ive been seeing this guy for almost a year already..we've been off and on again various times..its weird its like he gets cold feet about being seriously committed to me. First he'll be all lovey dovey telling me we're gonna get married soon and how he wants me to meet his mom..then after a few good months he'll start saying things like im not really ready to commit..this confuses me last night he told me that we're only friends again i dont know whats goin on in his head someone please help....
2007-11-11 07:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by Joy'Cee's Mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok-he is either married or there is something he see's in you that scares the living hell out of him. I dated a guy for about 3 months and he talked about the same stuff and then pof-he was gone. I called and called and finaly gave up-well about 2 months went by and I sent him an email cause that really buged me. He told me that we got on so well, he was scared because he never met any like me and wanted to see me-AND he saw the M word when we were together. Some guys are great, they can share their real feelings, others-run! period. This guy sounds like he is scared-he see's a wife in your personality-give him his space-but tell him he needs to stop plaing and tell u what is really going on! Good Luck!
2007-11-11 07:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has serious commitment issues. If you give him the cold shoulder he'll come running back after you. Hopefully then though you'll be the one dumping him.
2007-11-11 07:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, while you're on and rancid, what's the area of relationship him? seems such as you're actually not gonna get married or something, so why waste some time? yet for a small present, dinner sounds stable, you may get him a cd that he likes, or take him to a school soccer pastime while you're in college. or basketball... regardless of pastime he likes. different innovations; a tshirt, take him out to dinner, or you need to in basic terms watch a soccer pastime or w/e on television with him for as quickly as lol, that could recommend plenty to him. maximum suitable of success alongside with your relationship.
2016-10-02 00:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave this guy. I've seen on and off relationships eventually end sooner or later. It will never work out if he's confused all the time of what he wants. Relationship will never be stable.
2007-11-11 08:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's stringing you along by saying things he knows you want to hear. Let him go
2007-11-11 07:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by mommacat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he is not serious. That is cool. Just time for BOTH of you to move on.
2007-11-11 07:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by VY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting time with this dork? You can do better then this. Dump him.
2007-11-11 07:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him get away with it, why complain now?
2007-11-11 07:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not the one with the problem. Dump HIM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-11 07:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋