i love my boyfriend alot but its like we are very busy people and when we talk at night he falls asleep on the

Question

he always falls asleep on the phone in the middle of a conversation i hang up text him and he calls back what should i do to prevent him from falling asleep i tell him just go to sleep and talk to me the next day but he doesnt want to go to sleep because he wants to talk to me but he acts like he does want to talk to me but then falls asleep and when he calls back i never answer cause the same thing will happen over and over what advice do any of you have?

Answer 1

Just tell him that you think that he needs to be getting more rest for health's sake. Tell him that you think that you ad he should limit your phone call to a certain time at night (say 10PM) so that he can get more rest. Tell him that you are not angry, but worried about him.

Answer 2

Its very disconnected and frankly impersonal, but you could try chating online. Chance are he would stay awake cause he would have to answer back and even short answer require the effort to stay awake. If you intend on continuing talking on the phone keep your questions and answers short, let him try to control the conversation and when he has nothing to say,cut the conversation off. If there is nothing to be said, thats why he is falling asleep. Relationship conversations are about quality and not quantity, just because you are on the phone for a long time, doesnt mean anything. Communicate more efficiently, talk about what matters and talk about it often, small talk is dangerous when you are already tired and it is late.

Answer 3

My boyfriend does that and i use to be like u hang up and text. but since your both busy try to figure out if you can talk before night or when he's tired.

My boyfriend and i got over that now he falls asleep on the phone with me and i just stay on the phone cause my boyfriend tends to wake up a lot and not just sleep and when he wakes up out of sleep and im still on the phone he can just talk

Answer 4

This happened to me in a relationship as well. I would suggest trying to work out a day where you two can put aside work, homework, friends etc and really talk to eachother. Figure out a day when you can afford to put things aside. Otherwise if it keeps going in the pattern it is going now the relationship will slip and at the end of the day you two do not really know eachother. Communication is a big factor in making a relationship work and if you can not find the time to even talk on the phone it will be hard to press on with the relationship.