Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

2007-11-01 23:55:31 · 23 answers · asked by SR 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 23:40:06 · 24 answers · asked by some female 5 in Weddings

My husband and myself are married for 22 yrs and have one
child 21 yrs old. We always fight, and do not respect each
other love or care about each other. we have no communication
and trust in our mariage. We even had restraining order and
A & B charges and went to the court couple of times.
since we are seperated for 5 months and my husband want
to get together and it happened two years ago and i gave
him a chance to shape up and he wants to get together again.
I do not trust him, do not love him.

what does the reader think. Can this marriage be saved ?
by any means, agreement.
we are from Bombay India and we are brought up one man
for the rest of the life.

2007-11-01 23:27:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she wants me to go to salon with her and get facial , pedicure and manicure

should i do it

and any idea why does she want it , do other girls do the same

2007-11-01 23:19:43 · 12 answers · asked by ajay 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi ... I'd like to hear a female point of view on this please ... I've spoke to a few men about it and they all seem to agree that she is .... I'd like to believe that she isn't, but I think I'm too trusting for my own good ...

We got married in May. We're currently living on opposite sides of the country.
I constantly get accused of cheating myself even though I'm working roughly 16 hours a day from home.
About a month after we got married she told me I was crap in bed ... this dented my confidence a great deal ...
She text me at about 4am a few months ago telling me she had been unfaithful (she later said it was a lie but she constantly reminds me how much she 'loathes' liars).
When we're together we rarely have sex - she spent 11 days at mine recently and we had sex twice (after a lot of talk from her about how we should spice up our love life).
I was told yesterday that I'm boring. She never used to go out but now seems to want to go out all the time with her new friends.

2007-11-01 23:13:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Am not able to tell until it’s really certain. But I mean the grey parts...
and what is the parameters for the guys level, I mean uglier guys then me are with girls that are way over my level.
This last girl I liked and tried to get close too I found out she was really... wanted by many guys and considered really high level. Naturally I failed. All I saw is a person I like.
So now their is another girl and before I even try any thing how the hell do I know what level she is compared to me?
i just see a person but i guess other people dont see the world that way.

2007-11-01 23:07:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right off I’m going to let you all know I am loosing sleep over this (why I’m up at 3:30) so please take this seriously...

I have been dating this girl for only a week, she’s nice cute and funny she is the first girl I’ve actually been in love with, I’ve had other relationships but they were never as serious... But on Halloween I was invited to go to an all girl (except me) party, now i could never cheat its just not me but me and this girl did a considerable amount of flirting I feel bad because I haven’t even told her I’m taken but I’m very attracted to her, she is EXACTLY my type and i cant stop thinking about her....

I’m not sure what I should do I feel actual LOVE for them both but I just cant say. I just want some advice from a third party here.....

2007-11-01 22:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I desperatly want to move out because my parents arnt giving me enough freedom!!! I have a cerfew of 7 and im not even alowed to sleep over someones house. I have to leave when everything starts! Its been driving me crazy!! Ive tried everything, convincing them, talking to them and even chucking tantrums, NOTHING WORKS!! So i want to move out,. I have a full time job and i think i can afford it. The only problem is im only 15. Im just wondering if u guys know what i can do. Im even considering going to docks. I want ani information i can get. About docks or moving out. Do docks have a cerfew? What are the rules. Ani info or suggestions that u have will be greatly appriciated. Thanks

2007-11-01 22:50:24 · 15 answers · asked by xdevilish_gal_01x 1 in Family

2007-11-01 22:38:01 · 20 answers · asked by cutie_fan18 1 in Family

My husband and i haven't had sex in months, not that our sexlife was ever that great but we made a commitment to work on it, but he just rejects me. On his computer are mostly transexual sites, also i found an e-mail to a transexual escort. What do I do?, he told me months ago that the tranny thing would never happen anymore and that he was over it, but 6 months later he has a library of beautiful women with penis's, movies, contact pages for transexuals, escorts and more! we had a fight over the weekend where he told me that he was not sexually attracted to me, then took it back but i can't forget about it. I am usually openminded and have had great sexual histories and exciting experiences with my past partners, i haven't had any with my husband, he rejecs me when i innitiate sex so i have stopped and he never innitiates sex either, its like i have a roomate and i am the chef and the maid and get no pleasure from our relationship, i love him but do i really diserve this?

2007-11-01 22:32:12 · 15 answers · asked by 1060bbk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ve been hanging out with this girl and talking hours on the phone. when im with her Im always upclose with her I grab her she does not move away.I grabbed her hand one day to look at a picture she never let go. I tell her I miss her and text her good night. Then one day we had dinner had some wine went back to my place and almost had sex telling me she like me so much.. The next day in the morning she told me I didnt know you like me.Do you feel rejected? I was not trying to lead you on.Im not ready and telling me she still talks to he ex and saying hopfully in the future they will find each other. She also told me she only likes me as a friend she did not have feelings for me like that. I have gave her the cold shoulder lately she told me she wants to start having lunch with me cause shes working dt. whats up with this girl. We talked previous online she was telling me shes sorry so sorry. I dont understand why she wants to keep this friendship so bad. We only been friends for 4 month

2007-11-01 22:26:16 · 2 answers · asked by buddy 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married twice, my second wife had an affair which I found out about and subsequently moved out and got a divorce. I met a new partner who is 10 years younger than me and we have been together for nearly 4 years now. She would like to get married, we are very happy together and I am happier than I have ever been. Is it unfair of me to not get married - she has not married before. I just feel scared to do it again.

2007-11-01 22:25:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this cute guy from drama, i think he really likes me but there is a problem, there is this other guy from PE and he is such a cutie too ! And guess what, he likes me too ! But they dont like each other and they want me to hang out with only one of them, they are really great guys, how can i choose one of them that's really stupid ! cant i just be friend with the one i like less ?That the guy from PE bytway ?!!!!how can i make him understand that i dont feel that kind of stuff for him, and how can i tell him i like the guy from drama ?


sorry cant tell the names, so ?????!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-01 22:23:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys who like like you ? Umm sorry :D y'know not on the outside but inside, cos in school, all i can see is pretty girls have boyfriends, hot girls have boyfriends, but not a little overweight girls, and girls with glasses . İ mean cant a guy just date a girl for her character? i know that they dont want to date an ugly girl but cant they just give a chance ?
And the same goes for girls too .

Please dont write anything bad i just wanna know .

2007-11-01 22:11:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys what do you think of women who agrees to have sex on first dates or meetings?

2007-11-01 22:08:18 · 21 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

hye...I need your opinion for my situation.
I 24 years old. I already workind & same time also further my study.
I have know my boyfriend around 5 to 6 years & we already
couple around 1 years. I love my boyfriend too much. I don't care
he is a disable person(blemish on his leg) but he can walk but not too
fast & sometime he using the chair(special chair for disable or blemish person)
He working. The problem is my father can accept his & bless our relation
but when i talk i & his want
marriage, my father change to be a lawyer which issue many question to me.
I know my father love me & I not blame him because I understand. My father
also worried if I marriage, I haven't help family anymore.But I & my boyfriend already discuss about this
& he not block / obtacle if i want to support family. And I told my father but he not too much confident.
Can you all give me opinion what's the best for I make my father agree
to me marriage..I really need help

2007-11-01 21:58:32 · 5 answers · asked by akilq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Humans cant fly in air like birds, Cant live in water like fish, cant have strong eyes and chews like cat, cant jump like monkeys and can be killed even by a small insect.

Thinking power.. !! like us animals also have .. Right?

Still you say that humans life is wonderful and humans are the best creature than any one in this world..

2007-11-01 21:57:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

at other beautiful women and seem to fall in love with them too. He tells me he is falling in love with me, but I'm afraid it's lust, not love. Can I trust that he loves me like he say he do ?

2007-11-01 21:57:28 · 19 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16,ive only got about 3 friends well only 2 close friends ,but not so much anymore ,for the past few months i dont go out anymore or drink and i quit smoking, when they go out all they do is walk the streets meet up with bad influence friends that they think are cool,and they think they are going to be popular hanging out with them,i am saving my virginity till after amrriage and they are only 15 and have already slept with atleast 5 guys, and i dont go out with them and i dont do that so now they think ive got problems cause i dont leave the house, and alway talk behind my bak saying i have no life, when they are around me they are really good people but they totaly chage when not with me or when we are with there group? how do i get them to stop and to make them grow up and what they do is not cool, but ive tried to tell them and they think im the idiot we have grown up 2gether nd i dnt want to lose them, .......

2007-11-01 21:57:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is the sweetest and most genuine guy ever, but he has problems forming friendships. He is very introverted and will not open up unless he knows someone for quite a while. Because of this, he has hated the last couple of jobs he's had, because nobody talks to him. He says he feels false and uncomfortable making small talk with colleagues. Having said that, the people in his current job haven't made any effort to make him feel welcome, and I think this has gotten to him.

He is really beating himself up about it recently and he is worried that he'll hate every new job because he won't make any friends there or because they won't like him. He also feels stupid because he's 36 and feels that he sounds like a 16 year old worrying about having no friends.

How can I help him have more confidence or help him feel better?

2007-11-01 21:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by Sparklepop 6 in Friends

I know it's a good thing.

I fantasize about my wife the way guys fantasize about Rihanna, Beyonce or porn.

2007-11-01 21:51:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am married but feel my husband just wants a house keeper. He will come home from work off load his problems get his tea handed to him and then sits watching first simpsons and then the soaps. He never takes an interest in what is going on in my life. Yesterday i had two really important meetings one with my employer and he never asked me how i got on. I know he has probably forgotten i had them as he forgets all my things all the time. Like had to go for an xray ( would have thought out of the ordinary ???) and again no query he forgot again. he seems superficial and most of the time we sit in silence while he watches tv. I dont feel he wants to listen to me and can hardly drag himself away from the tv when i do. Broaching the subject just involves him going away in a huff and turns his back on me. I feel very low about what happened at meeting yesterday but he doesnt notice, or in fact he does but doesnt ask as this would prompt discussion. what would you do?

2007-11-01 21:48:01 · 23 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friend Paul used to be best friends. For two years, there wasn't a weekend or a summer day when we weren't together. We could talk to each other about so many things, from girl problems to the newest CD coming out. It was great having him as a friend because my other friends seemed to have turned on me for a period of time, in which they were consistently finding things wrong about me or my life. However, Paul was dating this great girl, yet, he would always complain to me about her. I was friends with this girl as well, and she'd talk to me about hers and his problems too. Then, out of the blue, she found herself interested in me instead and I just couldn't resist not going for her. Ever since then, Paul has not said anything to me, and I haven't hung out with him once. I've tried apologizing so many times. Me and that girl don't even date anymore...yet he's still not around. Is this something I should just let go, or should I still pursue him?

2007-11-01 21:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Ltrain 2 in Friends

Some people tell me to make it as normal as possible, as if i never told her. Confidence or something.

2007-11-01 21:23:25 · 14 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Singles & Dating

we are having a really bad finacncial situation at the moment, but i really want to get him some-thing special. We been together for almost a year now, we meet a month after his birthday, please someo e help??!!!!

2007-11-01 21:21:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-01 21:21:28 · 12 answers · asked by LEAH 1 in Singles & Dating

He told me the reason why he was cheating on me was because I wouldn't perform oral sex on him. I just wasn't comfortable enough to do that.

2007-11-01 21:14:18 · 17 answers · asked by Sassidancer 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend had been together for a year, but I feel that he tends to carry on with his friends a lot more than me. I mean, when ol' boy went to jail, the only person that would write to him was me, not his friends. and I guess he had been out for a week already, and the first people he called was his friends. I don't get it. It seems as if his friends are more important than me.I know that it's okay to have friends because they'll "always" be around, but why is it so different with me? I never hurted him in any type of way, nor do I cling onto him as if I were desparate. can you help me???

2007-11-01 21:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by miss girly girl girl 2 in Singles & Dating

what exactly is he thinking? we went out for 3years and he broke up with me a year ago, we cut off all communications. Out of nowhere he comments a picture of a car on myspace. I deleted it, put up another one and he comments it again! All of a sudden, he puts a picture of his gf (which he got with 2months after we broke up) in that same car. I dont believe it's by coincidence he decided to do it. I haven't done anything to him, why is he suddenly trying to get me jealous? if that's the case. thanks in advance

I'm trying to get over him slowly and it just makes it more difficult. But i still love him.

2007-11-01 21:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by LT 1 in Singles & Dating

My roommate and i have been best friends for eleven years, and we just moved in together last month. How do we keep from killing each other and keep our friendship intact?Any tips or rules to follow?

2007-11-01 21:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by triviaqueen06702 1 in Friends