Whenever i see her i start dreaming abt her .She is so ravashing that i cant stop my feelings,as i cant do anything with her .I just cherish her in my mind and sometimes enjoy ,even i see her picture and sometimes masterbate .I know its bad ,but as i have no guts for doing something in real ,shld you think having all this limited to mind is ok ?As I have no intentions for making any advances to her.I tried to put those thoughts off ,but whenever we meet or talk fantasy start taking birth.what shld i do?
2007-11-11 21:41:54 · 18 answers · asked by vishi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
So long as your fantasy remains just so,it is quite okay.Don't translate it into action because
then is when the fireworks will start.Fantasize away to your heart's content but keep your pants zippered.
2007-11-12 15:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be attracted to other people, and to desire something new. But you are chosing stability and a family, and honoring your vow, which is good. But definitely put the breaks on the fantasy and masterbation about your wife's sister. Just imagine if your wife was getting off on pictures of your brother. It is disrespectful! You can actively work on this. Your thoughts won't be 100%, but don't masterbate about it. When you see the sister, put an awful thought in your mind, tell yourself it is the wrong thing to do or just think of your wife getting hot looking at your family member and hopfully your fantasies will diminish then disappear. You aren't helpless in this. Good luck.
2007-11-11 21:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it bad! I would start looking very seriously at the faults this woman has to put this paragon into perspective.
She may appear ravishing and wonderful but behind closed doors she might be hell on wheels to live with.
Get a grip. At present you say you have no actions to go with your fantasies, but the more you entertain them, the more likely you are to make a pass at her.
I would try and go out when she comes to the house or make excuses to be elsewhere.
Try and get this whole thing under control otherwise this fantasy will become a dangerous obsession.
2007-11-11 21:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Gaspode the wonder dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
multiple human beings contained in the international, i do no longer see a clarification for legal responsibility to have extra. You sound content cloth with the way issues are on your existence, notwithstanding I experience an urgency to make a range on it. opt for now to not and see in case you nonetheless experience tender with the determination. do no longer run out and get snipped or something till you're absolutely particular.
2016-10-24 02:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you I would say. Must be your wife's sister must be a bomb. Enjoy your fantasy and be happy. Stop feeling guilty as far as you are enjoying, since you cannot do anything about it.
2007-11-14 05:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you ought to stop your mind to oggle about orelse soon you will be in deep trouble...Try to communicate more with your wife and try to get more close to your wife avoid your wife's sister as much as you can. Try to be faithful with your wife in all means.
2007-11-14 16:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haaaaa
yaar its ok!!!
some time it happens
but keep ur so called fantasy with u and just behave like an gud hubby for ur wife
n one thing more dont enjoy ur fantasy alone
haaaaaaaaaaaaaa
u r too much yaar
2007-11-12 04:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheater,pervert,cheater,pervert
2007-11-12 02:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by hclover21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are as good in imaginations why not you assume your wife of her and full fill all your desires in doggie style as you cant see your wife face this way.
2007-11-11 21:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by J R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has its own sexual fantasy...but to fantasize with your sister's wife is not good at all.Better turned this fantasy of your to your wife it will help to keep your family and will give spice to your sex life...
2007-11-11 23:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by JOan Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋