So last night I had a friend (girl) over in my room, we're in a few of the same classes (here in college) and we've known each other for a while. Something came over me and before I knew it we were having sex. I'm not looking to get into any relationships right now, what happens next?
2007-11-11 04:31:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her and see how she feels about it. Whatever you do, don't try to avoid the situation bc she'll want to know that you're still her friend, even if you dont want to be her boyfriend.
2007-11-11 04:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....
Make up your mind...
You were just too hot that time and obviously, sleeping with your opposite sex could drive you in erotic sensation.
Well, she agree... you was not rape her.
Another thing...
since you are not yet ready for a relationship or any kind of affair, you don't have to oblige or make yourself be responsible to build an affair with her. Otherwise... it worth the sacrifice to both of you. However, you can try when you want to make you grow up...
hehehe... more sexprience isn't it?
2007-11-11 12:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Benoair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidents tend to happen, but she may not end up seeing it that way. You should confront her about what happened and see what her reply is. Things may end up being a bit awkward for a little bit, but after a while things should hopefully clear up. It's better than making a false relationship with friend to keep them happy with you.
2007-11-11 12:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to approach her directly, dont avoid her. Basically say..
"look, i'm not sure why what happened between us did, but really I'm not sure I'm ready to be more than friends, so do you think we could take a step back, and just stay friends for now, please?"
If shes a good friend, she will understand
2007-11-11 12:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you go on with your days like you have been. if she becomes clingy then tell her that you are not interested in any kind of serious relationship, but be kind because she can turn things around on you and cry rape. Don't treat her like a piece of sh*t. still hang out with her when you are around your friends, and things should be fine. Good Luck
2007-11-11 12:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's probably going to think you and she are in a relationship since you had sex with her. So you are going to have to be honest and tell her you aren't ready to be in a relationship right now.
2007-11-11 12:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so set on NOT having a relationship now.
The things we want, most often come when we think we dont want them.
This could be good one and if you shrug it off you might regret it later.
2007-11-11 12:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it was great but you want to keep being friends for now. Not looking for another girl just keeping on at your studies.
2007-11-11 12:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Well if you keep inviting her, she could become your "friend with benefits"
2. You could ask her out.
3. Just don't talk to her now..which would be kinda rude.
I think the best thing to do is to talk it over with her.
2007-11-11 12:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it casual, dont stop talkin to her though because shell think she did something wrong. Talk to her, and see what she takes from it...
2007-11-11 12:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by kristeen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋