Why does she need to CONTROL? Why does she even want to CONTROL? She like DECIDES what I buy and she is like SO annoying! She wants discipline and bla bla bla like why the heck does she teach me this stuff that's what I learn in school and she's like wasting her breath for nothing. And when I tell her this she nags at me! And like she asks me to do something and then I say fine I'll do it so I like was switching off my computer and then in 10 seconds she said "can you quickly do it?" Like what the heck is wrong with her?
2007-11-11 21:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You sound like a typical teenager. Just understand that you are lucky to have a mom who cares. I was just reading a question about a mom that took off and left her child for an internet boyfriend. Be glad your mom is with you taking an interest. If you feel too smothered, try gently talking about the most important things with her, little by little. Maybe she will give in a bit. You will understand better when you grow up and have children.
2007-11-11 21:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mom seems to be dominant woman. She wants to be always under her command for whatever it is. There are times that you can't avoid to reach your peak because your mom is treating your like that. As a child you don't have the choice but to follow her command always. Try your very best not to answer her or be patient the best that you can because for sure both of you will have a clash most of the time. Study hard and always show her that you are responsible of all your actions so that when she sees that in you little by little she'll start mellow down a bit. Make sure you always prove to her that you are matured of all your actions. When time comes you can be on your own you can start to move out from your house. Start to live your own life without the control of your mother. For now just understand her side for whatever reason it is for sure it's for your own good because she loves you that much. When time comes you'll be a parent like her you'll will really understand her point why she's doing that treatment to you.
2007-11-12 06:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ĦЄŖ§ĦЄ¥☺ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, the current generation of young people are the most coddled, controlled ever in history. Parents are making a mistake when they do this. Some control is fine and normal, but too many are taking the over-protective mode too far and not preparing their kids for the real world. But you guys seem unwilling to stand up for yourselves, so there isn't a lot people can do to help.
2007-11-12 06:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom probably nags you because she loves you and wants you to make good choices. It's annoying now and I know it's hard for you to understand, but everything she does really is to help you become a better person. If you think her demands really are that unreasonable, try talking to her about them in a calm and non-confrontational setting. One day when you're all grown and you have children of your own and she's no longer there to support you, you'll understand everything she did for you and wish she was there to guide you.
2007-11-12 06:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Yggdrasil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your Mom is really stressed out with something?
Maybe with paying the bills? or something that you have no clue about?
You need to realise that theres a fine line between control & protection. Shes trying to protect you only because she loves you.
Sure, it can get bugging but remember that one fine day you'll be a Mom too... Put yourself in her shoes for a day........
Watch & count the million things she does.......
Be nice to her...you'll have deep sad regrets if you don't.
2007-11-12 05:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet her....please wait till you become a Mom.
Your Mom is too sweet for you. She loves you a lot. Have a heart for her. She dies , you will understand her love.
2007-11-12 05:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by JH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give her something to do or she is just over protected
2007-11-12 05:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Annoymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋