I been seeing this guy... We ended up sleeping together recently... But I dont realy like the way he does it... He very sweet and nice but when he makes love he kind of does it very fast and not very romantic ... How do I get him to be more tender and loving? How to tell him this?
2007-11-11 07:05:49 · 18 answers · asked by Moi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like everything else about him then work with him. Guide him, if he's on top and going to fast then just place your hands on his hips and change the pace to your satisfaction. Then begin to kiss him on his arms and chest, lips to make it sensual. Lastly, play some music with slow beat to kinda get the temp going in that direction. Best CD for that there is a jazz cd that has all R Kelly songs recorded in jazz-no words. Good luck!
2007-11-11 07:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like it rough. Me being one of them. Maybe the last girl he was with liked it that way and he being a male assumed all girls like the same thing. Just tell him or if your not comfortable enough to talk with him like that, you can show him how you like it. Get on top and do to him what you want. He'll get the hint if he's not a total idiot.
2007-11-11 07:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by biscuit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe say that i want sleep or have sex or love u untill u b more romantic and if he doesn't like the way u like it maybe find another guy 2 b married 2 and date and have sex with. p.s. i am realy into the word sex, sorry!!!!!!!!
2007-11-11 07:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge, push him gently on the bed, don't let him talk and make love to him the way you'd like to. He'll thank you for it and maybe even learn a thing or two.
2007-11-11 07:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is too butter him up first. Tell him how nice he is and all the good things about him but then tell him what the problem is. Tell him that you will show him how to do it better if he's willing to learn(he will be). Give it a try.
2007-11-11 07:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up, maybe not directly, but be like, what is something you like in bed. When he says something, tell him you like romance, slow sweet love making. You can also be on top, and more in control.
2007-11-11 07:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by makennas_mommy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him,tell him where you like to be touched, the way you like, ask him for more kissing,another tip when you see he is about to ejaculate stop him or slow him down when he calming start again
2007-11-11 07:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by sandy3azul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more concerned about commiting the sin of fornication. You are mistaken if you think God is going to bless your relationships with this kind of behavior.
2007-11-11 07:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by JesusIsTheAnswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. He can't read your mind. Tell him things you like and dislike. Otherwise he will keep doing it the same way.
2007-11-11 07:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by jewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while in the midst of love making...communicate to him that you would like him to go slower...he doesn't ask you how it feels or if you like what he is doing?
or just tell him the next time you see him...or how about right now!!
2007-11-11 07:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋