Hey everyone i'm 16 from n.ireland :]
Umm well i'm basically just a very shy person and it's getting me down more and more everyday.
I started college 2 months ago and well I have friends in it it's just i'm not as "talkative" as they are and I have the feeling that they are kind of awkward when talking to me.. and I don't mean to make them feel that way :[
I'm just scared to be myself in case what they will think of me and I mean i'm a nice person, but I'm just worried they will think I'm boring because i'm quiet. :[ So I just hope they like me for me. And I like each one of them for who they are.
This is one of the reasons i've never had a boyfriend but I don't need one to be happy anyways lol... it would just be nice x]
This is one of the reasons I dread going everyday.
I'm also starting my first job tomorrow and I'm scared and nervous. I might be the quiet one.
Well I would just like some bits of advice on confidence or something and well yeah i'm upset about this now.
Thnx
2007-11-11 03:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just look at your shyness as a quality just as much as someone who is considered loud, its a positive quality. don't stress, just be yourself and relax. always ask open questions just to find out more about other people and 2 c if u have anythin in common with them, always express your view, and have more faith in your friends and be yourself. I can't really say much more, just embrace yourself in these situations, they will moments that will be sad but the more you do it the more comfortable you'll be.
probably not much help. but anyway!
2007-11-11 05:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just your proble,. many people experience this in school ,college or at work. you need to do is to try to be outgoing and more open. make sure you dont look like a fool in doing that coz people are used to you being shy.
if this fails, then be yourself and let them know with hints that you are like this. very shy. no you arent weird or arrogant but you are shy. let them know about it. they too will help you with this.
best of luck.
Krishna.
2007-11-11 04:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by krishna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are new to you as you get more comfortable you will open up. Just go out of your way every day to do something a little more out going.
2007-11-11 04:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi emma, im also shy around people, i always want them to find me nice and worry that theyll hate me or sumthing, but if u keep thinking like this ul never get anywher ein life, u have to just be yourself and people will love u for who u r,
2007-11-11 04:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by azil_jesani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a lot of friends and start talking make some story go join to others for chat be your self and be confident
2007-11-11 04:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by verdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to be shy my celtic friend, you look lovely.
Nessie xxxx
2007-11-11 04:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nessie from Loch Ness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy girls are cute. Don't spoil it.
2007-11-12 01:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im me i can help
justchatandplay@yahoo.com
2007-11-11 04:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by justchatandplay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am really shy around people and i care wat people think of me and my boy friend doesn't care what they think of us so i don't know wat to do can u help me?
2007-11-11 06:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋