How do I tell her?

Question

arrite folks! I am seriously in luv with this girl. she is sister to one of my class mates. Once our batch at university was hanging out on a beach and this girl was a few face there. Upon inquiring I came to know she is sister to one of our class mates and honestly, it was a luv at first sight. Since we were total strangers so it was difficult getting to know her at first. However I managed to talk to her and now we are good friends. I want to take our relationship to next level. I have tried to convey my feelings but it appears that she is reluctant to respond to my feelings. She wants us to stay just friends. Remember she understands my feelings but she is reluctant to respond. She told she couldn't tell the reasons. We have been talking through SMSs only. We have met only 3 times and those meetings didn't last more than 5 minutes. Honest suggestion only please..

Answer 1

Maybe she likes you but is afraid she might have her heart broken. Or she might not like you on that level. You just have to try to move on!!

Answer 2

The best long-term romantic relationships start with people who are "friends".
So just hang out, have fun, and be friends with this girl until she is confident and ready to take the relationship to another level.
Quit trying to herd the girl into the bedroom or hump her leg.
The fact that she wants to spend time getting to know her beaus is really great, because it means she is serious about doing things right. When she does pick someone to make a committment to, it will likely work out in the long run.

Answer 3

Doc, just be honest and tell her how you feel. Think about it. . . .I'm sure some lady has told you at some time in your life she was interested in you romantically. . right? Whether you felt the same or not. . . I'm sure you felt flattered. . right? The only fear you need to have is the fear of never getting the courage to just tell her. If you don't ever tell her you have everything to lose. . . . if you tell her. . .you have nothing to loose. Be polite. .. be a gentleman. . . and be honest. I'm sure there is some fear on both sides of losing the great situation you already have. . . however. . . if you want to turn it up a notch. . . . that's a risk you have to take. As long as you are honest and treat the lady with respect. . . you should never lose what you have now. If she tells you she just wants to be friends. . . . well. . . then. . for now at least. . . you have to just let it be that with no further pressure. Good luck. . . look inside yourself. . . . be confident and not cocky. . . and you'll be just fine.

Answer 4

hey well i think you guys shud talk face to face a little more.ever hear that JT song "im tired of using technology,why dont u sit down and talk with me".yea u guys shud definately talk face to face more first.cuz wen u do u might realize shes completly stupid or u might realize shes exactly wut u expected.but it does sound a little to early to call it luv.and the hardest part is trying to tell her u like her.but u already did and she said she' wud rather stay friends which i think might have killed wutever chance u had with her.if u wana stay close to her jus b friends.i dont think theres a chance cuz she sounded like she made up her mind about it.but stay friends cuz u never kno she might change her mind later on.;> gud luk!

Answer 5

If you really want her to be yours, never force things as this will complicate. Take care of your friendship, show you care. maybe she is just unsure of who you really are. It's agood thing you communicate somehow through SMS. Never destroy her trust. Someday, things will be bright for you.

Answer 6

Open up your mouth and speek to her. Works every time.