2007-11-05 08:50:14 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nope
2007-11-05 08:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Definitely not.
For those of you who have had sex - think back to your first time. It was rubbish, wasn't it?
"left a bit, right a bit, ow, no, nearly, um... yeah, kind of, ow, no, yes, up a bit, no, can you just, OW! no, is that? no, nearly, left, ow, um... yes, well, a bit more that way, no, back again, right, down a bit, OW!...."
Regardless of whether you're male or female, losing your virginity is awkward, fumbly, painful, embarrassing, stilted, uncomfortable and a categorical disaster. Popping your cherry is not in the least bit romantic or amazing. It is crap. Now give a new couple a few months to practise, and soon they're knowing how to push the right buttons, and what works for their partner.
Your wedding is supposed to be the best day of your life - so why destroy it with the most rubbish sex you'll ever have?!
if and when I ever get married, i would like to complete my wedding night with mind blowing, incredible sex. not with some convaluted guessing game.
The only sex worse than losing your virginity, is breaking in a virgin. When you've got a bit of experience and then suddenly find yourself with a guy who doesn't know what to do - especially when he's enthusiastic, but clueless... well i'll be honest, one or two i've made them stop and asked them to leave the house.
But bad sex and average sex makes you appreciate good sex. Each new partner will teach you something different, even if it's just what you do and don't like.
2007-11-05 09:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sinistra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen this is an old fashion thought.. Lets give a good example..... You have awonderful love affair and never have sex. You get married and the husband is to large(always hurts you... In fact cannot have sex on honey moon because he can not penetrate) Or to small to even have you feel a thing.. Now your married..Your sex life is terrible.. You think the marriage will last? Have sex... enjoy or dont enjoy... Sex will ethier be good or bad.. Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-11-05 09:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me.
I actually met my husband as a "friend with benefits", and we ended up getting married. We're happily married after almost 5 years.
Sex is important to me (certainly not THE most important thing, but I have a very high sex drive), so I wanted to make sure I was sexually compatible with my spouse before I decided to get married. I had a couple of boyfriends with whom I was not compatible (they wanted it much less often than I did), and that aspect of the relationship was miserable for me.
2007-11-05 09:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time I married I didn't and husband had no respect. The second husband we waited and I am very glad we did. He truly respects me and I him. I think that in today's world too many people give in and end up losing respect for each other before they ever get started!
2007-11-05 09:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I would have waited. I felt I was ready when I started having sex and never regreted it until I got married. But I can't change it now.
2007-11-05 08:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I got married at 19 and the first time I had sex was on my wedding night. He was also a virgin so we got to learn together and I never had to worry that he wouldn't be there in the morning. I never had to worry about getting pregnant and not having the baby's daddy to help me. I'm glad I waited.
2007-11-05 08:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by serenityw2004 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would go one step further and wish I had never gotten married. I'm not sure about never having sex, cause that's kind of nice, but I for sure would have waited way beyond 16.
2007-11-05 08:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by phlada64 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no I can't say I wish I had waited....there are a couple I regret, but all in all I can honestly say that the 2 long term relationships I had prior to my now Husband I loved them (not in the same way as I love my Husband) I do not regret what I had with them they just turned out not to be the ones that I was going to spend the rest of my life with....
2007-11-05 09:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am actually glad that I didn't wait. I had lots of fun and I miss it. Because now being married, it seems so boring. Nothing is happening actually.
2007-11-05 09:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by msdeluxe57 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do...I think it makes it more special between you and the person you are marrying. Its really hard though,being a guy as soon as you go through puberty you just want to sow your seeds...its in our nature i guess. I wish I could have waited though
2007-11-05 08:54:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋