How can I accept life the way it is?

Question

Because I was lost and it seems that I am nothing in this world

Answer 1

Don't accept it if it is not the way you want, CHANGE it, and MAKE it the way you want.

With enough force and determination, you can have almost everything in your life how you want it. Like me, I just push and change things until they are how I want, I'm happy.

Answer 2

This is a very wide question but I must say first find the thing that makes you question your life. If at all possible change. Change what you don't like about your life. Get new friends, find a new job. Dye your hair do something that makes you feel different and gives you life. Not so much on the God ship but happiness starts when you push out what ever make you sad. Get up open you windows and love you. If you have depression issues then see a physician. I did and it really helped I am no longer on medicine and have found out what is worth living for. Take Care

Answer 3

YOU are always something to someone. Even if you are not aware of it. Sometimes maybe they don't show it... but would be lost without YOU.
Yes, it sometimes seems as if we don't have anything to offer, but think about what would have happened if you didn't exist....
I can't answer for you... but, I once saved my little brother from drowning when he was about 8. What if I wasn't there? He's married now and has 2 daughters. One of them is a very talented artist. See?
I had a BF that my parents didn't care for very much. We never actually lived together, but had considered it at one point. My mothers best friend since high school was going through a difficult time and wanted to move in with her gentleman friend. She asked my mother's advice. Mom told her about my situation, and said my father would NEVER have allowed that we (me and my BF) move in together (Whew... boy, am I glad that confrontation never happened! I'm a grown-up!) But, anyway... as a Christian that living arrangment wouldn't have been appropriate.
From that single event... she decided not to move in with her BF.. and joined a church and became a Christian.
Wow! What if I never had been around?
Did you ever watch that old TV show Quantum Leap?
One person can and does make a difference .. every day. In small ways, that trickle down to possible major world events. Make a difference today....
Say out loud: I AM IMPORTANT. SOMEBODY LOVES ME.
Jesus loves you too.

Answer 4

You are a part of the world. All life flows through you and you are here to make it a better place. Your smile, your kindness brings someone joy. Even if you were a hermit in the mountains you are still connected to all the life on this planet and as a living part of creation it is you privilege to take and receive love in whatever form you find it. Even in the sound of the wind through the tree. The Goddess loves you just the way you are and wants you to be happy. Live, love and harm none.
God/dess bless,
Starlight

Answer 5

Wow, you sure asked the tough one didn't you? Well I've been asking myself this one for a loooong time sweetie, and honestly a lot of waaay older people than me that I do know are, but I can give you what I think is the answer is, or rather what I have found the answer is for me at least.
The world is a LOT smaller than what we think it is. No matter how far you go away from home you will almost always find somebody from the same area at some point. I left a small town in Georgia and ran into three people I knew when I moved to a small town in North Dakota.
Accepting there are some things you just can't change, and going from there. Wether it is the world, people, family, or some certain aspect of your life.
The more things change the more they stay the same.
Everything comes, goes, and moves in phases. Money, all sort of personal problems, family grievances.
Than one day you'll realize that this is YOUR life not someone elses and it may seem no matter how hard you try you can't get out of the hole, and as soon as you are use to eating rock soup, something major changes, and you find yourself somewhere else with your head whirling for weeks as to what happened and how the hell did I end up here.
Life grows on you. It is full of hardship, heartache, love, sucess, and so on and so forth. I started out finding little whings to do that make me happier, and than I learned that I just had to relax and learn to take oneday at a time. It isn't easy, but sooner or later you'll realize oneday you have accepted things, and you are happy even if that happiness is temporary, and you'll find a goal to work to and everything will start all over again. I don't mean to sound disheartning, I don't want you to think or feel that whatever you do dosen't count. In some way or another we end up touching another's life. One day a young boy in our neighborhood came up and thanked me for teaching him that random acts of kindness make a differance. I didn't even know him, until I found out that two months before I had given his aunt a milk crate of whatever food I could spare, we were hurting badly ourselves at the time. I've had people come up and thank me for listening to their spouse when I worked at the mall. Just normal small talk, but I later found out that up until that point they had been contemplating suicide. Disturbing, but totally unexpected when their wife told me that they went home and told them how they had been feeling and that our discussion on faimilies made him realize that he wasn't the only one who had the same problems and if they can overcome it than he can to. Each of us end up touching somebody else's life in the end, and when you begin to feel this way just think of that and consider possibly how many people you have helped unknowingly, how many people have helped you unknowingly, and how many more you may possibly touch in the future and you find that you aren't nothing you are something and you don't feel so lost anymore.
Chin up, and go out there and get them! I wish you the best, luv!

Answer 6

Everyone has a purpose in the world... the challenge is to find out what it is. :)

The great thing about life is that we have free will. That means that we can truly change our world if we are willing to try and fail. And try and fail. And try and fail...

Close your eyes and envision what would make you truly happy with life. Then do your darndest to make it happen. It will take work and probably cost you some skin a few times - but working to make something happen will make something happen... get it?

Answer 7

Your not lost. People change our lives change you just have to find the new you. Think about this someone out there is going through something much worse, so be grateful for what you do have. Good luck :)

Answer 8

yes you can be better.. you dont have to just accept it the way it is.. you got to get out there and make a new way of life.. when you do good good will come back to you. everyone wakes up each morning and you can make your day a bright one or you can make it a gloomy one. i make mine a bright one everyday.. i am always happy kind of person and i am surrounded by those same kinds of people.. thats all you have too do.. its really easy if you let it be.. good luck

Answer 9

Ask yourself how attractive the only alternative to life is, and I suspect you'll find a way to accept what you've got!

Answer 10

It is up to you to make your life the best it can be. No one else can do it for you. If you don't try, you will never know what happiness you could have experienced. You can't sit around waiting for others to make you happy. It will never happen, until you find yourself.