Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

im not that good of a cook.. although i do cook and try my best.. i love 2 clean and keep everything in place.. he tells me that not everyone is a good cook.. but he does love my food.. we're hardly ever home.. can i get any tips of what i can do 2 better my skills in the kitchen... may i add hes the best cook and he actually shows me tips and cooks 4 me.. hes the best.. but i want 2 spoil him and cook 4 him..

2007-11-05 08:16:26 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I quit smoking. For someone else...well...for my health too but them wanting me to gave me the extra push to do it. This is something I've always wondered anyway...how long will I taste like an ashtray if someone kisses me? See I'm kind of worried that the taste might linger or be detectable by a non smoker even if I haven't smoked in over 24 hours and brushed, chewed gum, etc by the time I see him...and I really don't want him to think I am just lying about quitting...and I'm kinda crazy about him lol I'm just worried that he would be so turned off if I taste like an ashtray that it would stop any kind of relationship to develop. I know if I didn't smoke and I kissed a smoker...I'd probably just be totally turned off regardless of looks and look at it as a bad experience I wouldn't want to have again, but thats me...so that is why I really want to be sure...if I'm still going to taste like a smoker after over a day of no smoking, then I'm going to put off meeting up with him...

2007-11-05 08:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by bean 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you have odd/taboo fantasies? Which have you acted out? When? With whom? Who's idea was it? How did you enjoy it?

2007-11-05 08:15:22 · 7 answers · asked by momtosaraandscott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys do you think girls are prettier with makeup or without?

2007-11-05 08:13:44 · 18 answers · asked by XoXMsSXoX 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to buy some cigarettes today, and i got asked for i.d!!!!!! i burst out laughing and asked if she was joking, this was met by a very stern face! i showed her my wedding ring, and car keys ( thats all i had on me), and eventually she begrudgingly handed them over, is the biggest p*** take you have ever heard of??im 33!! still giggling.

2007-11-05 08:11:39 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a senior in high school. I have gym last block of the day. Today I was late getting back into the locker room to change b/c I was talking with my coach. When I got back in to change I heard a noise behind the wall in the locker room. When I go to leave I pass by a classmate of mine and a freshman! They are having sex in a shower stall with the curtain wide open. I'm pretty sure they didn't see me so I just rushed out of the locker room. The boy is in my grade so I'm pretty sure he's 18. The girl is a freshman! So if I told what I saw he could get into some serious trouble. Should I keep my mouth shut?

2007-11-05 08:10:25 · 9 answers · asked by Brandi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 08:09:47 · 74 answers · asked by jenarul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my now soon husband have been togther for over 2 years. To make a long story short...he has a child with his ex. He has done alot of bad things to me....for a year he was trying to get back togther with her and SLEEP with her fool around behind my back. A million times I have forgivin him.. of the things that he calls mistakes. They keep happening I always check is phone. One nite I came home he had a naked picture of her in his pic mailbox from her name and number but once again he claims that I would be leaving him for a mistake. It was n accident...this happend about 2 weeks ago. All this stuff is not new hes pulled this before alot of times. He saids baby I promise I will never hurt you again. Words get old after you hear them over and over again if anyone knows what I mean. Am suppost to get married in a few days!!!! All this revolves around his ex in the past and now, he claims he hates her...I think different. Do you think he is a cheat????

2007-11-05 08:08:59 · 12 answers · asked by mommy08 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Our dog, a pitbull mix my husband picked out and we've had for 6 years, recently bit my husband and today she tried to bite me, we have 2 young kids and I don't know what to do. I think I should have her put down because I really don't know any other options, what would you do? All shelters in my area put down pitbulls anyway and I don't feel comfortable giving her to a friend or family member because she might bite them.

My husband says he doesn't care.

I just don't want to be the mean b*tch? what should I do?

2007-11-05 08:08:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how much does a girl do it

2007-11-05 08:08:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend keeps going on about how she feels pathetic still being a virgin at 18.I've been reassuring her that she has nothing to worry about and that the time will come but she won't listen!Recently shes been talking about just doing it with some randomer to get it over with!I think she'd be making a huge mistake!!
I'm 19 and only recently lost mine to the guy I love and it was perfect.This is how I know the importance of waiting for the right guy!
I'm so afraid she'll do something stupid that shes going to regret!I don't know what to say or do!
How can I convince her to hold on?
I used to feel like she does now until I met my bf and he showed me what real love is!He was so gentle and the first time with him was really special!
If she does lose it to some guy she picks up she'll be robbing herself of a special first time!!
I don't want that for her!


I just want her to see that if she waits until she meets a really great guy that loves her it'll be perfect for her!

2007-11-05 08:07:23 · 36 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2 in Singles & Dating

Last year my strings teacher at school told the class that he was horny and it kind of freaked me out a little because thats not something a teacher usually tells a bunch of 7th graders (mostly girls) class. He said it kind of quietly though so I'm not sure how many other people heard it. I have him again this year and he hasn't said anything else since that one time. He does however tend to come pretty close to me when I ask him a question and helps me play my violin which involves coming from behind me and putting his hands and mine while I play....which is a little too close for comfort for me. He does this to a couple people but I feel like he is doing it more to me than anyone else. Hes like in his 50s by the way. Should I be scared or am I overreacting??What should I do?

2007-11-05 08:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

dont think i have to explain

2007-11-05 08:06:12 · 50 answers · asked by Northville07 3 in Singles & Dating

I am christian and my boyfriend is athiest and I want to have a wedding. But I dont want to make him upset by taking about it.

2007-11-05 08:03:44 · 22 answers · asked by bloody tear 1 in Weddings

She only comes around when things are not going well for her ie no money,no food,.Her husband does work but he is 35 and works a very low paying job so they have a hard time paying rent etc.When things are good(when he desides to do work on the side) she never calls or comes around when things aren't so good she calls and talks about leaving him other guys blah blah.I am married happily with two small children and I don't need her drama.I am debating on inviting her for dinner because I know they don't have food and she has a 2 year old who needs someone to look out for him.What would you do would you disconnect,call dhs,what would you do?
the baby has grandparents but she doesn't tell them how bad things really are.

2007-11-05 08:02:09 · 2 answers · asked by what did you say 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have known him before i met my best friend then they met and now she doesnt like him if i talk to her or ask her for advice about him she just starts talking negative about him!

2007-11-05 08:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by simple me ;) 1 in Singles & Dating

i was driving around with a friend last night while she was on the phone with someone else. the person on the phone was a guy who was hanging out with two girls (one of whom i like).

anyways, my friend told me that she said hi through him to me. all i said back was "great", which, was sorta stupid.

anyways, i initially thought this was probably good. but, could it be bad, maybe she was making fun of me? i mean, she knows i like her. perhaps she thinks its funny i dont say anything to her, and was saying "hi" as a joke to get my hopes up? the guy who was on the phone likes her also, and he randomally told one of my other friends a few weeks ago that she "didnt want to go on a date, but wouldnt say no, because shes not that type of person.."

i see her quickly glancing at me in school, but idk. maybe she just wants to make sure im not looking at her?

oh, me and the girl with me are seniors, the others are all sophmores

2007-11-05 08:00:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are moving and he wigs out.

2007-11-05 07:58:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to know your opinions and how you view virginity. Many people see it as never doing any sexual acts, others as never participating in intercourse, others as your hymen has not been broke.

Personally, it does not matter to me whether I am considered a vigin to people or not... but... I am a lesbian, have never had sex with a boy, but done everything with a girl you can with just about every toy.

Your opinions?

2007-11-05 07:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my entire life, no girl has ever been interested in me. Is that weird?

2007-11-05 07:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is in my group of friends and I am trying to get to know him better and be more comfortable around him so I won't be so shy.

Sometimes when I hang out with him I have good conversations and we feel like good friends. I will smile and wave when I see him and he will smile and wave back.
Other times, when we are with our whole group of friends, he seems to ignore me and I don't talk to him very much because of this. This in turn makes me feel shy around him because I think he may not like me. But then if I see him the next day I start talking to him and we have a good conversation and it makes me happy. Then the next day we may not talk at all.

So basically I'm going back and forth between he likes me, he doesn't like me, and I feel stupid that we talk to each other sometimes but not other times.

Some friends (these friends don't know him personally) tell me he likes me but he just doesn't know that I like him. What should I do?

2007-11-05 07:50:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have taken in a 15 year old girl who is in need of a lot of help. Because of her past family life she is a master at manipulation, and a practiced liar too. She has a way of saying things that are believable, one of the is "Everyone can tell when I lie, so I don't do it!!"
I work extra hard at letting her know that she doesn't have to lie to me, I am not the type of person who flips out and yells my head off!
I want her to know that each lie is making it harder to trust her.
I know that people can't change over night, I need suggestions on how to go about getting to know the REAL HER, and helping that person, not the many that she shows at will! She is just too good!
She is failing school, and no matter how much time I spend with her at home, she still takes advantage of the extra time to be be lazy. SO all of my efforts are lost!
I am desperate to help her become a healthy young adult who will have a chance in this cruel world.

2007-11-05 07:44:55 · 6 answers · asked by Tonia M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friends husband has a personal page on an online dating site. He has himself listed as a single person. My question is, should I tell my friend about her husband's page on this site? I'm thinking that I may ruin my friendship with her for not telling her as I knew about this page for about a year. I know, I know, I just didn't want to cause any static in their relationship. This is tearing me up because my friend and I are real close, she was there when I delivered my daughter and if I go on to glory, I want her and her husband to raise my kids.

2007-11-05 07:44:34 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki 6 in Friends

My b/f broke up with me today but he never would hear me out. What should I do leave it alone or pursue him? I really do love him.

2007-11-05 07:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made a really stupid decisions?or maybe i should say a lot of stupid decisions.I got married right before i turned 21 yrs old and still in college.My husband was the perfect christian type guy that my parents and family had always wanted for me.He was almost done with him masters at age 26 and had a very good job at an insurance company.I was trying desperatley to forget my first love and bf who had been my first everything in HS(senior year).I had been on a few dates with other guys nothing serious and i even dated one guy for about a year but he moved to a different college so we broke up.My ex.bf came back to me for a fling i went along with it for a while and i ended it because it was taking its toll on me mentally /emotionally.My problem is even though my hubby is a good guy in his own way i dont feel in love with him?I feel for him as a close friend but no matter how i try i cant feel (love) in that way for him...Even after seeing a therapist a few times?

2007-11-05 07:42:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a college level math class, "For School Teachers." Semester's over around Dec. 10th, give or take.

Anyway, class doesn't have much content. Quiz every two weeks, and final at the end. There is HW, but it's not graded.

We've had five quizzes so far, and you get to DROP your lowest score.

I've done well on two, poor on two, and one iffy. But I can / will drop one of the "poor" ones.

My scores (out of 100): 41, 37, 88, 73, 63 = 302 / 500 = 60.25% (D-).

DROP one.

My scores (out of 100): 88, 73, 63, 41 = 265 / 400 = 66% (D+).

That 41 f'ed me up. Anyway, so with a 66% on quizzes and one or two more to go, plus the final....and last day to drop is Nov 16/17... how am I doing?

Would you finish it out?

2007-11-05 07:38:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 07:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by April 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want a winter wedding, inside, by a fireplace. Somewhere in Massachusetts and Rhode Island. It can't be too expensive because i have a tight budget. If not in Mass or RI, then Conneticut.

2007-11-05 07:37:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I printed everything out. Why won't guys just admit when they cheat. WHy would someone cheat on a wife, and deny the whole thing?

2007-11-05 07:33:49 · 28 answers · asked by Karmin T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is the history....i`ve met this girl a loto of time ago, we go to the same church and my father is the pastor....my mother told me that she noticed that this girl was in love of me or seemed to be a little bit interested.... ok.she is 14 old and i`m sixteen old...she already knows that i like her because she read it written in one of my notebooks it was a coded message and she decoded it. so.. since that happened i haven´t tell her anything more about it because i dont know what...i mean.. i dont beg her to be my girlfriend because i think we´re too young and we should wait some more time...then what should i tell her we should have??...which kind of a relationship...-friends just friend- or -a relationship to get to know each other better-. i just dont want to hurt her...and i dont want to lose her .... :-(
hope you guys give me a good answer to my question... 10 for the best one !!!!

2007-11-05 07:30:26 · 5 answers · asked by theBest 1 in Singles & Dating