okay. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this. There is this girl that i really really like. I am 15, and my parents are out of town the last 2 nights. i had a couple of friends over, not a party, just to hang out. she was the only girl there. I was trying hard to show her i like her, but i have never had a girlfriend, so i don't really know how to show it. She kept going in on my bed and saying how soft and comfortable it was. i tried to go in there with her to talk to her, but the other guys kept following me in. Last night, she was on myspace on my computer, and she changed her status update to say "i love dustin" then she grabbed the sticky note pad out of the desk and wrote two notes that say "gaby loves dustin" and stuck them on the computer. then she wrote one that said " I secretely want dustin" and put that between the other two. when i went to bed last night after she left, i couldn't stop thinking of her. ---please read additional details below---
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i layed in bed for about an hour and a half thinking of her until I could finally go to sleep. The point is, I don’t think I can go much longer without knowing how she feels about me. Do you think she likes me? How can I tell/show her that I like her. ?
2007-11-11 05:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by dustin_del1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but also, she is always saying that she is happy being single and doesn't want a boyfriend. how can i find out?
2007-11-11 05:31:30 · update #1
just straight up tell her.
on myspace,
in a note,
on the phone,
at another hang out,
where ever is fine.
2007-11-11 05:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by saidey k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my humble opinion i think she is toying with you because she already knows you like her and you're shy. Please don't change for anyone's sake! How old is she, same age as you? She sounds like more sofisticated...to say the least. Either that, or she's a kid and has no idea what she's doing. Else why would she come to an all boys gathering, when she saw she was the only girl around?
What i can promise is that eventually you will get the hang of it, but...if she's playing with such big words as love...i'm not too sure...Ask her, be direct and try to show a bit less interess in her. No discussing her with your mates is always a plus, no matter who the girl is.
In any case, you will be in for some heartache, but it is part of the process, trust me. And it might seem to be the end of the world at some point, however you will live to see it is SO not ;)
Good luck, hun, from the bottom of my heart.
2007-11-11 05:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by dearestm64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are Dustin then she like you. Ask her to do something fun together. Invite her over for another movie or for lunch. She sounds pretty aggressive though. Don't go farther than you think you should.
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She may not want a boyfriend, but she obviously wants some attention. That may also be code for, "I want to be allowed to flirt with as many boys that I want to"
2007-11-11 05:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to get her pregnant.
And if your name is Dustin, then yes she is interested. Though she also might just want to be friends. Sometimes you never really know, but in this case I would go for it.
If you're going to tell her, say it small, don't explode in her face that you love her. Ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend and that you like her. It's that simple, not just work up the nerve to ask her.
2007-11-11 05:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Adam S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you but still wants to seem mysterious about it. Thats probably why she wont tell you to your face. She is also probably waiting for you to make a move first.
2007-11-11 05:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dijah 16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your dustin then you just got lucky.
2007-11-11 05:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by knight32 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants you, so give it to her, j/k
2007-11-13 14:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋