romantically on and off with. The morning of the move I woke him up to explain that I was going to be home on my lunch break with the movers and we were going to move all my furniture (which would've left him with really not much, but I had to take everything because it was my dads) anyways he freaked out saying I was a ugly ***** for moving and started talking all kinds of ****. I told him "why should I stay here, we don't get along and it's not working out". Lots of yelling back and forth at one another, calling eachother every name in the book he took a knife out and cut my furniture. I was furiated. I ran to his xbox to show that I could easily break this if I wanted and it accidentally dropped out of my hands. This set him off in a rage and he ended up punching me in my leg. He broke my cell phone in half so I couldn't call anyone and I ended up leaving and called the cops. Now after moved to my dads i'm feeling guilty for everything. Do you think I should be guilty?
2007-11-11 04:43:36 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Amber 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also, just to let you know...I had told him in advance I was moving.
2007-11-11 04:52:03 · update #1
Forget what that jerk wrote about you looking like a s l u t for sleeping with your roommate. There are always jerks on here writing stuff and junk. Anyway, I do not think that you should feel guilty about anything. He punched you, cut up your furniture and called you names and belittled you. You are just sad for him and have a big heart. So forget the dude and move on with your life. You did the right thing and I think that you already know this. (smile)
2007-11-11 04:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all you moved in with someone who you had and on and off realationship with . you decided to move out because things weerent going well that is the mature thing to do. you told him that you were taking everything that you came in with which belonged to your dad. he started going off you and him got into argument and he cut your furniture than you broke his ex box by accident so you say. he punched you in the leg broke your cell phone so you couldnt call anyone you left called the cops. Now your with your dad feeling guilty for what you did what you had to do you were mature and he was not so there is know reason for you to feel guilty.
best of luck
2007-11-11 04:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you feel guilty ..You were not happy with the way things were so you made a decision and it was a good one from the sounds of things...The man went off on you and you don't ever want that in a relationship ..Throw that guilt out the window and get on with your life and DO NOT GO BACK TO THIS JERK no matter how much he tries to get you back ..
2007-11-11 05:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful ...you r alive and well...next time ...Let it all go..... Its not worth the price of a item you can replace...... The best thing you did was leave him .... Now you can live w/ happiness and not contempt...Look at yourself and know the bad decision was letting it even get to that point but take it at a learning lesson ... What you had was not healthy.....
2007-11-11 04:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need anger management classes. It would have been the adult thing to tell him you were moving in advance for obvious reasons. Breaking things and screaming vulgarities at one another? Physical abuse? Get on with your life and don't look back unless you want more of the same.
2007-11-11 04:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should feel guilty for your part in the drama. It takes two.
It sounds like you made the right choice to move out though.
2007-11-11 05:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He had no rite to hit you or (scream) sounds like a jealous/insecure lil boy!! I bet you won't hit your Dad, cause Dad will knock the crap out of him. A man who hits women won't hit a man, cause WE hit back!!! If 1 of my son-n-laws ever hits my daughters, he'd better be on the next flight to Mars, cause I'll find him!!!!!!! And they know that!!
2007-11-11 11:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no...he sounds a litlle crazy. besides, he had to know that you werent going to be his roomate forever. he should be a man and take care of things and hitting a woman isnt the way t o do it.
2007-11-11 04:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no honey you shouldn't feel bad. He sounds like a pyscho and you should have left a long time ago
2007-11-11 05:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you never should of slept with him..it does make you look like a s lu t. just calling em like i see em
2007-11-11 04:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by The One 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋