This is the first Christmas in 3 years that I will have spent with my boyf and we're both very excited about it. I normally spend xmas at home, but mum was happy with me coming to see the family on boxing day instead.
BUT.. . she phones last night to say she wants to come up, stay in my flat while I stay the night with the boyfriend and then spend xmas day with us. From the sound of it dad isn't too keen. Second, the boyfriend probably won't be too keen seeing as we were really looking forward to it being just us in the mornng and then his daughter coming in the evening.
How do I tell him my parents have invited themselves to our christmas? I don't want to tell them not to come as spending Christmas together has always been a big thing for us and she obviously isn't ok with us spending it apart so is making the effort to come up to me. BTW we live about 2 1/2 hrs apart!
Thanks!!
2007-11-11 22:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by kittenwhiskers456 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So, have your own Christmas Morning on the 26th of December, save each a gift and do it that way. If your family is coming, that is what Christmas is all about.
If you choose not to have them there, then invite yourself there on Christmas day, you can still have your morning together, and have your b/f bring his daughter to your parents house for Christmas dinner , later in the day.
2007-11-11 23:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother you'll see her on Christmas Day and what time can you expect her. It's rude and pushy to invite yourself to spend the night at someone else's house without being asked. Do not let this become a habit.
2007-11-11 23:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes what lifes people live. Having a sleep over at your age and.... he has a daughter (I can't imagine what she thinks of dad 3 year old hook up with the new broad) The things people have to put up with today! Mom and dad must be so proud.
Stop playing house and decide if this is the real deal or not.
2007-11-11 22:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom and dad are truly looking forward that every physique of you be jointly as kinfolk on Christmas on the grounds that that party is a substantial party to all of you particularly your elders. i assume you and your boyfriend could make an preparations it truly is the two the two one in all you meet day previously Christmas Day or the Christmas Day itself which you think of suitable for you. what's substantial the two one in all you will additionally set time for yourselves even a pair of hours in basic terms and spend Christmas jointly even for a quick time in basic terms. After the seasons or Christmas Day the two one in all you could set yet another schedule the place you could have fun the yuletide season jointly.
2016-10-02 04:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by northcott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it is the holiday season, will it really kill you to spend ONE DAY with your parents????
I do not think so, plus, it will go by really fast, your mom will be sleeping in her own place, you and your boyfriend will still have your own private place, and then the next day, just one day, you will be spending it with your parents.
Maby they really want to bond with you and your boyfriend, and they want to see you really happy, this is a time to enjoy family, friends, and being together, and creating wonderful memories, life is to short, just be patient, and enjoy the wonderful day!!!!!
What is one day?????
2007-11-11 22:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly talk to your mum and say to her I have to check if thats okay for my B/F....If not tell her politley....arrange to meetup another day say boxing day...if she gets the hump about it well say sorry...but thats all i can do.
This is hard to pull of without offending try to be tactful...also if he is an understanding bf he wont mind if they come up...but i can understand its your first x mas together
2007-11-11 22:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ross 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mother that you have plans for Christmas, but if they would like to visit on Christmas Eve, you would love to see them.
2007-11-11 22:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with peggy....but tell your parents you'll visit them instead...
2007-11-11 22:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by essential 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just tell him the truth
2007-11-11 22:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by eyesicyblue 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋