I know this sounds odd, but if you discovered that your husband/wife was sleeping with a Psychaitrist who was richer, hotter and younger than you? How would it make you feel? What would you do about it?
2007-11-11 18:52:27 · 10 answers · asked by fireonyourforearms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me say this first: If the other man/woman is cheating with your partner, they are NOT better than you. They can have all the money, looks, and education in the world but the truth of the matter is that they have no morals. I understand that things sometimes happen, but we also have free will and we make our decisions. I have found that people who cheat dont do it because of looks, money, or any other reason except that they feel insecure with themselves and by cheating or attracting attention from others instead of you it makes them feel better.
You need to tell them to hit the road!!! You deserve better than that and don't EVER think its your fault that they cheat.
2007-11-11 19:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would feel like a complete loser. I am sure that there would be warning signs or something that would tell a person something is going on. If my husband left me for someone hotter than I am stupid for letting myself go and not keeping myself attractive.
2007-11-12 03:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would divorce him. It does not matter if she is hotter than you are. He is still a pig, a liar and a cheat. I would not feel good about it regardless of how she looked or how much money she had.
2007-11-12 03:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do as what your heart wishes to. If you still love your partner despite of him cheating on you, then ask him if he still wish to continue his relationship with you. If you are husband and wife, have a legal advise before you do anything and get him pay for his "cheats" on you. BE patient and don't do anything stupid.
2007-11-12 03:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by charm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone said it perfectly, they cant be "better" than you if theyre low enough to sleep with a married person. Time for a divorce if you cant handle it. I know this will still leave you feeling inadequate, but you always have your self-respect and integrity to continue to be the "better" person and move on. Its easy for me to say all this, and I understand this will be difficult for you.... but like I said, if you cant handle it, the best place to be.... is not near him. Take care!!!
2007-11-12 03:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry divorce if my spouse cheated with anyone well I could never forgive and trust would be out the window.
2007-11-12 02:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks mean nothing, they fade. She is the other women she is not better than you. Cheating is cheating it hurts even if there ugly
2007-11-12 05:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to go to him and be happy.
Obviously she doesn't care about me and the child and how it will hurt us. She only cares about herself, so go.
The hurt is already there, I can no longer trust her, so leave. Just leave the children here because you don't deserve to take them with you.
2007-11-12 10:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by old-softy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing u do is u find their favorite thing and break it whahahahha then divorse the motha it will be so hard to get oveer them that its better to free urself
2007-11-12 03:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Christa_420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD DEFINITLY BE UPSET! BUT I WOULD HAVE TO GET OVER IT....WHY? BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY IT'S MY FAULT THAT HE'S WITH SOMEONE THAT IS BETTER THAN I......ALL I CAN DO IS GIVE HIM HIS "PROPS"...I CANT EVEN BE MAD LONG....HE WANTED BETTER AND HE WENT OUT AND GOT BETTER.....NOW ITS MY TURN TO HEAL MYSELF.....DISTANCE MYSELF FROM HIM TOTALLY......ONCE A DOG, ALWAYS A DOG!.......
2007-11-16 03:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by LISAB27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋