Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

My wicked step sisters hate me and cause nothing but trouble for me and my family , they treat my mum like Cr&p and basically are jeolous of everything i do and my sister.

They really are a nasty pieces of work, they have turned my step dad totally agaist my other sister and my mum .

I am getting married very soon and i really don't want them there, but my step dad would be upset but he is blind to whatever hatefullness they cause and they can not do any wrong.

They only want his £££ and we just love him very sad people i am afraid to say and rather dangerous in there sneaky way of looking perfect all the time to him and making us look bad.

What would you do ????

Invite then or finally show how you really feel, they are awful to my mum who has brought them up from young as they are scrared she will get his £££ if anything happens.

My sister is already out of there family circle cause of them and my mum bless is in the middle .

What would u do ?

2007-11-05 02:31:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met this guy in a party a while ago, we chat a little bit but we didn't exchange number. But then we met again a few months later in a club, and I seriously wanted to have his number, he decided to give me his MSN since he has a boyfriend for 2 years, I took it without hesitation. We started chatting online every night, and one day he gave his number to me and wanted to see me, he called it as "friendly meet up", so we met a few times, mainly dinner, movies etc...until one night, we went clubbing, he hugged me intimately (he had a few drinks) which last like 20 seconds, I pushed him away because I thought it was inappropriate cus his friends were around. Soon after that, he text me that he has a serious crush on me too, I told him as much as how I want things to happen, the timing isn't right, then he suggest we should forget our feelings for each other. I am so confused, should I keep seeing him and hope for the best or just forget him and find someone else? I really like him!

2007-11-05 02:29:12 · 39 answers · asked by Victor V 1 in Singles & Dating

Am a quite person i spend most of my time either on the net or studying, around my neighborhood or at work i don't have female friends but i have few male friends at work and also at home but am shocked that some girls a around my neighborhood and at work keep on laughing at me, talking behind my back for the reason i do not know, i don't even talk to them. What could be the problem?

2007-11-05 02:29:12 · 17 answers · asked by simple 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this man for 5 years...we have a 3 year old son and have lived together since he was born. I have not gotten a ring and he does not want to discuss marriage. Our son keeps asking him why dont you marry my mommy.....even though I have no idea where he got this from maybe school? His parents have been married for 35 years so he does not come from broken home. He does not know a reason why....I know it is morally wrong...but am I wrong for wanting to keep the family together and I dont want my child to have to split holidays...we get along fine...but morally it bothers me that we are not married.....please help what do I do again he is a great man treats me well everything is great other than the marriage deal.....I am a christian but unfortunately feel guilty for the situation I am in but feel even more guilty for splitting up the home

2007-11-05 02:27:56 · 22 answers · asked by chickenorfish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents and I have been fighting every week about very trivial things. I am 22 yrs old and in 4th yr Engineering in University. I don't go home until about 10pm every weekday due to schoolwork, and on Fridays and Saturdays I come home later from partying. On Sundays I am not home all day because I still go to school to work on group projects. And I am always with my bf most of those times. My parents (esp my mom) is complaining about how I am not at home all the time, and how I am not helping around the house. Wtf? I always wash the dishes when it's my turn, and on Saturday mornings/afternoon I stay at home to cook and help clean around the house. She also said that "You are in my house, so you will live by my rules." I totally snapped at that statement. She went so far as to say that "You are not setting a good example for your little brothers. You're not always home and you don't help around the house."

2007-11-05 02:26:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've recently had a major healing in my life and now things are different. I'm living in a new place, have started doing new things. I no longer fit with the people I interacted with in the past. I used to be around a lot of very self-centered people who used me to get their own needs met and were never around when I needed them. Since I've learned to love myself I no longer want those kinds of relationships and am looking for more equality and mutual respect.

Has anyone else here gone through this kind of profound kind of change? How did you go about finding new people in your life? Did you just attract them or did you do something different? None of my old behaviors seem to fit me anymore - even if I behave the way I did in the past, it doesn't quite fit - if that makes sense.

Any insight that you can share would be most welcome.

Thanks!

C

2007-11-05 02:26:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that when you find out a woman is bi the first thing tou think of is 3****

2007-11-05 02:25:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and dad got divorced when I was 1 year old and i have never had a problem except for the back and forth.since i've turned 11 now 13 i've been fighting with my mom almost everyday.we might get in a fight about losing something and then she brings up my dad and says why don't you live with him.she also said a few days ago that she didn't want to see me anymore and that i didn't love her, but i do every child does.i am really mad that she said that. she even called me at my dads right after she dropped me off and said if you want to stay just call me and i'll bring your stuff over.when we were in the car she just kept saying mean things i didn't know what to say.i just sat there crying I didn't know what to do.it was the worst thing that has ever happened to me.you know my friend has experienced divorce and her mom is almost never there but this seems much worse.It is not good but i think im depressed and sometimes i have thoughts of just getting my life over with and killing me

2007-11-05 02:23:57 · 7 answers · asked by stinky_poo1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why doesn't my boyfriend purpose to me already? We've been dating over 2 1/2 years now. Where both in college and I'm not really sure when he'll be done but I should be done by next year. If he pops the question now I could be married while I look for a job. Why is it so hard for you guys to pop the question? My parents were engaged after 10 months. Why do guys move so slow these days? It's kind of frusterating. Please help me.

2007-11-05 02:22:22 · 5 answers · asked by shy girl 3 in Singles & Dating

My husbands grandmother lives next to us and will not leave us a lone for a second. She calls and comes over(walks right in) at least 5 times a day. Every time I leave the house she comes out to ask where I'm going and when I'll be back. She even goes through our grocery bags to "get ideas" for things she can buy. The last straw was I'm 7 weeks pregnant and not telling anyone yet. She walked in my house to see what I was making for dinner, picked up my prescription vitamins and read the label. Now she knows and is going to tell everyone. What do I say to this woman.

2007-11-05 02:22:05 · 9 answers · asked by klyn 2 in Family

I have never been happy with my breast size. And i have hear guy say that anymore than a hand fule is a waise do you guys really mean it? or are you just saying it to be nice?
all a girl would need to have a hand full is an A 34 or so and that is really small so do you men relaly mean it when you say anymore thatn a hand full is a wast?

2007-11-05 02:21:58 · 11 answers · asked by 57865985 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. So there is this guy, we practically grew up together, and I always more or less had a soft spot for him.
But we haven't seen each other that much in the past few years because he moved to another city. A couple of days ago, I saw him again after like 3 years, and he's stills gorgeous (maybe more), and all the feelings I had for him came rushing back.
He's always been nice to me and stuff. And sometimes he teases me. It seems like it's a flirty kind of way, but he's always been like that.
Anyhow, I have two problems. First I am very very shy, so it's impossible for me to do any kind of move (and there is also the fear of rejection). And Second, I know his family very well, and if anything goes wrong, we're gonna be bound to see each other from time to time, and I'd hate it to be awkward.
So, what do I do???

2007-11-05 02:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

arrite folks! I am seriously in luv with this girl. she is sister to one of my class mates. Once our batch at university was hanging out on a beach and this girl was a few face there. Upon inquiring I came to know she is sister to one of our class mates and honestly, it was a luv at first sight. Since we were total strangers so it was difficult getting to know her at first. However I managed to talk to her and now we are good friends. I want to take our relationship to next level. I have tried to convey my feelings but it appears that she is reluctant to respond to my feelings. She wants us to stay just friends. Remember she understands my feelings but she is reluctant to respond. She told she couldn't tell the reasons. We have been talking through SMSs only. We have met only 3 times and those meetings didn't last more than 5 minutes. Honest suggestion only please..

2007-11-05 02:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My life at home really sucks. me and my mom fight all the time, she tells me i was a mistake and she doesn't care for me anymore, and i live in new jesery and the amancpate law doesn't apply here and i need out badly, i really need some help.

2007-11-05 02:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by suferchick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I talk to my mil sometimes. Then I don't. I try to avoid her because she always is finding something silly to say when she is around me. The silly things are very mean and nasty. Why would she spend so much time trying to bring me down? Also, when she does these mean things to me they are done when no one is around or either they are out of earshot.

2007-11-05 02:13:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have an nineteen month old toddler, whom I stay at home with all of the time, he's not in daycare. Last night, I was sitting on the couch beside him and he was lying down because he had felt sick all weekend (stomach virus). He then got up, walked over to me, put his mouth on my arm and bit down as hard as he could it left teeth imprints and even a small rash the next day. I pulled him off of my arm, told him firmly "no you don't bite" took him to his room with the lights off and closed the door. That is the only form of time out I can use, it actually works. Then a few minutes later, I went to his room, he came out and I told him "you don't bite, that hurts, do you understand" he just sniffled and I kept repeating until he looked me in the eyes to let him know I was serious. Then he walked into the living room, laid on the couch, I ignored him and began cleaning the kitchen, and he fell asleep. Did I do this right? I was stunned, but hope he doesn't repeat this behavior. Advice?

2007-11-05 02:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by crymeariver 5 in Family

ok well i just put a deposit for a wedding dress and i found it somewhere else for $200 dollars cheaper and it comes with the make up and hair do for the wedding? on the deposit reciept it says that there are no refunds exchanges or refundable deposits what should i do?

2007-11-05 02:10:38 · 11 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Weddings

Short version of the story I have had a best friend for 10 years and she got this bf that has completely taken over her life setting him aside she take on average a week or more to call me back, after telling me she would be down for dinner on my bday did not come down. And she knows I am going through one of the hardest time of my life with my dad currently dieing of cancer. I just feel as though I can not count on her any more and this has nothing directly to do with him it has to do with her not being there as a friend for an occasional call/text/im/email. I need to tell her this but the only way I seem to get a response somewhat quickly is through email. I need advice....below you will find a copy of what I am planning on sending to her please let me know what you think

2007-11-05 02:09:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Wife of one year just stated therapy for a sleeping pill addiction a second time. Had her third meeting with the therapist Friday and missed it because there were to many people that had called in sick that day at work so she could not take the hour off. She was unable to get a hold of the therapist to reschewal as of the end of the day on Friday. The big thing they talked about the first day she went to therapy was that she had to make her 1# over everything including work and marrge. I am so disappointed that she didn’t go I just don’t know what more I can do make her relies how important it is to get the help she need. How bad is it that she missed her 3rd therapy session? Is this common in rehab situations? How do I get her to understand how important the therapy is to our marrge? I just moved back in 7 days ago!

2007-11-05 02:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by irishfirefighter762 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which i stated in my last question. i pulled no punches. i told her how i felt. i told her i feel very unhappy & that changes need to be made. she said she would try & make those changes. she never gave me a reason why she blew all that money. about the kids she told me that the kids ( they are nt my kids they are 4 & 7. i have no kids) shouldn't have a bedtime on the weekends that i am just overeacting. about the discipline, she said that she would try but says the kids won't listen to her & she's the parent!!! i wac told i can't discipline the kids. one day later her mom calls her up & tells her that her co worker is married to a guy that works w/ my gf. she says her husband told her that my gf was flirting w/ him. my gf denies this & told me she would talk to him the next day about this & her supervisor. she never did & gave me some bs excuse. i'm just tired of this crap!!! i'm starting to think that i was a wallet & i'm pissed. i may nt date another girl that has kids. help me??

2007-11-05 02:00:11 · 11 answers · asked by petey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of about 9 months was recently diagnosed as hiv positive about 2 months ago. It turns out she had it for years and didnt know it. I have been tested and came back negative thank god. But Im having a hard time with the sexual part of the relationship. I know there alot of people out there who have differnt hiv statuses and still have sex, but I have super anxiety about it. Give me some advice on what to do and how to deal with the anxiety.

2007-11-05 01:58:45 · 16 answers · asked by scaredbad 1 in Singles & Dating

and it felt a lot better than with a gut. is that normal?

2007-11-05 01:57:04 · 23 answers · asked by kaylarose 2 in Singles & Dating

So he doesn't like confrontation with his bm because she and her family will be mad at him, but what about my feelings. We live together, drive the same car, and they know about me. Why should I have to feel like a secret? When his son comes over he's with me. I buy his clothes and take him out every weekend. But he's more worried about what his bm will say than me.

2007-11-05 01:56:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although contributing to my sons wedding am informed my brothers are not invited, they don't know them well........
I feel hurt, should I kick up a fuss and risk alienating my son and his new bride to be?

2007-11-05 01:55:58 · 39 answers · asked by gailsgroups 2 in Weddings

my husband has lost his sex drive i think because ive put on about 3 stone .he isnt actracted to me any more but iam only a16_18 dress size.and weve been married for 10 years and have 5 children.

2007-11-05 01:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by big mama 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When out on the prowl for that special someone, what do you find most important -
Looks or personality?

2007-11-05 01:47:45 · 16 answers · asked by shez_a_maneater 3 in Singles & Dating

If you saw an extremely attractive female, both beautiful face and hot body, and very tall... with an average looking guy, about her height or even almost shorter, kinda chubby..
what would you think? would you think that there's something wrong with the girl would you think that the girl is blinded and ask yourself what's wrong with her she could do better or something like that ??/

2007-11-05 01:43:26 · 13 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend are extremely emotionally attached to each other. To add to it we live a state apart (8 hours). We've seen each other about 5 times in the 3 months we've been together. Obviously not nearly enough. Its starting to cause problems. Every time I go visit her its harder to go. Now, we both feel a part of our being is missing when we're not together. I really don't want to see this happen. We're both 22 years old and we both know we gotta finish school now. We're both Christians as well. She knows I gotta finish school so I can support her for the long run. We both know we're meant for each other but its starting to make me worried when she gets busy and can't talk I feel horrible and same for her. It's like I KNOW this is silly, and I know our love for each other is very strong but as a man what do I have to do to ensure that she doesn't get physically sick over this? I see her at LEAST once a month but I don't want to see this get out of hand. I get worried...

2007-11-05 01:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by wblack528 1 in Family

Hi, I'm getting married next year and I am just starting to plan everything, but I can't seem to find out exactly who should be wearing the same suit as the groom? I know that the groom, best man and ushers wear it, but is there anyone else? What about father of the bride/person who gives the bride away and the groom's father? Thanks for any tips!

2007-11-05 01:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by Hotpink555 4 in Weddings

Do you think it would be ok if I actually wore a bridesmaids dress as a wedding dress? I bought a dress at Bloomingdales for a hundred bucks but I am still looking. It' s a beach wedding and the dress is very casual. Kind of bohimian like. I just found a nice dress on davidbridal.com but it's for the maids. I am not looking to spend a lot of money. Any suggestions? Do you think it would be very noticeable?
Which dress do you think is prettier?

The one I have already - NO HAT! http://s71.photobucket.com/albums/i156/ozmarules/dresses/?action=view¤t=mydress.jpg

Or the one I just found for a hundred and fifty bucks - http://s71.photobucket.com/albums/i156/ozmarules/dresses/?action=view¤t=davidbridaldress.jpg

2007-11-05 01:36:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings