is yur hubby like this???????

Question

hubby just sit on couch all day long n all nite long!!!! he watches tv n smokes his pall mall n drink miller lite n he order me round n make me fetch him macdonalls all the times!!!!! he get reel mad when i tell him he not needs no more food or ciggys!!!! he big n he not reely ables to move no more sinced his hoverround crash a coupled monthes ago,,,,,,cause his hoverround were all he had to get around n no one pay to fixes it so he just stay on couch now!!!! is all hubbys like this???? is it normal??????

Answer 1

No, not at all!

My husband does half of the cleaning and most of the cooking... He doesn't smoke or drink and he plays sports still.

I'd say this is extremely abnormal!

I'd leave him.

Answer 2

Your hubby sounds like a slob. Not all men are like that, for sure my husband isn't the type. He doesn't demand to get food from me when he is hungry, he knows where the kitchen is. He doesn't smoke nor drink it's not his thing. What he does that annoys me a bit is that he spends a lot of time on the computer, but that is partly my fault since I was the one that taught him to be so computer savvy.

Answer 3

NO!! I am sorry to tell you, but you are right with thinking that your husband is a lazy, selfish slob. He is inconsiderate, and you deserve a whole lot better than you are getting.

Wtih that said, you choose this guy, you married him, and you knew what he was like long before you spoke vows, one of which is "for better or worse". Well, it looks like you are getting a lot of the worse right now, and it is up to you to figure out how to make it better, or move on down the road and make better choices the next time.

Listen, far too many individuals jump into marriage with people they barely know, with both not having a clue what it means to BE married or how to make a marriage work. They then run for the hills at the first sign of trouble, only to make the same mistakes again, because they just don't want to be "alone". Some even jump into a new relationship before they are out of the current one. This is not conducive to learning anything except how to make your kids miserable and maladjusted.

If you want better you have to start by treating yourself how you wish others to treat you. Stop going out to get him anything, make him go get it himself. Let him know you are not his maid, or his waiter, but his wife. Tell him to get off the couch if he wants food, at least he will have to expend the energy going to get it himself. Why the heck are you allowing yourself to be ordered around? He is not your father, he is your husband!! For crying out loud.

Do something for yourself. People treat us by how we treat ourselves. But down some freaken bounderies and show yourself some respect, and you will begin to get it from others. Why would anyone show you respect when you won't give it to yourself?

I am not trying to be mean, but it seems you need a bit of wake up call here. You are now married, for better or worse,and so you need to take some action on your own behalf and that of your marriage. If he doesn't like the changes,and trust me he won't, and he can't accept them, then he will get on down the road and find somebody else he can boss around and treat badly, but won't you feel good that it isn't you any longer? If he does, dont' rush into another relationship, mature a bit. learn from your mistakes, start treating yourself with respect and then find a new mate and you will be surprised how much better you are treated and happier you will be.

However, you ARE married right now, and so it is up to you to try to make this work. Stop being his waitress, stop getting his McDonalds, and doing all the chores yourself girl. Get him off the couch, and if neccasary out of your life. But first do all you can to make this a better marriage. It is the two of you now, not just one or the other.

Good luck and I hope you build some backbone and find a happier life. Have a nice day.

Answer 4

No it's not normal to be so lazy. Make him eat with you at the table, make him smoke outside and please make him fetch his own ****! Please it is 2007, you are suppose to be a PARTNER, an equal partner. You aren't his slave. Motivate him to get up. Bribe him if you must... Wear some lingerie and prance around telling him dump the ciggy's and food and he can have you... lol Something like that.. Good luck..

Answer 5

No! If I knew a guy like that he wouldn't ever become my husband, obviously you go for that though.

Right now my fiance is off work because of a work injury, and while I am at work, he is at home doing the laundry and making supper. His choice!! When he gets back to work we will be splitting the household tasks.

Answer 6

Wrong on so many levels. Hover Round? I assume it is a joke since you use text speak and spell McDonalds a certain way. I wish I had a snappy response to your joke..

Answer 7

NOT NORMAL! make him get off the couch stop the smoking and fast food eating and make him get his own stuff. make him get a job and do something around the house. why do you let this go on. you are not a maid, make him get off the couch. good luck

Answer 8

What the hell are you doing there. Hope you don't have children so they don't follow your footsteps and copy either of you. It would so sad if you do. By the sounds of it you are both as bad as each other

Answer 9

Probably only those that live in trashy trailers like you and your husband apparently do....

EDIT: I really think you are full of chit...I have read some of your answers to other people's genuine questions...and you have some sick advise in my opinion.... Your answer to everyone is to smoke....MORON !!

Answer 10

You are too weird.

God bless you with mormal ways of thinking someday very very soon.