My boyfriend and I are both 15. I really feel as though I am falling in love with him, and he says he feels the same. Well, we were talking, and I want to give him a blow*job. The thing is, I never did something like that before and I would like to know how. Please, I'm being serious. Also, how do I get him to keep this between us? I really don't want a reputation. Thanks a bunch:)
2007-11-11 18:02:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok heres what u do, first ignore her ^^.....i think you should do it if u want to learn how, plus u will grow closer to your boyfriend.....and if you want to keep it between each other, tell him that if he ever tells anyone that it will never happen again, trust me it works
2007-11-11 18:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can bet that it will not stay just between you two no matter what he says because he will brag to his friends and if you ever break up he will use it against you . Besides , your only 15 and are you gonna use a condom and if not are you sure he has no std's ! There is alot more to think about than just your reputation these days . If you do , use a condom and know that everyone else will know what you did . I am not saying your guy is not a great guy , they just like to brag .
2007-11-11 18:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Saharwi Wife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, i can't exactly give you step by step instructions, but i CAN give you advice.
You should be able to trust your boyfriend enough to make sure he keeps it a secret. Let him know that you don't want any silly rumors to start and that this is something special to keep a tight secret.
As for how...just do what you feel is right. There are several techniques, but there is no right or way to do this and it doesn't matter if you're different from other people. Follow your instincts. Ask your boyfriend what feels good-after all, that's the most important thing.
Best of luck!
2007-11-11 18:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing says I love you like a ********. Seriously what are you doing. you are not ready for this. Stop and ask yourself why do you want to do this. Is it to prove to him you love him. Is that the only thing he would appreciate. Well I think I know the answer to that. Believe me it will not be kept between you too so think about how you will deal with that
2007-11-11 18:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. Not a good idea. Guys are guys, and it is not worth it. Save it for when the real thing comes along. You will know when. When it is time, you won't have any questions about it. It will happen naturally. Saving yourself is still the best thing, as nerdy as that might sound. Trust me...t's worth waiting. Hold onto yourself, don't just give yourself away. You are too important for that.
2007-11-11 18:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by DENIECE R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can keep your reputation by NOT doing it at all.
Go rent an adult video and learn from there. If you are unable to get into the store legally....well, then wait til you are able to legally enter the store before considering doing it with your bf.
2007-11-11 18:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by Shawn W 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I doubt that would be something he could keep to himself. If you two should happen to part, I'm sure it would get out. You didn't mention how long you two have been together and what sort of commitment you two have. You can also get stds with this form of sex, so please be careful and practice safe sex.
2007-11-11 18:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by tifnylb72 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do it listen to what must people are saying its not just that your both way to young it could lead to other things and way fast and you dont seem ready if you want to keep it a secret
2007-11-11 18:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by E E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
carefull
its always the ones who u think your "in love" with them who will use you and then throw you away
are you being serious a 15yr old guy with raging hormones and wat guy doesnt like being treated as a hero, and you think hes not gonna tell anyone?
wen you break up you'll be known as a s**t and he'll be seen as a hero
you'll loose both ways
so be careful and rmmba your actions have consequences
2007-11-11 18:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by simplycomplex 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't do this. You are worried about getting him to keep this between the two of you and you are worried about your reputation. You will reget it and once you do it for one guy it will be easier to do it for the next guy and the next guy. Please don't do this.
2007-11-11 18:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋