What should I do?

Question

I have a boyfriend, and he is AMAZING. And I don't plan on us breaking up anytime soon. Before we started dating, I confessed I had a thing for this other guy. He said the feeling was mutual but he was engaged so there was nothing we could do. It was obivous something was there, he always made time to see me. We talk almost every day. His sister even tells me we should be together (he and his gf dont have a very good relationship) Recently he confessed his feelings were stronger. I feel the same, but we both know nothing can happen, and we dont plan on anything happening. This past time he came into town, he told me he couldnt come see me cause he didnt trust himself around me.

Now, Im stuck. Yes, I'm practially in love with this guy. I know its wrong on both mine and his part. But it feels right.. But now, Im starting to think we should stop while we're ahead. Maybe I should just tell him I can't do this anymore. And that Im done..

Help me. What do I do? What should I say to

Answer 1

I think you know in your heart what you should do. But also look at it from both sides. If you care about your boyfriend and think he is amazing then I would say stay with him. The other thing you should realized when people get enagged they can freak out and try to find a reason why not to get married they start thinking about this is the last person I will be with for rest of my life and wondering if they would be able to find someone better.Are you sure he is telling you the truth about his otherhalf? Also make sure before you do anything that he is just not trying to use you as one last fling before he gets married to this other girl. This is something you need to take into concideration here. I do not know him but I would just like to caution you that this is what could be going on here too. There is more then just you and him in the mix you also have to concider both or your other halfs too. If it is meant to be for the two of you I am sure in some time it will be after everthing else is sid and done.

Answer 2

When you get out of the relationship you are in that you will se him other wise it would be best for you two to not be around each other without company.