why do married men say they are not happy with marriage,fell in love with another woman,but find it hard to get a divorce.this is rediculous,y is it that they find the decision hard to make,seriously what is the deal with all of that,inform me....please.
2007-11-11 17:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by kim27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think sometimes people think they're IN LOVE with someone else when all it really is is LUST. There's a difference, but it's hard to tell while you're in the middle of it. It's hard for a man to leave his wife, particularly if there are children involved. Somtimes it's just that they're frustrated with everyday life of, "Why didn't you do the laundry for me? Don't you know that I work hard too around the house? At least you're gone all day with other adults while I'm here taking care of your kids and changing dirty diapers." Who can blame the man who comes home to that?
However, he's not really interested in leaving this wife. Sometimes it's better deal with the devil that you know instead of leaving for someone else, who has flaws that you just cannot see at the moment.
2007-11-11 17:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a whole lot easier to have a relationship with a member of the opposite gender when all the tedious, mundane and volatile issues(bills, parenting, expectations, disappoints, differences of opinions) are minimal. In clandestine relationships everyday doesn't apply. Its new, exciting, limited contact, appearance is paramount and everyone is on their best behavior, whats not to love? But leave the wife and take the new relationship down the same old road and the cost mentally, emotionally, financially and sometimes physically to do that, well, lets just say it not a pretty picture.
2007-11-11 18:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Noelle M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a long time marriage, for the man, constituted acquisition of property. It still is considered that way by some today. Whether its wrong or right it still happens. What's wrong is the women letting the men get away with it. Married men fall for women who they can't have all the time - what's the question there? I'm not going to judge since I don't believe in marriage anyway. It goes against the biological need to procreate the species with the best of the species mating the most.
2016-05-29 07:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because for some men they feel they have too much in the bag to divorce (kids, house, family). they mostly cheat because the other woman fulfills the needs that's lacking in his real marriage. also for other men, they try and see how far they can take it without getting caught. Temptation is also a big reason why men cheat.
2007-11-11 17:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do it too.. Maybe they feel guilty, don't want to deal with the implications/taboo of divorce, children get hurt.
PS- what is the blog ;)
2007-11-11 17:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many a man if he has children wont hurt them like that he rather be hurt than hurt them after all they didnt ask to be born now did they . my opon?
2007-11-11 18:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married means you have to see the same woman every day and every night. Day after day night after night.You have to hear what did you do today? what are you thinking? What ? what ? shut up leave me alone.
2007-11-11 18:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋