He dumped me a couple of days ago,he called me 2day,and i told him to ring me back,i sent him a txt because i was drunk and upset asking him to come and make love to me,then he rang me back after saying he wants to,he said he is coming tomorrow at 8,if i've been dumped then why does he want to make love to me?
2007-11-05 09:57:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you have been dumped. the question you should be asking is why is the relationship over? But to answer your question about why does he want to make love to you, it's because he probably did enjoy the sex, but more importantly you drunk dialed him and offered to have sex with him. You can't hold it against someone if you make an offer and they accept. Yes you were drunk, but it still counts and it still matters. If you want to have sex with him, go for it. and when it's over, before he can leave, ask him why he dumped you if you don't know already and go from there. the problem a lot of people make is that if the sex is good and you break up, the sex can make you get back together. although sex is important in a relationship, it can't be the most important thing because then it doesn't work. the 2 most important things in a relationship are communication and trust.
if you don't want to get back with him, cut off your communication with him completely. don't answer or call back. tell him your done and be done with it.
2007-11-05 10:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by J the answer man.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure to use protection. He may have a new STD he wants to share with you. Yes, I had an ex who did that. Herpes is creepy.
Why would you want to have him around if he dumped you. Be dumped, and dump him back. Move on.
2007-11-05 18:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by bahbdorje 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you were drunk and that texting you was a mistake, if it were me i wouldnt go back to him because he dumped you nd is now just using you to get some action. i wouldt let a guy that dumped me have my body. now if you want him to thats a different story, then thats your problem but if it were me i would be like look our relationship didntwork out and honestly i dont want to do anything with you, i want to be friends.
2007-11-05 18:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sara J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Doc say's. You already know what to do. Tell the guy to take hike off a short cliff.
2007-11-05 18:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by The Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys willbe guys and they keep f**k*** with u as long as u let them and by not being with hem he know he can go talk to who ever he want and dont have to worry about u or answer to u so u need thank if he really what u want or u should just move on but if u keep givin it to hem he goin take it
2007-11-05 18:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks he could make love to u by having sex his probaly got the wrong idea
2007-11-05 18:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by mere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because hes a guy. if he can still get some no matter the circumstance, he will. especially if ur cool with it.
2007-11-05 18:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by DuaL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because single people need to get their jollies 2
2007-11-05 18:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**you may be "making love", but i think hes just having sex**
*if you offer it to him why would he turn it dpwn, of course hes going to say yes, hes getting sex with out commitment*
2007-11-05 18:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by ☻☆ღ!Ts M3ღ☆☻ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a good lay.
2007-11-05 18:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jacob A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋