Im not there with him because I wasnt invited...I trust him for the most part and I know he loves me and loves our marriage and what we have together...should I be worried about what hes up to...because I would find myself waking up at like 2 and 3 in the morning last night wondering what he was doing...I dont want to call him and bother him because I do want him to have a good time. If you are a happily married man(I know most of you would say you wouldnt go without your wife but this was a trip he had planned before we were married and theres a lot more to it)in Vegas without your wife what would you be up to?
2007-11-11 04:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by ChrZay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess the thing that ends up making me worried the most is the fact that it seems whenever he hangs out with these guys they have no set plan...to me a group of guys or girls with no plan usually isnt a good thing.
2007-11-11 04:48:23 · update #1
oh and him and his friends all agreed no stip clubs...my husband swears up and down he hates those.
2007-11-11 04:49:45 · update #2
I went to Vegas on my own once, my wife was pretty understanding about it but I have never been the type to fool around or anything.
I think the fact it was our anniversary upset her a bit but she got over it eventually.
2007-11-11 08:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I would go to Vegas without my wife. Why wouldn't I?
It is OK to do things apart from each other. Marriage does not mean you are connected at the hip, nor does it mean you have to stop doing things with other friends like you did before you were married.
Many people it does, and they usually get divorced, because life sucks when you try to live that way.
As long as their is respect in your relationship, you really have nothing to worry about. Does not matter whether he is in Vegas or at church. He is the same man in either situation.
And, so what if he did go to a strip club. What is wrong with looking at someone you feel is attractive? I assume he does not do this on a weekly basis or anything. As long as that is the case, you have nothing to worry about. Looking and fantasy is NOT cheating.
2007-11-11 05:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
Trust is a very very important part in a marriage or a relationship. You need to trust your love. I know that this is easily said than done, but you need to remember that if this was you instead of him on this trip, how would have he gone about it. Find something else to occupy your mind so that you are not giving into stupid thoughts. At the end, it is your marriage, and if you really strongly feel that something might be going on there, buy a ticket to Vegas, and go surprise him, but remember, that in doing so you might destroy your marriage for good. I know that this rumour about "What goes on in Vegas, stays in Vegas" makes even the best of us wonder what our mate maybe up to, but if all has been OK in your marriage so far, and you both are satisfied with each other, than don't give mistrust a chance to grow in your heart or brain. Not every male or female who has gone on a trip without his or her mate, has cheated or gone astray, so be optimistic and think positive. Good Luck
2007-11-11 05:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Simbha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You reported Macaroni Grill and that made me imagine you would like Italian? The Bootlegger on South Las Vegas Blvd has spectacular Italian nutrition and extremely upscale 'previous Vegas nightclub' ecosystem. They actually have stay leisure quite a few nights per week, i'm which includes the link if you're curious.
2016-10-24 01:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be gambling.
Everything else, one can get or do anywhere. And at least, with gambling, I have a small chance to get some money back.
Most importantly, I'm not interested in anything else. Well, maybe some of the entertainment shows. Lots to do in Vegas. Food tends to be pretty good.
2007-11-11 05:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister went with friends and left her husband at once. I was always wondering if maybe she did something unethical there. Well, don't worry.. some people might just really go with there friends somewhere. Its sometimes good for the marriage to get a break.
2007-11-11 04:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he was gonna do it in vegas he'd likely do it at home. really no difference. you either trust him or you dont. and he is either trustworthy or he isnt. was there reason to be concerned without the trip?
2007-11-11 04:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by kaffy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not go to vegas yourself..
go to a male strip club and look at what you're missing.
2007-11-11 11:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I'd just be getting drunk, gambling, and going to strip shows. I'd not cheat, but that's me.
2007-11-11 04:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by JOHN P 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Trust him,trust your love...and trust me ..he wont do anything wrong.
2007-11-11 04:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋