2007-11-11 18:33:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have a good relationship with them, I don't see why not. I have separated with my husband and my stepkids are a very big part of my life. They have nothing to do with my relationship with my ex-husband. I established a relationship with them. Actually, it would be kind of cruel to walk out of their lives completely.
2007-11-11 18:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a closed relationship with your stepkids, I don't see why it wouldn't be appropriate. You should see them if you want to maintain that relationship.
2007-11-11 19:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Staci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Just because your relationship with him didn't work out doesn't means that you have too divorce those children to especially if you have been there for them and they see as their mother. Tell them that you love them and that you will always be there to support them and make sure that they know that. One thing is for sure you can not introduce a new partner to them that might be disrespectful to their father but other than that they need you to be apart of their lives to guide and counsel them through it. I hope I was able to help,
2007-11-11 18:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by gabrielaqlejandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not.
2007-11-11 19:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be okay. But split means to divide into two. His kids. His responsibility...I see problems with this situation and his new g/f.
2007-11-11 18:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by repentant sinner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is good with the kids and you DO want to continue a relationship with them then I say go for it . They do not have to suffer because your marriage failed. Good luck
2007-11-11 18:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you should see them if they'd like.My ex has 4-daughters & I have 2-of my own I have raised them all.I am as close to his children as I'm to my own.I divorced him not the kids.
2007-11-11 18:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Amy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been in there life for a while it would be crappy not to if they still wish to see you kids care for step-parents too and you don't want them to feel you all the sudden don't love them any more..
2007-11-12 00:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by miss v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you can if your relationship is good with the kids and he dont mind you keeping in touch with them i think its a great idea. good luck
2007-11-11 19:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your not trying to see him.
2007-11-11 19:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by warjo2611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋