2007-11-11 18:22:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes it does! Well I can't really say that. For a lot of women it does return.But for some the spark is just gone. I know it takes some time to get back into the flow after having kids,because your are tired from all those restless nights,and not only the lack of sleep but nothing seems to get done at the very beginning of newly found parenthood and the house is always a wreck etc...I have 2 daughters and between the youngest ,4 months now,screaming because I can't hold her while doing the dishes,and my 3 yr old running around screaming because I told her NOT to pick her sister up and that she can't take her sister on a ride on her favorite scooter...its hard to focus and get everything done. But when everything starts to settle a little bit the spark shall return and the bedroom will be back in order. Right after you give birth to a child you have a short streak of the " DON'T TOUCH ME'S!!!" then a few weeks(maybe months but not many) after you start having the "Whats up you sexy Hunk of Man You's"
So be happy and don't stress a lot.It'll get better .....
2007-11-11 19:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by bought2B2Babies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My missus and I have a 3yo and an 18 month old. Yes, the sex life returns, but as we are both more tired and stressed than we used to be - it is as often.
Still good fun - just not quite the same.
2007-11-12 03:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. definitely. I have a 12 year old daughter and still we enjoy sex. Its afterall lies on ones own interest and relaxation. As long as you feel young at heart you would definitely enjoy. There's nothing wrong in having sex even after you have children. Some think that they are dooing some wrong. But its silly. Afterall its our life and our thinking . So go ahead make yourself as well as your spouse happy and lead a good enjoyable life.
2007-11-12 02:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Daffodil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in some ways it gets even better. It will help when the stress levels go down a little and you start getting more sleep.
2007-11-12 13:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by mjmayer188 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offcouse you can have sex after you have kids!!
Come on now...Like someone else said do not PLAN it!!
2007-11-12 02:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you just don't have as much time, and some times you get too stressed. If you are smart, you make time for each other by occasionally getting a sitter for some alone time.
2007-11-12 02:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
interesting, well i have had 3 kids and i am so into sex probably more so now than ever
2007-11-12 02:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but not as frequently as you might like...can advise that once they've grown up it's better than ever!
2007-11-13 00:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly7149 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have five kids and nothing has changed. please don't ever plan sex, that's no fun. the bathroom is the best for those quickies :)
2007-11-12 02:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Audrey C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋