Me and my ex were really good together, everything seemed so perfect we were together nearly a year. He always told me how much he loved me and said that if anyone was going to be doing the breaking up it would be me. Then he just breaks up with me out of nowhere and still after all these months has no good reason. Everytime we start talking again things click and go back to how they were which only reinforces my feelings of how we're still good together. He got a new gf the week after we broke up and they're still together. This new girl is nowhere near right for him, she's this boring little goody good that i swear looks and acts like she's 40! No one understands it especially me. Even his mom likes me and not her and wants us to get back together. Now he says he's in love with her and will never leave her! I don't understand, I love him so much and I can't just let him go he's like a part of me! How do I get through this? It's been six months and it doesn't get easier!
2007-11-05 09:05:02 · 7 answers · asked by STILLhoping4alittleone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah i was pregnant with his baby but had a miscarriage and it doesn't even seem to bother him. i don't know if that affects anything but i thought i'd throw that in there!
2007-11-06 01:09:18 · update #1
Eeep. 6 months?! It's really time to move on. No use waiting for him if he's already been long gone. I suggest immersing yourself in a healthy activity that won't remind you of him. It might seem like you're trying to repress memories of him, but at this point it seems as though there's almost no other choice. Another thing you could do is start building relationships with other people, not just your ex. Find friends that aren't associated iwth your ex. Re-build friendships you let fade because you hung out so much with your ex. Always keep this in mind "que sera sera" which means whatever will be, will be. It means whatever the future holds, just let it be. You can't change much now about your past relationship with your ex, but you can certainly change the future and influence positive future relationships :D
2007-11-05 09:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view, he's pretty much sounding like a jerk. but then again, the has got to be a legitimate reason for your breaking up that he's not telling you. maybe it has something to do with the fact that he got together with this new girl sooo quickly after your breaking up. that's just a shot in the dark.
2007-11-05 17:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a flower shop and have them make up a BLACK ROSE. Have the shop fix it up in a box and have them deliver it to him. Put a note in it from you stating that he has killed your love for him.
Now you have put the blame entirely on him.
Also, it will make you too embarrassed to see him again.
Some times love is like an addictive drug. It takes a withdraw period to get over.
2007-11-05 17:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid him for a bit. They always say that if you love something you have to let it go and if it comes back then its meant to be. Theres a reason he still talks to you. Leave him be for a bit and wait to see what happens goodluck
2007-11-05 17:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Destiney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation once...I'm sorry it sucks.....but sweetie you need to move on. Don't pester him because its obvious that he isn't interested any more. Try to move on a llittle harder. Find a new boy toy and slowly but surely ....start to cut him off. Force yourself to be strong sweetie because you have to move on.
2007-11-05 17:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by carqueen66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club. i think in my situation he ended it coz he stopped loving me. simple as. but yours might be complicated. dont give up unless he tells you straight to your face you have no chance and he's not interested any more.
unless you dont wanna be turned down
2007-11-05 17:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Elli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u love him and then hook back up its real simple.
2007-11-05 17:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by LiL Wayne Rocks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋