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*He met her in December last year, she was dating someone else and he was dating me.
*Me and him split in April, very nasty sudden break up -hes gutted, Im gutted. We had talked about marriage.
*Didnt see him again and had no communication.
*She split with her man in July/August. They had been together a while.
*Shes just 20 and works as a model. Dont think shes earning much.
*Shes the dominant one. He was the dominant one in our relationship.
*He told me they had barely dated, just decided to get married after being together 3 weeks and got hitched on a whim.

Hes under a lot of pressure with work.

He told my friend he thought i was going to visit him (as we had planned for me to go in October) and that was the reason he married her!

When I called him last week he told me he hates me (err whats his problem)???
Her ex is still on the scene - hes my ex's good friend.
Anyway dont mean to sound like sour grapes but I admit Im gutted its like a slap in my face.

2007-11-11 07:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

He told me they are very happy.

Do you guys think it will last? Dont worry I wouldnt take him back now if he was the last man on the planet - still a bit gutted though!

2007-11-11 07:21:50 · update #1

9 answers

He sounds like an idiot who doesnt know wat he's getting himself into. I hav no doubt they wont only not last, they'll crash and burn.

2007-11-11 07:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by French Toast 2 · 1 0

I don't blame you. That is something that really hurts. You guys dated long enough to go through normal hard times. He and the 'model' married before they had to face those things. So really they made their decision based on mutual attraction. Who knows if that will last. Guarantee they will have hard times as real life occurs. I know it will still hurt when you think about it, but move on to find the guy that will stick with you. Your ex made a dumb move. Really it's probably best for you it didn't work out. Slowly the gutted feeling will fade. Men! grrrr

2007-11-11 07:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 1 0

Does it really matter if it last? You just said you wouldn't take him back. Know you feel gutted but time and distance will cure that. Move on and stop looking back. Take it from experience its best to let go and move on.

2007-11-11 07:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

She probably hates you and sees you as a bit of a threat. I don't think it will last though. She has probably poisoned his mind against you

2007-11-11 07:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi. 3 · 1 0

He's got a 50/50 shot, same as everyone else.

2007-11-11 07:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 1

i agree its a 50/50 chance!! if theres nothing between them why are they together!

2007-11-11 07:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by traxxword 1 · 1 0

I don't know the answer you are hoping for, but this ''union'' will not last long.

2007-11-11 07:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

who cares. he doesnt care about you. forget him.

find yourself a man who actually loves you and doesn't just say he loves you.

2007-11-11 07:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by zonkniches 2 · 1 0

If both are committed enough--then it will last...

2007-11-11 07:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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