My dad was out one night and I was in the shower and she walked in on me she smiled at me and stood asked her to leave and ever since she has been making suggestive comments to me. what should I do?
2007-11-11 04:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by Axel C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear Alex,
Be firm and tell her that either she smartens up or you will be forced to take other measures. What ever you do, do not tell her that you are going to tell your Dad, because she will turn the whole thing around and say that you have come on to her. Be careful, and make sure you lock the shower door, and your bedroom door, even when your Dad is at home. Next, you need to speak with a school councillor if you are still in school, and they should be able to recommend how to deal with this situation. Good luck my friend.
2007-11-11 06:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Simbha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how what she is doing is wrong. Don't let her walk around doing what she please.
You need to let her see that you are really not interested, tell her, you respect your father (which I'm guessing you do otherwise you wouldn't be asking the question) too much to let her get near you and that you do not have any feelings for her.
Plus tell her that she needs to stop otherwise it shows that she is obviously not a good women for your father. No woman should be coming on to her bf's Son. If she really likes/loves your father that much, she would be sticking to him.
Don't be gentle when saying this either. Make your feelings heard to her. Have an angry kinda tone as you say it otherwise she is just not going to take it in. I'm not saying to try and make her feel hate because she thinks your an ogre, but if your soft in the way you speak, she will think you are a softie who doesn't really mean what you say. By all this I mean only show the feeling in your voice. Obviously don't do anything like lay a hand on her (which I'm sure you wouldn't but just tryna make sure what I'm saying is understood).
Lastly, if she continues and it really gets out of hand, you need to tell your father. But don't do it in front of her or anyone else, and tell him at a tim when you feel he is going to take it best. You don't want to make him feel angry or upset in anyway so make sure you tell him at the right time and place. But, only do this if she doesn't stop coming on to you and keep an eye on her around other guys. But, you must make sure you do not get paranoid in a situation like this. It's easily done.
I hope this helps and has made some sense to you and I hope everything turns out o.k for you all.
2007-11-11 12:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by BiggieD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, tell your dad asap
Love & Someone else's heart and feelings is something you don't play with.
If you Dad's Step mom is coming on to you, save your father the heart break, and tell him soon.
I have a friend that had the same problem, his step mom ended up molesting him, no sex, but close enough.
He's your real father, you owe it to him to let him know your Step Mom probley isn't the most faithfull person in the world.
2007-11-11 12:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like every guys fantisey. If she was hot id totaly do it. At the same time you could be opening pandoras box. I would definatly try talking to your step mom face to face without your dad around see if maye you can talk about what has been going on. If it was me id go for it (Pending how atractive she is)
2007-11-11 12:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Alien8w8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh i had basically the same problem
only it was with my dog
he walked in while i was taking a shower
and ever since that he wont stop following me!
i know how you feel
just lock her outside for an hour, thats what i did with my dog
and now he just leaves me alone
2007-11-11 12:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by typical taylor™ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to get out to that house( live out) you tell to your Dad he wont understand and he will not believing you.Its better to stay away w/o argument and problem w/your dad.
2007-11-11 12:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by verdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask he to keep the conversation appropriate.
2007-11-11 12:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probaly a test.
just dont react and if she keeps going tell her.
"this feels uncomfortable, ur my step mom, im your step son, this isnt right."
2007-11-11 12:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG ! that's creepy. likewhatkind of comments specifically ?
2007-11-11 12:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Live it Up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hold are you to begin with?
and also, that is wrong!
tell your dad, or tell her to back off and stop being a perv :)
2007-11-11 12:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋