My dad was cheating on my mom back in '93 and she kicked him out. So he married the whore he was cheating with. She tore our family in two. She's driven my poor dad to near-suicide multiple times. She turned my dad against his mother, his siblings and his two oldest sons (mainly, me and my twin brother.) She whores out on him regulary, because he's a commercial fisherman and is gone for periods of time. Because my twin brother moved up there, she treats him like ****, forces him to sleep in the basement, can't leave the house except for school,and, very rarely, Mom's house. Because I didn't move with him, I'm the family black sheep, and she conned my little half-brothers, who used to jump with joy upon hearing I was coming over, into believing I'm the Anti-Christ. Even Dad hates me,and considers me a "Nuisance" when I come over. I told her to her face once, and Dad threatened to kill me. Also, she'll abandon the kids to work over the local tavern. Please help me out here, I'm confused.
2007-11-11 16:52:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way, my twin brother moved up there so my dad would teach him how to fish commercially (Mom was always scared of Alaskan commercial fishing, and wouldn't let him go.), plus after an incident at school that got him expelled. He wants to stay, but wants to move back, kinda has mixed feelings about it.
2007-11-11 19:31:26 · update #1
Fortunately for me, I live with my mom, but my twin (the other two brothers are half brothers.) lives with my dad.
2007-11-11 20:04:48 · update #2
You are in a pitiful condition, I would suggest you to move to your biological mother's house, however that doesn't solve all problems so go to child protection organisations like UNICEF or other local organisations near your place, they will help and protect your brothers .
Your stepmother is the root of all evils and problems as you depicted, its quite baffling why your father is against all of you and listen to the whore who made his life like a hell. Try to have a earnest converstaion with him and make him understand. Be cautious that you dont appear in rage or anger. I hope you have forgiven your dad for the pains he gave to you and your mother.Be calm and peaceful, problems never get solved through anger.If your dad understands then you , your brothers along with your father can get seperated from her and begin a new life.
You haven't mentioned how old are you and . If you are matured and able enough to work and earn living by yourself, probably you can bring your brothers with you.
Lastly, dont get frustrated, time heals , things aren't same always, they will improve with the waves of time. Have patience and presence of mind.
I find that you are only 16 year old, better is you seek help from police and other organisations, the problem is not going to be merely solved by suggestions and words from yahoo answeres , you are need of immediate action
2007-11-11 19:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by a new world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's incredibly horrible!
My dad cheated on my mom and split up my family too. He also married the woman he was cheating on her with and she was kind of mean but nothing compared to that.
Why doesn't your mom help? I mean, at least your twin could move in with her.
You need to talk to someone better than a whole bunch of yahoo people.
2007-11-11 19:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Drea P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats tough..... I have a twin brother to and my parents split up when i was 15 so i can relate a little
But this lady is a ruthless homewrecker..... You should really talk to a pastor up there and get some spiritual adise for your family STARTin with your father
he is obviously brainwashed by this lady and blinded and I will pray for you man... that is really hard brother......... there is definitley a solution and You will find it
2007-11-11 19:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Livefor2day 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good lord. Call the local social services to check on your young siblings, give them your cellphone number, and get the heck away from that family. Make a new life for yourself. You seem reasonable. Help your brothers and sisters.
2007-11-11 16:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by MELBA1220 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That can be classified as abuse. Seriously. Situations like that WILL affect your entire life greatly; I suggest to first CALMLY and in a mature way to talk to both your parents (probably separately). If you receive more abuse, get a family lawyer so that someone you trust and is responsible can have custody of you.
2007-11-12 13:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by sk8tbrdswdtw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would contact Steve Wilkos (talk show) and embarrass the **** out of that b*tch! Sorry to hear your story, but it sounds like your going to need a team to organize and confront all the issues happening. I was serious though about Steve Wilkos...
http://www.stevewilkos.com/index.php
2007-11-11 19:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your mom, she needs you.Also realize your dad made his bed and he is the getting to sleep in it now.Your brothers will
either learn to like your step mom or hate her.This will detrmine where they want to stay.Tell your mom to pray for her family so GOD can keep them safe.
2007-11-12 13:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call social services and tell them about how she is neglecting your siblings. your dad and her are a lost case but at least try to save the little ones.
2007-11-12 13:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by ♥klove♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok man this is coming from someone who lived in a group home for nine years the best thing for you to do is call social services and explain it to them
2007-11-11 19:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by solidsnake031489 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong, and live with your Mother.
Maybe your brother will see the light
one day and wake up.
Pray for them.
2007-11-11 17:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋