I am a man of 35 years and my cousin is 41 (female). Both of us are married and she stays far away from me. Whenever we are together she shows an attraction towards me. She told me that she has something to tell to me alone. Ofcourse I am also infactuated by her beauty. She once told that her sexual life is not satisfactory. I am sure she wants to have a nice time with me. She is comming home for a weeks stay? Shall I tell her that I am interested in her? What can be her reaction?
2007-11-11 19:00:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, everything is wrong here! You're married, you're trying to sleep with a married woman & she's your cousin. Its 3x the wrong here. Besides, should you do it, you're not sure if you will satisfy her. If she's not satisfied, this could hurt your relationship with her as a cousin if you two are close.
The fact that you are asking us this, could leak to your family if one of them is reading this & really hurt them more than you two. I say "no" that sex with your elder cousin is ok. You decide, you're older & wise enough to decide on your own.
2007-11-11 21:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Razor Snake 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whether or not you are cousins is not the issue. The fact that you are both married is. Infidelity is such a genteel word for cheating, lying, catting around, and generally acting like an unscrupulous low-life, but if you have this affair, you deserve the label.
Nobody deserves a cheater for a spouse, not even the worst people. Stop being interested in your cousin. This infatuation simply can't lead anywhere good.
2007-11-13 15:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all are you talking about a 1st cousin or 2nd 3rd ? How closely related? It matters. Cousins getting together used to be common. It's not acceptable today. If your talking about a 3rd cousin that's in the family just by marriage it's not so bad. You know it's ...so wrong on so many different levels I can't even scratch the surface. Just get past your fantasy , let it go, don't do it.
2007-11-11 19:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by farmboy702003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relies upon on your definition of ok. maximum individuals locate this to be incest, and socially unacceptable. it really is unlawful in some states. some human beings view this as very black and white, yet there is of route a huge team of individuals who imagine this section is a lot extra gray and picture it really is tremendous. for my section? i do not imagine it really is tremendous. i do not imagine it really is totally well to have a romantic, or sexual relationship with someone so close (first cousin or closer... possibly even second cousin) contained in the gene pool. If it really is no longer a cousin through blood, then i wager it really is tremendous.
2016-10-24 02:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by ecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be seriously considering that,for crying out loud you are MARRIED AND YOU TWO ARE RELATED,that's so wrong if her sex life is unsatisfactory that's her problem let her seek somewhere else,if shes throwing herself at you who knows how many men shes thrown herself at?Am sure you are bigger than that and you love your wife am sure you can control yourself sex is all in the mind.THOW SHALL NOT BE LED INTO TEMPTATION.
2007-11-11 19:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by poodle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have any morals,Apparently NOT
you are both married & your related.Think of the shame & hurt you'd cause others before acting on your own selfish wants & needs
2007-11-11 19:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Amy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say that there is a complete and utter lack of intelligence to this question. It doesn't even deserve an answer. In fact, I can't believe I'm wasting my time even bothering to comment.
2007-11-11 19:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by xbabyxfr3akx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are RELATED!!!! Did you MISS THAT??
Thats INCEST man, and it is wrong legally AND ethically.
Ew.
If you aren't actually blood relations, get a divorce first. Why does you wife deserve you to fvck someone else, and a relative no less?
2007-11-11 19:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by myleslr 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sex with her is wrong... she is married so are u.... and plus you guys are related..... so she is a no no ... hang on to your joystick pal.... cheating is bad and think about your wife and kids atleast once {}
2007-11-11 19:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're both married. Get divorced and you can sleep with whoever you want.
2007-11-11 19:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋