Left my marriage 7 years ago,got away from a controlling man after 13 years of marriage,hardest thing I have ever had to do,but needed to get back to being me again.Since then,havent been in a relationship...my own choosing,just not found the right person.I have a good family and social life,good friends etc....but am beginning to resign myself that love will not come my way...and before anyone says it ....I do not need a man to make my life...I look at it as enhancing my life...so...can love pass you by?
2007-11-05 09:48:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Doctor...thank you
2007-11-05 10:03:52 · update #1
Indeed Bex....lol
2007-11-05 10:05:50 · update #2
No 25...the night bus...country
2007-11-05 10:26:40 · update #3
Thanx momof3...hugs to you x
2007-11-05 10:56:46 · update #4
Too true Whipass
2007-11-05 23:59:20 · update #5
Kimmy and Bex i truly beleive there is someone out there for everyone and they come along when you least expect it.
I was in my 30's when someone else come along from where I least expected it too and he loved my girls too.
You watch when someone comes along trust me you will be flooded with offers like a bus wait ages then three come along all in one go.
I do not think love passes you by but do think life can pass you by and it is what you make of it that counts.
I know neither of you need a man to make you happy and because of that fact love has not passed you by he is waiting round the corner. xx
2007-11-05 10:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm in exactly the same boat as you kimmy i wasn't married but we were together for the same time had two children (my life) ,but i never once looked at anyone else i didn't need to , i'm now in my middle thirties thinking what now ,i have a good friend that i met again last week while on my hols i really thought it may work (hence the question last night) but i know it 's not to be , too many ghosts and the past will get in the way , i work part-time but the people that i work with are so much younger than me , i won't go there , i walk down the street and i get fifty odd old blokes looking at me , i don't want that either , so for now i will be happy with what i've got untill the times right , anyway kimmy we've got y/a now where would we find the time lmfao
2007-11-05 10:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥BEX♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
only if you let it why not try dipping your toe in the pool of chance again everyone needs someone in there life's and i am not saying YOU NEED A MAN OK it nice to share talk thing through another ear to bend so to speak there are a lot of good men out there if you only gave them a chance you have been on your own for some years now so will feel strange at First but that's OK life was never meant to be easy trying going out with a few friends to start the ball rolling you will never know what your missing if you don't try good luck if you want to take the plunge
2007-11-05 17:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
K, I was married for 32 years. she had just celebrated her 51 birthday, we when on holiday to Turkey and celebrated our anniversary, she left me a month later for the turkish waiter who organised it and was 20 years her junior. I am now a Happy Man and yes I have met someone else. It may not last but who cares
2007-11-05 12:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by BRIAN M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's all about timing, being in the right place at the right time. Sounds like ur ready to let someone in, but don't despair because it hasn't happened yet. Just go about ur life, have fun and enjoy yourself and next thing you know, it'll happen. Good luck ;-)
2007-11-05 09:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by raceylaidee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe it can, i was in a relationship that i was inlove with the person i was with and kept questioning if they loved me back, because i always wanted to hear a person say " i love you" i learned that love is more than words it is action too and because i spent more time wanting to hear 3 little words, I missed out on what was right in front of me and who knows if i may ever get that back again.
I am in a relationship now, and I am happy, but I will always regret that I allowed myself to overlook what was in front of me the whole time.
2007-11-05 09:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Soda 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I know how you feel, same boat.
I don't think love would pass us buy, but I do think one has to be receptive to love. If you are tuned out to someone who might like you, then you may never find that someone. You have to keep your eyes open and your heart willing.
We all need to be loved and to give love, its what makes us human.
Luv U.
2007-11-05 09:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by The Doctor 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Kimmy it can, some people go their whole lives on their own!
Then again whats worse, spending your life alone, or spending your life with someone who makes you unhappy?
2007-11-05 21:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it,be happy in yourself and your life and then when you least expect it a Knight will come your way.Good Luck
2007-11-05 09:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
love is like a car accident .
2007-11-05 09:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by redcandal66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋