Do Lap Dances count as cheating?

Question

Is the act of getting or giving a lap dances and act of unfaithfulness? No Religious talk please, just everyday opinion.

Is the act of getting or giving a lap dances and act of unfaithfulness? No Religious talk please, just everyday opinion. The reason I ask is because when my wife and I talked about this (after an event not involving us at a friends house) we noticed that we could not agree on it.

Answer 1

It depends on the circumstances. At a club or a party with other people around, no. If it's a private dance, probably.

Answer 2

I think it all depends on the couple. There are some guys who get off on the thought of their woman doing this to another guy...as long as they're both totally clothed. Other men would see it as cheating 100%.

I woundn't like it if my husband got a lap dance from someone else, but if I was there and we agreed to it, then I don't think I'd have a problem with it at all. Might add some spice to the relationship!

I think I would get turned on getting a lap dance from a girl, or giving one.

Answer 3

Depends on the relationship. Some people consider a lap dance just to be a warm up to what's waiting at home. Others consider going to a strip club to be cheating. Some people cheat together. It's variable.

Answer 4

I dont think so. Some wives are ok with it, some want to join in and some dont even know about it. Just as long as you aint touching, I think your in the clear. But why dont you have your wife put on a sexy outfit, some good musci and give you a lap dance? Then you can touch all you want.

Answer 5

You are asking this question because you are obviously feeling guilty. And you are feeling guilty because you know that you did something wrong.

Would you mind if your wife got lap dances from a hot sexy naked guy with a big package? Here you go. You know the answer now.

Answer 6

The answer really depends on what your partner considers "cheating". Some women don't mind and some will go ballistic. I personally don't mind my husband just "looking" but I DO mind if he gets a lap dance.

Answer 7

Any variety of sexual or emotional exchanges from somebody different than your better half is dishonest. If it takes faraway from or stresses your relationship...this is dishonest. the sorrowful section is you're purely dishonest your self! could you prefer your woman giving a lap dance to a distinctive guy? Why?

Answer 8

I think it would all depend on the relationship you have with your other half. If they are ok with that sort of stuff, then it would be ok.

I know my husband had one on his buck's night, but I totally trust him, as he does me, so I didn't count it as cheating, just boys having fun.

It is once the act goes past a lap dance, that I would class it as cheating.

Answer 9

Well I wouldn't consider it cheating. I think it is probably a personal opinion between the 2 people in the relationship. I know people who think looking at someone else is cheating. And others who can kiss others. It all depends on your view.

Answer 10

How would you feel if she had a half naked guy grinding her like that and 2 times as big as you ? people do have every right to say they consider sexual contact whether paid for or not with a member of the opposite sex to be cheating. They have every right to say that if someone wants to be in a relationship with them it is not allowed. It is also kinda far-fetched to think only guys who go to church can respect a woman and her feelings and not go to strip clubs.it is a sexual act