Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

well there's this guy in my european history class who's like in love with me or something. he hasn't told me but i know he likes me. he even gets annoyed when i mention my current bf, who's a football player, during class. i'm not even friends with the guy, he's just always staring at me and stuff. so sometimes me and my friends text each other about him being annoying and such. we burst out laughing when we heard about him hooking up with fat @ s s chick who's legs wobbled together. the whole class laughed actually. she was so you know, WIDE. it was disqusting. but i would definely not go out with him after that. my reputation would be ruined. he obviously has bad dating tastes. and he has all this acne on his face, and he walks&talks weird, and he's into tattoo's and stuff. he was pratically drooling over a poster of this freaky girl covered in tattoo's. N A S T Y. he is so not my type. i only date cute jocks anyways. but anyways, what can i do to keep him from stalking me.

2007-11-05 10:16:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i caught my man emailing another woman sexual things... he claims it was nothing.. he never physically cheated on me an he says he is very sorry. i know he loves me an he is not talking to her anymore, but i cant seem to get it out of my head. somedays i dont think about it all but other days it jus makes me sick. i dont wanna lose him an i am giving him another chance cuz i love him alot. i jus need some advice on how to get it out of my head so i can go on...i do trust him theres jus that lil part of me thats scared he will do it again....

2007-11-05 10:14:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a four year relationship with an 18month old baby, i'm unhappy but going along with it for the sake of the child. I have a dog which the guy has grown to hate. he keeps yelling at and hitting the dog, sometimes when i'm not around. the dog now flinches when I approach him you see? so I warn him not to hit the dog again or I'll report him and he'll get fined for it. he says if I betray him by reporting him the relationships over because he sees it as a betrayal. i think i would be betraying my obligations to protect the animal from danger and harm if there's any betrayal at all. would you call his bluff? what would you do? getting rid of the dog is not an option, he keeps me sane and he's my child 'friend', he loves him. what do i do?

2007-11-05 10:11:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey people..Well last night..I was thinking about my past & all.
Well This I kno through a friend of mine. He is 25 or 26..Well i texted him only because i was thinking about him & Only because his # is in my phone.
Well anways, Everything went fine until i asked him''do you want me to go?''He texted back saying''yes Or you can listen to me beat off!''
I didn`t know what to say @ that point So i`m just like Ok.
I was a little horny too.
I didn`t have phone sex with him Never have had phone sex.
I`m just wonduring I have`nt talked to him or seen him in about a year & I just now feel like i have feelings for him
I wanna see him But he is too old for you.
& Plus i really think he is cute.
& Also i think he is mad @ me for blowing him off & not texting him back for ''doing phone sex'' do you think i should tell him i`m sorry or just let it go?

2007-11-05 10:10:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I'm 21 he is 20....he is like a brown skin bratt pitt...perfect body saw him in the gym....green eyes.
just a beautiful person created by god.

I went up to him to talk and he had braces....I was so surprize any idea?

2007-11-05 10:01:37 · 42 answers · asked by MNNNN 1 in Singles & Dating

He dumped me a couple of days ago,he called me 2day,and i told him to ring me back,i sent him a txt because i was drunk and upset asking him to come and make love to me,then he rang me back after saying he wants to,he said he is coming tomorrow at 8,if i've been dumped then why does he want to make love to me?

2007-11-05 09:57:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u love someone and they in jail should u wait for them?

2007-11-05 09:56:58 · 9 answers · asked by sweetdime 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been married for 6 Months and have been together for 7 1/2 years. Just recently his mom had a stroke, and it has taken a toll on our marriage as well. i don't want to sound selfish about this because i really love his mother. I know he is going thru alot i wouldn't think so much about this if we had not already been thru this before. he once cheated on me about 2 1/2 years ago, and the same things we are going thru now seem to be the same way everything happen before. The only differnece is his mom being very sick. Can someone please help me out.

2007-11-05 09:55:08 · 8 answers · asked by Peaches 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she wanted to know that if by getting married she can work in a factory or in other words have the right to work in a place where they only accept 18 year olds and over. Supposely getting married gets you emancipated when you're underage, so she wanted to know does that give you the right to get an apartment under your name, get a factory job, get a car under your name, ect. ect. Can anyone help? Thanks!!

2007-11-05 09:51:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Left my marriage 7 years ago,got away from a controlling man after 13 years of marriage,hardest thing I have ever had to do,but needed to get back to being me again.Since then,havent been in a relationship...my own choosing,just not found the right person.I have a good family and social life,good friends etc....but am beginning to resign myself that love will not come my way...and before anyone says it ....I do not need a man to make my life...I look at it as enhancing my life...so...can love pass you by?

2007-11-05 09:48:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 years of age and have been married for only 3 months. Before I met this man I lived a different life in a different Country. I was (and still am) attracted to good looks, and guys with a lot of money. The man (32 years of age) I married is not exactly the most attractiv, but I decided not to judge by looks. It is the person I married, but he has totally changed. He earns alright, but he wastes his money on stupid things. And I can't see much of a future if he keeps on doing this. Because I am stuck with the bills. I am paying off a car. His car is a piece of sh*** and doesn't work. I am working 6 days a week nowadays, 2 different jobs and studying, and doing all the house work. All he does is work, sleep and eat. . And there is nothing happening in the bedroom. I have so many goals, like completing my studies (accounting), buying a house and having a family. But if he keeps on wasting his money like that, I don't know if this has a future. Please tell me, what do you think?

2007-11-05 09:48:58 · 13 answers · asked by msdeluxe57 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy in my class and i think hes really cute and ive tried talking to him but he doesnt even notice me...im not the kind of girl guys ever really approach and when i try to approach them,i get no where....i dont know what to do to get him to notice me.like what can i say? how can i get him to talk to me and maybe even hang out? also are there any physical changes can i make?

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2e0lope&s=2

2007-11-05 09:47:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I like and I thought he liked me too. Before it seemed like he wanted to get to know me more, but now he doesn't talk to me as much. I don't know if it's because he never did like me or if he is giving up because he doesn't think I like him. Anyways though I really like him, and I want to know if he does/did like me or if he likes someone else. I don't really want to ask him myself because it would make things between us very akward. I don't want him to know I like him unless I know he likes me back. How should I go about finding out if he likes me or who he likes?

2007-11-05 09:45:45 · 28 answers · asked by Cleveland! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 09:44:35 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend for a over a year just recently broke up, but its not the first time. he started hanging out with dif. people and changed, he told me to "let go" but yet he calls me every single day atleast 2 times, but i havent answered it. im trying to make him realize that im not there whenever he wants me to be anymore...so does anyone know what i should do...talk to him or just keep him thinking? i want him to be the same person he used to be..so i guess making him think im not here or dont care anymore will make him want me back and will change the way he is...does anyone know what i should do or where im coming from?!

2007-11-05 09:43:51 · 1 answers · asked by loveisallyouneed. 2 in Singles & Dating

When I used to go out on the town with my buddies (about 3 years ago) I didn't do as well as these two who were far and away the Casanova's of the group. We were all about equally physically attractive (give or take). They were much better at the small talk.. I wan't good at staying in small talk and would progress away from it quickly making me look too serious. So I figured I wasn't much of a ladies man. Anyway now that I'm married the situation is different. I have a number of very attractive female friends (all single) who are very friendly and familiar with me. I can feel the sexual charge and they keep getting as close to the line as possible without crossing it. Meanwhile I don't think I am doing anything differently except not trying to pick them up. Can anyone explain this? Am I delusional?
If not delusional: did I change or did the ladies change?

2007-11-05 09:42:27 · 7 answers · asked by nol b 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy i liked got bitched at by my mom because of something i did and i told him i'm sorry and he was like its no big deal its really ok but i told him i would make him cookies because i feel bad,haha,would that be sweet or just creepy if i did that?Cause i think it would be a good idea,cause i just like making him feel good..but i just want a 2nd opinion:)

2007-11-05 09:39:36 · 30 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Friends

I'm 15 and am curious about politics. It seems to me alot of people don't really understand politics, and might side with them without even really knowing their background. I'm bringing this up because I was talking with my dad today, who unfortunately is a close-minded person. I asked him if he liked Hillary Clinton and he said no. I asked him why and he really couldn't come up with an answer. I don't want to be like that, so how can I understand politics better?
Thanks

2007-11-05 09:37:09 · 7 answers · asked by Catch 22 2 in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend said today that needed a break for a couple of weeks...

To me that means he wants to shag someone then come back to me OR just dumping me && using a perfetic excuse!!

He also said we can still be friends ????? Why would you say that if he just said he wants to go on a break! He chatttttts!

Does this mean to you that he is basically dumping me?

2007-11-05 09:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by no name 3 in Singles & Dating

I believe in marriage and family although my husband had an affair for 2 1/2 years. They lived together and it was just sexual...no emotional attachment from him. He let her into our home once when I wasn't there. I know he lies because he denies stuff that she says when she's not around, but doesn't deny it in front of her.

We have a 21 year history together and I believe in "for better or for worse". I believe we can get past this and our relationship will be stronger because of it.

The only question is, can we truly forgive and forget? I told him that I will do it and will forgive EVERYTHING he did to save our marriage. Has anyone else done this? He said he will do anything to make it work. He moved home last night and will not talk to the other woman again.

2007-11-05 09:29:42 · 24 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to a frat house the other night with 2 of my bestfriends. i had never met anyone from there before. but i knew the rule at the KA house was 18 & older. anyways, i didnt say i was 18... i said i was 17 & a senior. & that was okay with him. but really im 16 and a sophomore. my bestfriends are juniors & 17 but lied anyways too. but i ended up getting along really good with this one guy. hes a freshmen in collage. and we hooked up. hes been calling me & messaging me on facebook asking when we can hang out next. im going to tell him the truth because i want to be able to hang out & be honest so we can get closer. what would you say to tell him the truth? i dont want him to get really mad. but is there like a cute way to be like..i lied to you cause i really liked you? haha. just let me know. & if you were a guy...would u forgive me?

2007-11-05 09:25:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would like a ps3, but my gf is 20yrs old and works part time at sonic cause she also attends college, so how do i hint to her what i want??? and do you think a ps3 it too expensive.
I've bought her some expensive thing, just off the top of my head i can think of 2 pomerianians puppys(she killed the1st one)

2007-11-05 09:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by Fatboy 4 in Singles & Dating

And why would someone call me that?

2007-11-05 09:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by Mellllers 2 in Singles & Dating

For us normal people in our 40's in Orange County California?

2007-11-05 09:21:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, guys, if there was an overweight girl who was really pretty and shy who liked you, but there was also a skinny pretty popular girl who liked you, who would you pick? NO MEAN ANSWERS!

2007-11-05 09:20:41 · 50 answers · asked by You Know You Love Me <3 3 in Singles & Dating

I have tryed plenty of fish got a picture on it been a member for six months and sent lots of messages and no replys im thinking of giveing it up as a bad job.

2007-11-05 09:20:14 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

On two occasions my guy friend has told me that he loves me. Once he left it as that. Another time, two years later he told me again, but then added that he didn't love me like he should. We have been intimate and talk all the time. I've never had any other male friends tell me this. Does he like me more than a friend?

2007-11-05 09:16:40 · 19 answers · asked by Astrid W 1 in Friends

I am a subscriber to a few of the on line dating sites and some of the gentlemen want to meet me, how long should I wait before I set up a meeting?

2007-11-05 09:14:47 · 7 answers · asked by Moe 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so today in Art (we're working with this plaster stuff, and it's really powdery) the guy I like "accidentally" (I really don't know if it was an accident of not) but yeah, anyways, so he came up to me and tapped me on the arm and I don't know if he shook his hands or what... but when I turned around the powder from his hands flew up in my face and was all over my mouth (lol, I know... it was soo funny) at first we were just laughing but then I got a little frustrated because everyone started to rub their plaster powder on my arms... so the teacher let me go to the bathroom to wash up and when I got back the guy I like started apologizing and saying it was an accident. I told him it was okay and I'll get him back when he least expects it (he knew that was a joke) but he is still apologizing! He's apologized a lot and I keep on telling him it's okay but he won't stop apologizing... you'd think he'd forget about it! So, what does this mean? Does he like me back?

2007-11-05 09:12:11 · 4 answers · asked by Y Me? 1 in Singles & Dating

Guy question!! asking for your # ?
guys, do u think when a girl asks for your #? do u think its to obsessed for easy?? if it is whats a better way for a girl to ask for your #

2007-11-05 09:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating