Should you forgive an ex who cheated on you and then the next day, he says he wants to have a single life?
Should you still be okay with an ex even though his break up reason is just a lie, when in truth he started liking that one girl?
Should you forgive that type of person?
Should you still be friends with him and act like nothing happened?
Should I forgive that one girl (who i thought was a friend) but end up betraying me in my back and act like nothin happened?
Should I still hang out with them and show them that Im good and nothing is bothering me?
Should I act fake or just ignore them?
Sorry if its complicated, but its hard to explain everything.
2007-11-11 20:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i can just tell you what i would do but you may be a different person... I'm really sensitive passionate and honest in a relationship so i could NEVER forgive the guy you describe... No matter how gorgeous he looks or how in love with him i am i could never give him another chance.... If i do so it would be like i don't respect myself.... You deserve a lot and i'm 10000% sure that you deserve a loyal guy that wil care only for you .... It may sound silly and romantic but i believe that we deserve a mate that finds us as important and precious as his life... I'm still looking for that guy .... Don't be afraid to be single... Single and happy women look powerful... You would be weak if you forgive him... THe best choice is to ignore him.... Make him disappear from your life !!! Good luck !!
2007-11-11 21:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - if they have treated you like that, they are not worth the title of "friend". No friend would treat you like that.
You don't need to be nasty, malicious or mean to them, or even tell them you don't want anything to do with them. Just stop hanging around with them. Don't answer phone calls / text messages and they will soon get the hint. If you have joint friends then be polite but don't go out of you way to be nice. The only way you will get the upper hand is to prove that you don't care - and the only way to do that, is actually NOT care (which is hard when you have been cheated on). Cut off as many ties as you can and make some new / real friends.
Good luck :o)
2007-11-12 05:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nicola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have your mind made up, sweetie. You can forgive him, but that doesn't mean you have to be fake. You don't even have to be around them at all. You should forgive them because holding grudges makes your soul bitter. The best revenge on someone who takes your man is to let her keep him.
2007-11-12 05:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sincere Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should forgive the guy but that does not mean going back to him. He has already demonstrated that he does not like you and if you allow it, he will treat you the same. Just move on. Remember you just ignore them, coz they did not put your feeling to mind
2007-11-12 05:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the other day i felt the same way, between the guy and the girl friend i chose the latter. . . .
in your case . . .
i say don't waste your time on them. . .
let it go. . .
move on. .
accept. . .
be happy. . .
2007-11-12 05:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by cahlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're better off just letting bygones be bygones with this one,let him live his life and you live yours
2007-11-12 05:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋