Okay, I live with my ex-husband but I don't love him. We have 4 kids though. Well, I met someone who I really care for. We saw each other for a good while but there was just some things that I wasn't sure about. Feelings wise he had and still has my heart. We kind of drifted apart for a good while. And now he is seeing someone else and that is killing me. Did I screw up letting him go or do ya'll think it was for the best?
2007-11-11 03:47:07 · 2 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it probably was for the best. If your marriage is pretty harmonious and you get on OK together and aren't continually rowing, then it's best for your kids even though you aren't in lovey dovey love. Maybe a spot of marriage guidance would help to get you both through until the children are off hand and you can part amicably. As to the ex-boyfriend....you weren't sure about him so there must've been something seriously wrong at the time otherwise you'd have run off with him and your kids would now be extremely unhappy. Anyway, you made your decision (which I think was right) and parted from him. This is very sad for you but your children had to come first - so now you must put him completely out of your mind and get on with your life as it is. Hard, but again, the marriage guidance people could probably help on that score as well. The boyfriend should remain a wonderful memory. You did the right thing.
2007-11-11 03:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to think about your 4 kids. are they happy? things will work out the way they should they always do. you may just be feeling jealous because he has found some1 else and maybe somewhere you still love him but also somewhere you are just in shock that he could find someone else. you are still living together remember.
2007-11-11 11:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋