Try and give a mature answer, please.....
2007-11-11 05:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by PRH1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no .. tru luvs out ther 4 every1
2007-11-11 05:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a 27 year old woman who has never had a real boyfriend and yes, I'm a virgin. I don't think there is a single black-and-white "yes" or "no" answer to this question. The answer to this question depends on many things. Such as your personality, the type of life you lead, the circumstances you're in, what your values are, etc. Taking ALL of those aspects into account can give a more accurate answer than a quick "yes" or "no" from strangers who don't even know you and your life situation. So, I think the best person to answer this question is you. You're the only one here who truly knows yourself. Personally, I don't think anything is wrong with me. The reason I haven't had much of a love life is simple. I'm not out looking for one. I've directed more of my energies elsewhere. I'm also shy and reserved, so I'm not the type of person who gets out on the town much by default. Finally, I have very high standards for the type of man I want to end up with. I'm not going after any old dog. So, when I put ALL of those factors together -- 1) love life hasn't been a priority; 2) I'm shy and reserved; 3) high standards for a man -- it's not surprising to see why I'm 27 yet have had no boyfriend and no sex. :-)
2016-05-29 05:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it was "normal" by society's standards. Perhaps the person is just extremely shy and/or picky. Or perhaps he is asexual. I had a female friend who wasn't interested in guys or girls. As far as I know, she's still a virgin at 34. Just do what makes you happy and don't worry about whether you're normal or not. A lot of "normal" people in the world are messed up; I wouldn't aspire to be like them.
2007-11-11 05:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes. The male just may be really shy, and has not put himself out there enough, or cannot get up the nerve to ask the girl.
I would suggest using some of the online dating sites, and attend every outing that you can that brings singles together. Let it be known that you are looking.
There is someone out there for you.
2007-11-11 05:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by madcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stress out about it... being seriouse "no" not in the modern age v live in. try going out and pretend to be some one else because being your self isn't obviously working for the person in question. mite get better luck pretending to be some one else!
then once you catch some one with the bait in due time you can ease into being your self.
If all fails remembar there is alway "mail order brides" nowadays. She's looking for a passport and you will have some one to fu ck a woman that you mite learn to like. and before you say it, it not like a prostitute! Lot of Asian Cultures have been doing arranged marriages for generations. and your just merly arranging this for your self ;-)
good luck to the person on question!
2007-11-11 05:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by KandyMan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much about whats normal or otherwise for your age; everyone gets to different stages in life at their own pace.
You are probably just a late starter. My dad was 30 when he met my mother; she was 19. He had never had a girlfriend either; they married within six months of meeting.
2007-11-11 05:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no such thing as normal, everyones different. Most 30yr olds probably have been in a relationship but its not something to worry about, just think if you were 80 and never had a gf, now thats worse.
2007-11-11 05:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's this for mature: NO! If you have never had a significant other by the age of 30, you don't possess the social skills necessary to interact with the opposite sex properly; waiting that long to consider a 'mature' sexual relationship with a woman was a serious and life-altering mistake!
2007-11-11 05:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
don't stress about it but just get out there and try some new things talk to people worth a try at speed dating or something why not even if you don't get a girlfriend you might get some new great friends out of it and they might have mates .)
2007-11-11 06:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by solving the worlds problems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it normal, but it isn't unheard of either. Some people are socially akward and shy and avoid situations like dating and intimacy because of it.
2007-11-11 05:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend...its not because I'm butt ugly, because I'm not but because I haven't found anyone right yet!! Seriously there are no decent guys around where i live! You probably have the same problem!!
2007-11-11 05:45:36 · answer #11 · answered by massiveshopaholic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋