instead or talking about our spouses, what about yourself.
Sorry none of us are perfect.
2007-11-05 08:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by *D* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband feels that I am fine just the way I am. I'm the one who wants to change - nagging less, looking prettier, getting us both healthier, having sex more, spending less (so we both have less to worry about). Things like that.
2007-11-05 09:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, I spent too many years trying to be something better for my X. Only to be told I wasn't good enough. NO MORE.
If we don't like each other the way we are then we shouldn't be together!!!!!
Though I have quit smoking, my current guy hated it. He gently asked me to stop and even when I've relapsed he's been supportive and said to try again.
2007-11-05 08:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great Question! I would change on not being so uptight/clingy/too emotional. It really caused a problem in our relationship. I have realized that things happen, things that are out of our reach. And I need to realize in order to be a better mom and wife, I need to learn how to control my emotions and sometimes have to stop and think about what the "right way" way to handle things would be.
2007-11-05 08:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by sunnysideup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My need to be critical, I can never just let things be, I have to find something to correct, I think it's that I'm just anal by nature, but I have to give my poor husband credit for being such a trooper with my pickiness!
2007-11-05 08:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bad_Kity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently I would try to be more easy going, since I feel the need to 'fix' myself whenever my husband points out things about me that aren't positive. In truth, I'd much rather be free of the feeling that I have to fix every little thing he points out. In fact, part of me just wants to scream and yell at him and tell him he's not perfect either, so SHUT THE F UP. GET OFF MY BACK and help me out instead of sitting their smugly telling me that I used to be more easy going.
Phew....I feel better now.
2007-11-05 08:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would change the fact that I get mad at him if he doesnt give me my way. I do that alot and find that I am apologizing more times that I can count. It makes me mad and hurts him. I act like a spoiled brat sometimes and I am sure he hates it.
2007-11-05 08:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have thought about what i could have done or changed to make my husband want to be with me, and i have come to the conclusion that nothing i could have done would have saved my marriage. he loved me but he was not in love with me. You cannot change yourself to please someone else.
2007-11-05 09:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by Fran M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get my body back I had when I met him. But its so hard, all he eats is junk so I eat it with him. It's hard for me to say, " no I'de rather have a salad" when he orders a stuffed crust pizza w/ wings.
2007-11-05 08:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel more comfortable in my own skin.
I would tell him more that I love him instead of just assuming that he knows.
2007-11-05 08:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Angela O 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to be more respectful of his opinion and not assume he agrees with me.
2007-11-05 08:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋