My first serious relationship ended because we were too young; we had a child out of wedlock and I was in college. My second was with a loving man who had a drinking problem. I married a man that had was on 20 dating sites and 3 were gay sites!? Help. I don't know if I will ever love or trust another person again!
2007-11-11 18:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you will love again but you need to give your heart time to heal, and you need to ensure you don't go looking for it. The best love is the love that finds you when don't expect it.
2007-11-12 00:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is only one true love and sometimes you have to go thru alot of mistakes to find the MR or Mrs right , so yes there is really love after divorce. The guy you are divorcing isnt the one for you. And yes you will love again once the right one has come into your life. My advice to you is STOP looking for love because its very obvious that you are finding the wrong ones . If you be patient then love will find you and you will be happy. Good Luck mama
2007-11-11 18:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have children. You have all the love you will ever need here on earth. Do you know Jesus Christ? Jesus will provide you with all the love you will ever need.
You should stop looking for a relationship and personal satisfaction. Work towards the childs well being. A relationship will come when it is time and not before. I hope that you will consider working towards your childs best interest instead of your personal satisfaction.
I have included a few links below that I am sure will help both you and your ex find a way to put aside your petty differences and help you work together for the sake of your child. Studies show that equal time with both parents will make a child more likely to grow up emotionally well adjusted and healthy, and more likely to perform better in school and life.
God Bless
Frank Pytel
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2007-11-11 21:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Frank Pytel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will. You just have to really get to know someone before you commit to them. Don't jump the gone and commit to one person the minute you start having feelings for them. Get to know them first. Leave your guard up. Not all men are dogs. You just have to be picky. You know what you don't want now. Those past relationships are experiences that you learn from. Don't make the same mistakes again.
2007-11-11 18:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and Yes. Do some serious introspection. Generally, we make bad choices because of our early family relationship models. Break the chain and make a better choice next time.
2007-11-11 18:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Noelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There IS life after divorce and in sure you will love again. #! RULE dont go out looking for love, let it come to you. You will never find true love when your looking for it. It may take time. Be patient.
2007-11-11 18:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go looking for someone, let someone find you. It is possible to find love again, just be a little more careful, and check people out before you commit yourself.
2007-11-11 19:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have always fallen for the hot dangerous guy. Maybe it is time for you to look at the average man and see where it goes.
Maybe Joe average is your knight in shining armor
2007-11-11 18:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and yes.
2007-11-11 18:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋