Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

My g/f is so romantic. Tomorrow is our 6 month anniversary so I was thinking of:
1) Taking her paintballing
2) Taking her to a massive computer game convention
3) Going to the moster-truck ralley.
Which of these options, in your opinion, will turn her on the most?
thanks

2007-11-05 09:11:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend with whom I have been together with for just over three months is going away for a month with his female friend to Argentina for traveling. She is just a friend but not a very close one. They just had the same idea in their minds and decided to go together long ago.
The trip was spoken of long before our relationship and a girl pre booked a flight already. Now he needs to arrange his flight. Some time ago he asked if it is fine with me and obviously I didn’t see anything wrong at first. But now I just do not think it is ok anymore, I suddenly started feeling that I might loose him a I am so much in love with him.
He also suggested me going with them but I cannot afford it now as I am in the process of changing my job. I just feel so silly, afraid and bad and I now I can’t ask him not to go.
Just can’t understand why I am feeling like that…. I do not have any right to change his plans, am I? I certainly wouldn’t want him to stop me from going anywhere. Wh do u think?

2007-11-05 09:11:07 · 10 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a paralegal serve papers, but she refuses to send acknowledgement of receipt. It has been documented in the courts of me filing, can I get divorced by default or lack of movement on her part?

2007-11-05 09:10:10 · 2 answers · asked by David B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

smiled and teared up but doesn't respond?

2007-11-05 09:08:49 · 7 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 09:08:00 · 10 answers · asked by Tibs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please answer my question
Me and my bf was together for 2years.
we didn't have sex
He asked me many times but I said just wait for the right moment .
Than he was like ok as u wish .
Last month he went to his native country and he had sex twice in there with some porn girl . Whenever I call him he always rude to me and hurt my feeing for couple of days . And yesterday i was so sad and i called him and asked if he want me or not than he said he had sex twice on 30th october and 2november , and i was so crying i couldn't sleep at night . I was crying for him . I really love him and wanted him as my husband but i really can't take him after all this , i really cant stay with him but i really love him and i want him . But after all these i dont feel like to stay together .
What would u do if u were in my place ?
And should i stay with him or just leave him ?
I am so in love with him but I really cant take him again in my life after all this but i really want him and love him

2007-11-05 09:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs.H 1 in Singles & Dating

tablepieces for my wedding reception.. we are having a small and intimate reception an i think that tealights would be a better idea to add atmosphere without crowding the place and making it feel even smaller.. but all i can find on websites is about flower tablepieces. im starting to wonder if my plan is wrong/untraditional..... i wouldnt want people to lookback on the day and think "oh they did that wrong" can you help me make up my mind?

2007-11-05 09:06:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my ex were really good together, everything seemed so perfect we were together nearly a year. He always told me how much he loved me and said that if anyone was going to be doing the breaking up it would be me. Then he just breaks up with me out of nowhere and still after all these months has no good reason. Everytime we start talking again things click and go back to how they were which only reinforces my feelings of how we're still good together. He got a new gf the week after we broke up and they're still together. This new girl is nowhere near right for him, she's this boring little goody good that i swear looks and acts like she's 40! No one understands it especially me. Even his mom likes me and not her and wants us to get back together. Now he says he's in love with her and will never leave her! I don't understand, I love him so much and I can't just let him go he's like a part of me! How do I get through this? It's been six months and it doesn't get easier!

2007-11-05 09:05:02 · 7 answers · asked by STILLhoping4alittleone 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I do about it? I didn't know what to say?

2007-11-05 09:04:49 · 5 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so theres this guy at my school who's very shy but super nice. Last week I found out he likes me. He sits alone at a table during lunch but is reallly friendly when you talk to him for a while. He is really hot and is amazing at soccer and running. Idk wut to do cuz he's not exactly cool or popular in any way. HELP!!!!!

2007-11-05 09:04:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need honest, intelligent opinions as I want to do the right thing. Here is the story. My ex husband and I own a home together and when him and I decided the marriage was over, divorced but we continued to be roommates for at least 8 years, he having his own room, and me having mine. This situation worked out great for the both of us and made our financial situation easier than living apart. Then came the day I met and married my current husband who lives in another state. My ex husband is happy that I have found such a great guy and he is willing to move out on his own as he is unable to afford the mortgage payment on our home. This will give my new husband time to sell his property, move out to where I am, get a job, then me and my new husband can look for our own home, sell the home me and my ex husband own and I will then be able to give my ex husband's half of the proceeds from the sale of the home we own together. Does this sound selfish on my part?

2007-11-05 09:03:35 · 15 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 09:01:28 · 6 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands idea of bedroom romance can be summarised as:"in out in out in out in out in squirt squirt squirrt out snore snore snore"

Am I being unreasonable for wanting something a little more? something maybe a little "deviant"?

2007-11-05 09:00:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

See hes kinda cute but its dimming because in lunch i sit with him and i try to talk to him but his face gets red and he doesnt talk! i know he can talk because he always talks when hes with his friend, but he sits at lunch by himself so i try to talk, but the guy just sits there! he always makes fun of me kidding around which is a huge sign he likes me, he always flirts with me, and hes WILD , but in lunch he sits by himself and looks lonely. we pick on each other (more like flirting) but how can i make him talk, and stop picking on each other and talk about normal things. the only way we know how to communicate with each other is picking on each other.

2007-11-05 08:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by boots 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband have been together 10 years this year,
i wante to do something nice but he the most unromantic person you would ever meet.. if you are a guy and not very romantic would you like this...

what i am going to do is

leave him an invitation in the morning before we go to work with a 12 pack of beer, it is going to have a little rhyme in it telling him to go watch some sports with his friends after work and be back home by 9 for a suprise. then i got some really glam sexy lingerie, i am my self pampered that day with the hair done and everything!! i am going to meet him at the door all dressed up and inside i am going to create a beautiful ambiance with candles and dinner. i am going to serve him dinner all dressed up, and then we will have champagne and strawberrys and whip cream, and i made a cd of all our songs when we met... then the next morning i scheduled massages for us at a spa.. what do you think

2007-11-05 08:58:15 · 45 answers · asked by kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

whats a way to ask for a guys # without being to easy?

2007-11-05 08:57:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is the fisic important?

2007-11-05 08:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by vanycf 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 08:56:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't distinguish between gay and bi sexual.

2007-11-05 08:55:59 · 6 answers · asked by Dai Kou Uchiha 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been friends for years, and we recently got together. It was easy to flirt and be huggy when we weren't together. Now he says I can hold his hand anytime I want or hug him anytime I want. But I don't want to be clingy. We haven't ever kissed before and I don't know when an appropriate time for that would be.

2007-11-05 08:53:14 · 40 answers · asked by epitome of innocence 5 in Singles & Dating

i thought he was the love of my life, i have a daughter with him, he cheated on me and then she got pregnant he left me and got her to tell me, she sends me threatening texts etc all the time, he left her saying he loved me and wanted to be with me. things were fine for a couple months then he was sneaking off hiding his mobile, and on saturday nite he got very drunk and abusive towards me and threatened me with a carving knife, the police removed him. he is texting me saying he loves me and wants to be with me, but i know he has gone back to the other one who will have had the baby by now. what do i do please need help?

2007-11-05 08:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by JULIA N 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-05 08:50:14 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You are uptight and aren't as easy going as you once were. If you asked him to pinpoint a time it changed and he said it was around the time your Dad passed away, which is about two and half years ago. I responded by feeling defensive and somewhat depressed. I'd much rather be told positive things. He claims he wasn't trying to be negative but just point out his observations that I don't handle things like I used to. Why do I have this compulsion to 'fix' myself and feel defensive? How would you react?

2007-11-05 08:49:24 · 25 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15. i wanted to see my gramma today now i cant because my mom wont let me use her phone. im also grounded becuz i ditched a cab last nite and didnt pay for it. i almost went to jail but my mom talked the cab driver out of it. help i want to see my gramma. i miss her. i hate my mom. she is a *********

2007-11-05 08:49:08 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 08:48:37 · 19 answers · asked by blah blah blah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You hear all the time about the statistics of who cheats, and how often - what are your real experiences? Ever cheated? Been cheated on? Age/gender - were you married or dating?
If you cheated - have you done it again?

2007-11-05 08:46:11 · 20 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hubby just sit on couch all day long n all nite long!!!! he watches tv n smokes his pall mall n drink miller lite n he order me round n make me fetch him macdonalls all the times!!!!! he get reel mad when i tell him he not needs no more food or ciggys!!!! he big n he not reely ables to move no more sinced his hoverround crash a coupled monthes ago,,,,,,cause his hoverround were all he had to get around n no one pay to fixes it so he just stay on couch now!!!! is all hubbys like this???? is it normal??????

2007-11-05 08:44:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

summer garden wedding which will be held June 7th 2008. What is a good third color to put with this. I know the colors will be beautiful outside, but I need to know for decorations what else would look elegant. Please advise. Thanks Also when I tell ppl my colors it's like they get confused but they are actually really pretty together, i know it's hard to picture tho. What do you think?

2007-11-05 08:43:38 · 15 answers · asked by Kima 2 in Weddings

i want to know if this guy is intrested . he stares at me, gives me eye contact, looks at me when he does something stupid like falls off his chair and see's if im laughing or something, again STARES at me!, talks to my friend but not me, sometimes he turns around to look at me then kinda smiles and turns back when i look at him, i feel like sometimes he trying to get my attentiion, the very first time i gave him him eye contact it felt like heaven it was amazing and we held it for like 10 seconds the longest i kept looking around coz i was kinda shy then he had a smile then i smiled. i really like this guy does he like me, even if we dont say a word to eachother? and plz i dont just want an answer saying he likes you id like a little bit of detail like how he might feel about me and why he doesnt talk to me etc.

2007-11-05 08:43:07 · 3 answers · asked by beautiful.milexxx 2 in Singles & Dating

instead or talking about our spouses, what about yourself.
Sorry none of us are perfect.

2007-11-05 08:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by *D* 3 in Marriage & Divorce