Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

He also bought half interest in that same bar and wants to reopen it under a different name. He is the undisputed king of the bar, and has a pet alligator and he wants to bring it there when he works , too.
Man, it was weird, the guy he punched lay down on the floor for a long time.

2007-11-11 20:08:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 20:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My freind is afraid to tell anyone about how her friend is being horrible to her. How can I convince her to tell someone for help?

2007-11-11 19:55:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he says that his wife is "stalking" him, and she wont let him do anything because she has convinced herself that hes a cheater, even though he is not. Apparantly she checks his time cards to verify hours he was working and she also insists on going with him everywhere to make sure he isnt cheating . etc.. etc... he said its a living hell. He asked me what he should do, I am going to print this and show him your answers. thanks

2007-11-11 19:54:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was hanging out with one of my best friends and I mentioned something two of my other best friends (who are girls) love to discuss about, and he said "Ugh, don't bring that up again. It's a good thing [my other best friends] are not here." That kind of made me feel really hurt considering I'm close to my girl friends (even though I don't really enjoy listening to their favorite subject). Should I tell them what he said or keep my lips sealed?

2007-11-11 19:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by blingding 5 in Friends

Hi everyone, I posted last night nd thanks for your support, and now I would like to kno how stupid am I?

Brief backgrund;

Just come out of a 10 year marriage at my instigation over a number of reasons (four months), the main one being her unfaithfulness (5 years ago), and that she was using the fact that I would love to have kid as a tool to keep me sweet.

She now has a new fella, and though it i early days already she is thinking of having kids!

What the fu*&!

So my question is have I just thrown away my chance of having birth children, of being involved in one the greatest experiences any two people can have?

Just a quick not we have two adopted children that live with me, and thay are antastic

2007-11-11 19:42:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are both in our thirties and living together for almost 11yrs. and staying w/ my in laws. We have a 7y.o boy & a 1yr 9 month bby girl. He & the girl lived together for a yr & has a child(the reason he married the girl). he still managed to come home to us in the years their together. The moment the girl knew this, she surrendered & my partner agreed w/ her coz he thought we deserved him. But my in laws made friends with her for the sake of the kid. I feel awkward about it that sometimes I want to leave him. But he assures me no reconcillation will happend & I can see his regrets. But I'm jobless & afraid my kids will grow up in a broken family. Which me too is a product. What should I do?

2007-11-11 19:39:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 19:33:43 · 28 answers · asked by michelle m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 19:27:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"I'd like to know you better. Can we talk for 2 minutes?" You are total strangers and never seen each other before.

2007-11-11 19:27:09 · 14 answers · asked by Kannan J 2 in Singles & Dating

1. Never go to bed angry.
2. Never name call.
3. Never bring up old conflicts.
4. Never blame.
5. Never try to be right, always try to be happy.
6. Always listen to your partner, never assume they are attacking you, they are just expressing their feelings.
7. Always accept responsibility for your wrongs.
8. Never turn nasty when you don’t know what else to do.
9. Always let go of your insecurities or you will never really be able to love or be loved.
10. Always talk to each other about everything or you will turn away from each other.
11. Never keep secrets form your partner or you will learn to lie easily.
12. Never bring up your past relationships or your partners. We all have old flames and its all about experience. Experience makes better relationships.
13. Never discuss what your partner did in a previous relationship as it’s not your relationship.
14. In 50 years time the last thing you will remember about your partner is all the bad things. All we will focus on is the moments we had together so again always aim for positive happiness.
15. If you don’t feel heard by your partner, use words like “I don’t feel heard”, “I need you to try and hear me and understand me”. Never just give up and start screaming.
16. Sometimes if your discussion isn’t going anywhere we need to agree to disagree, this may be the hardest thing you will ever have to do but we are all different and that’s a good thing.
17. Never let your family or friends influence your relationship.
18. If your partner has a problem with your family its up to you to fix it.
19. Always stand up for your partner over anyone, they will be there forever.
20. If you feel your partner is wrong with something they are blaming you for, never start yelling, listen first then calmly discuss how you feel about it.
21. Always make time for your partner without anyone, as these moments are what build a happy relationship.
22. Always explore different ways of making your sex life better.
23. Never bring someone else into your bedroom. Your sex life is a huge ground of your relationship and to bring someone else in can and most likely will, create insecure thoughts and feelings. These are your special times together and no one else deserves to share them.
24. Always show affection towards your partner in front of your children (not sexually), what they see will build their own relationships.
25. Never feel you cannot talk to your partner, if your partner cannot listen then seek help.
26. Always look towards your partner first.
27. Always rely on your partner.
28. If you have something to say, say it. Never let anyone even your partner, walk all over you. This will cause disrespect.
29. Always respect and trust your partner.
30. Never, Never, Never give up on your relationship.

2007-11-11 19:24:42 · 14 answers · asked by emesumau 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't know what to do. I'm playing babysitter, while he goes out with his girlfriend for the weekend. What can I do? I've tried to work things out with him. He says it's not happening, and the answer is no. No matter what I do, he says, he won't take me back. I'm not perfect, but I did play Susie homemaker for 8 yrs and had his 3 children. He seems to think he has found someone that makes him happier than I did.

Please help.

2007-11-11 19:20:34 · 14 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad cheated on my mom at least once before but my mom stayed with him. They have had a lot of problems since then over money & just about anything else. For good reason, my mom doesnt trust him anymore and she's always wary of where he is really spending his time & his money. Over the last few months I have found my dad on the computer at odd times at night when everyone else is sleeping or out of the house & a few times when he hasn't heard me walk up, I see tabs with titles like 'sexy ladies' or something which suggests porn, which i guess is semi-normal. Other times I found him browsing on Match.com, & of course when I walk up and he notices me, he immediately minimizes or closes the window(s). All that made me suspicious before, but the last time, I walked up on a email he was writing to a woman named Heather (not my mom) and the subject was 'Hey You'. [will add more details, please wait until i finish]

2007-11-11 19:10:07 · 15 answers · asked by Jenn18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

married men state that there wife is not giving up the sex.

2007-11-11 19:09:31 · 40 answers · asked by michelle m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a dream 8 and a half months ago about a man that i fell in love in my dreams,3 weeks later i saw him in real life, he had on the same clothes and he looked exactly the same in person as he did in my dreams.but problem is he is married,we hooked up anyway. broke up because he is maried. every time i dream about him,im always running away from him but he is always there wanting to love me .in real life he does same things as in my dreams. last dream ihad so far is i end up having his baby this dream took place 4 weeks ago.im trying to avoid it so i moved back with parents to avoid my dream from taking place.r my dreams warnings or will it still happen. my dreams do come through. sounds messed up but this is actually real,i keep dreaming of this man .4 insstance i changed my number to avoid him and that night i had a dream that my bro opened the door and let him in ,he walked to my room 2 ask y i changed my # the nex day the dream happend can u hide from things u dream or not

2007-11-11 19:06:51 · 9 answers · asked by kim27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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Don’t forget to star if you like this question ... Hey this is only a reminder, not a request.

2007-11-11 19:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a man of 35 years and my cousin is 41 (female). Both of us are married and she stays far away from me. Whenever we are together she shows an attraction towards me. She told me that she has something to tell to me alone. Ofcourse I am also infactuated by her beauty. She once told that her sexual life is not satisfactory. I am sure she wants to have a nice time with me. She is comming home for a weeks stay? Shall I tell her that I am interested in her? What can be her reaction?

2007-11-11 19:00:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 2 years now and i just know my husband is cheating and i think he may have feelings for this person because we have been having problems i really love my husband and really cant see myself without him what shall i do?

2007-11-11 19:00:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this sounds weird but im with the man of my dreams. how many people can say that? i met my boyfriend 4 years ago and we started dating, he had to go to new york to work for a few months, so we break up and i move. when i get home i find out im pregnant and its his... so a few months passed and i would call him and not able to reach him. so 6 months into my pregnancy, i lost the baby. still trying to call him and i cant get ahold to him. 2 years pass and i come visit the friend i used to live with down here and i call him and hes home. all that time trying to find himand when i came back to this town for the first time in two years, hes home. we got back together adn ive never left since that day. we get along great, i have everything ive ever wanted. i never need anything. if i wanna go shopping he gives me a couple grand. he doesnt do drugs or drink. hes perfect. he takes care of me very well. i love him with all my heart, hes asked me to marry him. we've been together 2 1/2 years.

2007-11-11 18:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want him to be my own man, no one else, please help. I love him very much, i dont want to share.

2007-11-11 18:58:29 · 23 answers · asked by Maureen T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This really makes me mad and hurt. What should I do?

2007-11-11 18:57:24 · 5 answers · asked by My Dear 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an Indian. I was being tortured mentally/physically and econimically by my husband and his parents.After 4 years of tolerating this i launched a crimial procedure under IPC against them and i dont stay with my husband for past 2 months, before being thrown out by husband i was 1month pregnant. Husband and in-laws are currently on bail.The case is in court and will take own course. Recently i saw an advertisement from my husband seeking alliance for this second marriage,i reported to police but they could not help because i am a muslim. Husband told police that he is entititled to marry 4 times. I dont want to divorce him untill the judgement of this case is over and i dont think i can do this also.
Can he really marry without divorcing me or informing me that he is getting married. Also i investigated and found that he is not informing the second would-be wife that he is already married once.

2007-11-11 18:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by Firstwife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 18:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Because I was lost and it seems that I am nothing in this world

2007-11-11 18:52:40 · 14 answers · asked by Simple Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this sounds odd, but if you discovered that your husband/wife was sleeping with a Psychaitrist who was richer, hotter and younger than you? How would it make you feel? What would you do about it?

2007-11-11 18:52:27 · 10 answers · asked by fireonyourforearms 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not against corporal punishment. pls only relevant answers not any telling me im a bad parent.

2007-11-11 18:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by Taya L 1 in Family

I like em all. Please share people!!!

2007-11-11 18:43:34 · 24 answers · asked by "Johns" 7 in Singles & Dating

I was pretty sure it's what I wanted to do at the time because I felt like we didn't have that much in common really, but now I'm feeling really upset that I did.

She's such a nice warm person and she's very pretty and really liked me, and was upset that I broke up with her, and now I'm feeling really lonely all of a sudden....

is that normal to have regrets like that after breaking up?? Does it mean I should reconsider? for context, I'm 24.

2007-11-11 18:41:57 · 15 answers · asked by eltonr2006 1 in Singles & Dating

I read many post about divorce and they all say that we have to wait about 2 years. I also saw some DIY websites that say that you don't even have to go to court and your divorce will be completed. Do they still take same amount of time? Me and my partner agrees to get divorce so is it possible to get divorce quickly. We just don't get along anymore, is this a good reason?

My point is that we can part with happiness instead of sadness or trying to hurt or hate each other. I am sure reality will hit us later as we have been together for 20Plus years. I think it is best instead of living together in misery.

2007-11-11 18:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by Mike G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26 yrs old, and my sister is 38. I live with her, and her two kids, becuase she is going through a divorce and needs some help. I pay her rent every month, I pay my bills, I have a full time job, and I help take care of her children. I have had money problems in the past, but that is WAY behind me, so why does she insist on treating me like I'm 10? I am also gay, and I have a girlfriend. She doesn't want her kids to know, so my gf and I behave appropriately, no hand holding, no kissing.....and she STILL feels the need to remind me repeatedly that we have to behave around the kids...like I could forget....I feel like she won't let me be myself, and since I live in her house, I better do it, and listen to her....or else...does that sound fair to you? cuz to me....it sucks....and my gf isn't too happy about it either :'(

2007-11-11 18:41:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family