He is always looking at porn on his phone and lies to me saying his brother sent him an email link and thats all. but i know for a fact (having my ways) that he is emailing himself the porn links. He knows that I do not like it. I mean watching porn with me is one thing but every day behind my back and lying about it to me. What do you think? Is he losing interest in me? Is it a sign he might start cheating on me?
2007-11-11 05:04:03 · 16 answers · asked by TTC #1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tell him all the time how i feel about it and it doesnt stop. there were like 20 or so links that he emailed himself. and the thing that i dont get it way he goes to work at 4am and goes stright to these porn sites. i think its just weired. And yes we do have sex alot. Im 25 and he is 29 I thought at this point in his life he would be over that high school s**t
2007-11-11 05:18:08 · update #1
he was also getting pictures from this girl he used to date. (shirt and underwear, some with her ****) he said she just randomly sent them to him and he got reid of them but one day i was on his computer and all the pics she was sending him were on there.
2007-11-11 05:30:56 · update #2
You need to regulate! It's not cool that he's lying to you. Ask him why he feels the need to watch porn behind your back? Do you two have sex on a daily basis? If not, maybe it is his way of ridding his frustration instead of cheating. Just because a man watches porn, it doesn't mean he will cheat. Ask him that you'd appreciate it if you two could watch porn TOGETHER occasionally instead of him watching it behind your back. Tell him why it bothers you. If he still doesn't change and lies to you, you're better off without him because if he truly cares about you - he will change.
2007-11-11 05:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 21:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual and seeing sexual images turns them on which is why porn is so appealing to them. Normally I would say there is nothing wrong with a guy looking at porn. The problem I see here is that he feels the need to lie to you about it even though you said you are willing to watch porn with him.
I suspect that your boyfriend may have the beginning of a porn addiction and he needs help. Please be reassured that it doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you or is losing interest in you. I also doubt it means he will cheat on you since the issue is not his relationship with you, but rather an addiction.
He needs to seek help for his addiction. You need to decide if you want to stay and help him through recovery, or if it's time for you to move on. If he refuses to get help or change his porn viewing habits and the lies about it, you need to move on.
Good luck!
2007-11-11 05:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of men, and women too, enjoy looking at porn. It can sometimes be a turn-on and give you ideas about what can be fun sexually. Some may be jealous of a lovers use of porn, because they feel they are not as attractive in comparison. But you are real and porn is for the imagination.
He may view porn as having nothing to do with his feelings for you. It is a normal outlet unless it interferes with relationships with people. If it is obsessive and he withdraws from you, that is when I would worry. Do you think he has lost interest, has his behaviour changed? Does he just use porn for stimulation? Nothing wrong with that.
2007-11-11 05:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the same way. I went on his e-mail to get something that he sent to himself so I could print it and I clicked the wrong one and found porn pictures on it. I asked him about it and he said he only had them on there to show is friend cause he tought it would be funny.
You just have to tell him that it hurts you when he looks at it. You feel like he likes what he sees more than what he has. Thats how I felt and that what I told my bf and since then he hasn't looked at porn cause he said he didnt know that it hurts that much.
I dont think he would cheat on you, its a guy thing to want to look at that kind of stuff. Just tell him how you feel about it and ask him how he would feel if you were looking at porn.
2007-11-11 05:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every single guy looks at porn, i cant explain why men do this when they are in a relationship but they do, i wouldnt think he was going to cheat on you due to it. He probably isnt losing interest, he just likes porn.
2007-11-11 05:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably is his brother. my friends send me porn on my phone and email all the time. except its usually really sick and i send something really sick back to them.
and just because someone looks at porn doesnt mean they are losing interest in you. i never thought that when my ex would watch porn or "accidentally" put in porn instead of a different movie
if it pisses you off so much then dump him. its just that simple
2007-11-11 05:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of men are the same way. They like having they're collection of porn,Pictures, videos , dvds etc.. Doesn't mean hes losing interest. Remember, boys will be boys.
2007-11-11 05:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by AnnieL0pez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know maybe your not satifying him, because of that he's probably watching porn rihgt now. Or it might be that your bf just likes watching porn a lot and maybe he thinks watching porn with you will get you in bed with him. It's just a thought, think about it.
2007-11-11 05:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by cooldudejh12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching porn has nothing to do with you. If hes doing it that much it might be a problem, but i don't think it means he'll cheat on you or that he's losing interest......... just keep him interested with "your ways"!
2007-11-11 05:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋