before and I would like to know how. Please, I'm being serious. Also, how do I get him to keep this between us? I really don't want a reputation. Thanks a bunch:)

2007-11-11 18:02:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I would clean our apartment for "8" hours the night before and have problems sleeping (leg cramps, hungry, thirsty, annoyed, or I have to pee about the 100 time).So, I go and take a bath (( we moved here about 2 months ago and I cleaned this tub out like crazy- So I took a bath and I filled it up and after 10 mins, there isn't like any water in the tub no more hot water so time to get out)) Sense I got up early I go down to the laundry mat to clean my work cloths and hoping that the soap machine doesn't rip me off again,(don't have enough change to buy more).I am Kind of in a great mood, a little tired still running off yesterdays energy. I get there put 50 cents in-so IT DON'T GIVE ME ANYTHING, I was wanting to rip it off the wall and throw it threw the office window out where we live. lol..Then I looked around to see what to do. At the sink there was a bottle of dawn dish soap so I used that. ha-ha, Then I went back to our townhouse, My door was stuck and I was pushing to get it open. I finally got it open it slammed against the wall, now I have a hole in my wall. so I ignored my anger/ then laughed and said to my son, that' what it gets for messing with mommy. After that I changed his diaper, told him to go and throw it away, I washed his hands. Then we went to out to have breakfast. I got back and didn't think of the stress of what happen earlier. I went down an d got my lemonade smelling uniform. lol. They have 6 or 7 driers and only 4 work! This guy was using all the good ones. So," I thought whatever" were going to my BF moms place, I can dry them there. after work I am so happy to get home. Walked in and I find 5 dirty diapers, a lot of soda pop bottles "did the football team come and visit", there was like crap everywhere. I wasn't sure what to think at first. I think they had a party. I just looked at him and gave him a dirty look and said "Glade you kept it clean" and try to be nice and not turn into the pregnant HULK as usual ( I was too tired ).I told him I am surprised you could even walk around without falling on your face, what If i would fall and hurt myself or my belly?!! .He is always glued to his X-box. And I am always cleaning and doing something. I feel so stressed out and twisted kind of out of focus. Then when I am cleaning and getting things done, I think I signed up for this (thinking to myself).Then I see him getting up and picking a lot of stuff up. Moving things back to where it belongs.” without telling him too", even though I see him do it I don't draw attention until I am done cleaning. Then I act surprised and tell him I love him and thank him!

2007-11-11 17:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by kolean_07 2 in Family

I'm thinking about writing a sonnet and attaching a daisy to it. And tell someone(teacher preferably) to give it to my crush without telling them who wrote it. My crush might know who did it because we are friendly acquaintances.
Should I also include a sketch of her or should i not? (i'm an artistic guy)

2007-11-11 17:57:09 · 33 answers · asked by De Pazzi 1 in Singles & Dating

Besides the whole "just be there, its the best." No, I'm talking about something credible and helpful if you have lost connection with your bro. 19-10yrs

2007-11-11 17:57:08 · 19 answers · asked by Derick G 2 in Family

I've been married for 2 years and I feel like my husband and I are growing apart. I ask him to hug me when we're in bed and he just rolls over and faces the wall and tells me he's too tired. Sometimes when I ask him a question he'll tell me I'm stupid for asking such a dumb question. Sometimes he'll just blow up over any little thing. I kind of feel like his child instead of his wife? We never used to be this way, we used to have a very sweet and loving relationship. Help me, what can I do?

2007-11-11 17:55:45 · 19 answers · asked by jas_mendez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is there any chance for the GIRL to fall pregnant, what are the chances please don't to rude i just need information about this.

2007-11-11 17:54:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend, but after 6 years, I'm wondering why I'm still with him. I have no idea still where I want to work. I live in California.. but I'm wondering if I should move back home.. or to Australia.. or maybe to Boston, or Chicago, no wait.. what about DC? Maybe I want kids, wait, my boyfriend and I dont' have sex. then again maybe I should adopt? I'm lost.

2007-11-11 17:53:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 17:51:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he always falls asleep on the phone in the middle of a conversation i hang up text him and he calls back what should i do to prevent him from falling asleep i tell him just go to sleep and talk to me the next day but he doesnt want to go to sleep because he wants to talk to me but he acts like he does want to talk to me but then falls asleep and when he calls back i never answer cause the same thing will happen over and over what advice do any of you have?

2007-11-11 17:49:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do married men say they are not happy with marriage,fell in love with another woman,but find it hard to get a divorce.this is rediculous,y is it that they find the decision hard to make,seriously what is the deal with all of that,inform me....please.

2007-11-11 17:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by kim27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when out with freinds on the night b4 hate it when one of them says,"my god was u drunk last nite,do you remember doing this or that"! ive even gone to the landlord and said sorry,to be told what for you was fine last nite!

2007-11-11 17:44:46 · 2 answers · asked by fozz 4 in Friends

2007-11-11 17:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce