i went to a frat house the other night with 2 of my bestfriends. i had never met anyone from there before. but i knew the rule at the KA house was 18 & older. anyways, i didnt say i was 18... i said i was 17 & a senior. & that was okay with him. but really im 16 and a sophomore. my bestfriends are juniors & 17 but lied anyways too. but i ended up getting along really good with this one guy. hes a freshmen in collage. and we hooked up. hes been calling me & messaging me on facebook asking when we can hang out next. im going to tell him the truth because i want to be able to hang out & be honest so we can get closer. what would you say to tell him the truth? i dont want him to get really mad. but is there like a cute way to be like..i lied to you cause i really liked you? haha. just let me know. & if you were a guy...would u forgive me?
2007-11-05 09:25:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When girls lie about their age, guys only get mad when you take off years. Your 3 year age difference is no big deal.
At least you're not one of those women claiming to be 29, for the sixth straight year!
2007-11-05 09:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like at age 16, you just learned a very valuable lesson...that lying gets you NOWHERE that you really want to be. Yes, you should tell him the truth...the WHOLE truth. Don't cover up one lie with another one because it will only keep getting worse. You didn't lie because you thought he was cute, you lied TO GET IN THE FRAT HOUSE. If he gets really mad, which he probably will, then you deserve it! So tell him the truth and take this lesson and remember what it got you. And as for the question about forgiving....would I forgive you if I were him? Not a chance. You (a minor) lied to him (a legal adult) and then hooked up with him. Ever heard of statutory rape?? Thats what this guy did because of your lie.
2007-11-05 09:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by tazdvl_31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, even if there's a great possibility that he'll really dislike you for lying and probably stop the texts and calls, etc. At least you'll be guilt-free, and it's a much better feeling than having to carry the burden of knowing that you lied to this guy.
2007-11-05 09:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A.) U R not alone with lying bout u r age. Likey as u get older u will continue 2 'cept u may lie and say u r younger @ this time.
B.) He may not care about the risk in hangin" out w/ a younger lady,but it will definately put a damper on where he chooses to bring you.
C.) If he is not upset...He is a liar as well. BEEEEyourself!
2007-11-05 09:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how we end up going to jail, because of girls like you!!!!! Then when we go to jail, you girls act like its not your fault and that your not responsible and then you get ghost and dissapear (Obviously because your scared that everyone will find out). Which leads to another case, why girls always end up getting murdered by the guys they hook up with (boyfriends, husbands, etc). My advice, from now on, tell the truth!!!!
2007-11-05 09:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jason P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you lied to him, he won't be able to trust you. You'd better tell him before anything else happens, jail is not a very cool thing to a Collage Freshman
2007-11-05 09:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
16, sophomore in high school and a freshman in college? expect nothing after you tell him the truth, unless he wants to get in A LOT of trouble...statutory rape? HELLO?
2007-11-05 09:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya...tell him the truth on facebook its a good way and apologise very hard and ask him for forgiveness and tell him the reason that let you lie to him :)
thats all....but be nice while talking and everything gonna be ok>>>>
2007-11-05 09:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him as soon as possible --- and tell the truth --- that you lied to get in the house ---- and you dont want to continue as you want to get to know him better --- no i would not get mad as long as you did not let it go too long ---- best wishes
2007-11-05 09:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first tell him the truth and than be like u like him and would love to hangout.
wanna be friends on facebook?
2007-11-05 09:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋