the last boyfriend i had about 8 months ago used to tell me i was VERY prude and i wouldnt let him do ANYTHiNG. and now my current boyfriend and i are veryy sexual and i keep telling myself i dont wanna let him do it cause im way too young, but somehow he makes me want him to do it. its really weird and i dont like how i am now. i tell myself im not gonna do anything with him and then when we hang out he tries stuff and i give in. someone please help me :(
2007-11-11 04:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after a little while, will i be back to normal and have more self respect and not feel disappointed in myself? will i be able to say no without thinking about it and be back to my old prude self! ((:
2007-11-11 05:06:24 · update #1
I don't know how old you are, but the things you describe are dangerous, STD's, pregnancy, ruined reputation. You were on the right track, and u can get back on! Once you begin intimate relations, it is almost impossible to back track, so to start over, you either take yourself out of any situation where intimacy could occur (being alone) or you find a new boyfriend, and start over with a new attitude. Please, rethink your choices before it is too late.
2007-11-11 05:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all if its with your boyfriend its not slutty! If you do not like the way you are now then you need to sit down and talk to him. Now, he may not take it smoothly since it has been acceptable to him previously. And please dont let a guy change you, if you were prude before and you liked it then you have all means to act like that, epecially if your young.
2007-11-11 13:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by RockStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt be pressuring you, your not a prude for not wanting to give into sex that just means you respect yourself go find someone who actually cares about you
2007-11-16 19:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by sleepdeprived85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactally how young are you? just tell your boyfriend that you dont want to do this and if he keeps doing it then the relationship wont work
2007-11-11 13:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just demand more respect to yourself and hopefully he'll respect you. tell him no, and that you dont wanna do anything. tell it to him not to yourself. if he understands then your fine if he continues break up with him cuz hes not worth it, if hes not respecting you
2007-11-11 13:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Capahoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in. I know it's hard but be firm and say no, if he walks you're better off.
2007-11-11 13:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by knight32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give in, and maybe your just a sexual person.
2007-11-11 13:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by cooldudejh12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋