Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

im 12 and in 7th grade, if you think im young, im not. i fell really lft out all the time though...like i am a 5th wheel (even if there arent 4 other ppl) i have a lot of friends...a lot of best friends too...but i dont have a true, always there for you, practically your sister friend. i mean i do, but she lives in miami and i live in georgia.. but here , in georgia, i want a true best friend, but they all have other ppl who are their trye best friends. i feel so depressed, becuse on myspace, im not on anyones top who i claim to be one of my best friends, this girl that ive known since lastt year seems to think im boring and moved on, and this other girl...who i thought would finally be the one, ends up hnging with the popular girls more and more each day, and as each day goes on, she treats me more and more like she doesnt like me. if true friends are hard to come by, then howcome im the only one that doesnt have one?

plz, i feel like crying now, help me!!!

2007-11-01 14:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So it has come to my attention...

All of my ex's have gotten married and or had children with their next gf. It came to my attention after news of my most recent ex getting engaged... so I got to thinking... and realized at least 95% of this is true. Now.

The new boyfriend and I have been talking about it since I found out. And while we had talked about marriage and kids and our outlook and goals and all of that, we agreed to wait until we were both ready ( which neither of us are ) We are both still in college, and working all the time to make ends meet so it would be totally selfish right now. I know this. However, I want nothing more than to be a mother, and at 23 I feel in my prime... We've agreed to wait, but I think he can read me well enough to know that everytime I hear of an ex, or close friend being pregnant, or getting married, my heart drops a little because I wonder if it will ever be me. What can I do either hide it better, or set his mind at ease?

2007-11-01 14:11:21 · 4 answers · asked by cresentrosetat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 14:11:13 · 14 answers · asked by Mickey D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I swear people are always looking at me. whenever i look at someone they're always looking back at me. Does everyone experience this, or am i really being watch more than the average person...

ps- theyre not looking at me cause im looking at them because the moment i look they look away really fast.

2007-11-01 14:09:33 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy... but he is hard to read... I cannot tell if he likes me back?
He never wants to talk to me when I say something to him... I dunno if thats cause he is shy or because he is trying to say... "get away, creep" he never says it in a shy way... I think it's a bit obvious that I like him... I don't wanna ask him out on a date or ask if he likes me because I might be creeping him out. I don't know anyone who knows him. I am around him a lot at drama club not like directly next to him but around him,usually 90% if the time. I try to talk to him, but he doesn't say much back its not like shly but I dunno. What to do!!!!!!??

2007-11-01 14:03:29 · 1 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Singles & Dating

MY wife recently came to me after 13 years of marriage and told me she was attracted to women.She swears that it would not affect are marriage if i allowed her to explore the feelings she says shes had most of her life.I love my wife with all my heart so i told her that if it was important to her then i would not interfear.As of yet she has not found a partner but i would be lying if i said it didn't worry me is this normal? Am i over reacting?I've been supportive but should i tell her that i don't want to share.

2007-11-01 14:02:15 · 11 answers · asked by redvedica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if you were checking where people had been going on the internet on your computer and found a web site for single men when you are supposed to be getting married and when they were confronted they said they did'nt know what it was and they are the only man in the house?????

2007-11-01 14:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. Last year I told him that I really want to get married since we don't have any real problem together. (At that time he was out of schoo and didn't have job so he was living with me till he found his current job in another city). He told me that he needed time to think about this. Everything was fine and I believe he wanted to purpose, untill his mum went to visit him this summer. She stayed for four months and was really nice with me but they were constatntly fighting. I wasn't also in my best shape since I was alone in this city and most of my friends had moved. So I was traveling to his house every weekend. I know it wasn't appropriate but I thought since I had helped him before he would understand my situation. But after his mum left, he told me he never wants to get married since he knows his mum will make his life like a hell. He also was annoyed by me traveling there every weekend. I really love this guy.

2007-11-01 14:01:44 · 19 answers · asked by nasim8001 2 in Weddings

he is just visiting because dats his career but i dont want him to go cuz im gonna miss him and he wouldnt be coming back till next year. its always the what if cuz i like him. i cant wait on him cuz i got my life too but omg i dont want him go. what should i do? should i pretend i never met him?

2007-11-01 13:59:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are looking for a house for him to move in. I am trying to be very supportive for my kids sake. I find this very difficult. I just want space. He is the one that has made the decision and I agreed because we have been on the fence for six long years. I want this to end. Why do I hurt so much?

2007-11-01 13:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by Marge S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im only 20, and she's 17. do you have any ideas for a first date with a girl I met at work. please be detailed and provide positive input.

2007-11-01 13:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jeff 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy that is a booze addi ct. He is rude to everyone. I tried to meet him on his level and just pulled myself down. His wife is in denial. Says that he had a poor childhood and people are picking on him. Everyone that knows him says he is a jerk. My wife and I want to support his wife but she is in denial and he has a control over her. Help appreciated but no rude jokes please. This is a serious problem that involves two peoples lives.

2007-11-01 13:58:01 · 6 answers · asked by Bob S 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am twenty years old and living in my father's house.
We have been having this fight, and I have been stalked by my father on campus and locked in my house and threatened to be disowned if I leave. I have been having night terrors lately and cannot sleep because of it. After talking with a psychologist at my school that I was forced to see, they want to report my father for emotionally abusing me.
I fear my father physically attacking me if I do report him. He has gone after me already but has not touched me because he was stopped in time by my mother. Should I go through with it and report him? Is there any other way to get help without my father getting in trouble with the law?

2007-11-01 13:57:18 · 14 answers · asked by J. Eyre 3 in Family

he wont talk to me any more and he said he still wants to be friends.
and when i see him he looks at me.
does he still like me?

2007-11-01 13:54:03 · 6 answers · asked by lillori95 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, i want to ask this question with all respect, I DO NOT WANT TO DISREPECT ANYONE,I DO NOT MEAN TO DISRESPECT ANYONE WITH THIS QUESTION but
is your boyfriend or your husband circumcised?
and do you care anyways if he is?

2007-11-01 13:52:59 · 6 answers · asked by gsupernova 4 in Singles & Dating

my single aunt has two kids: a boy and a girl. the girl is 19 and the boy is 13. she is nice to the boy but treats the girl like she didn't want her to begin with. my aunt even said it to her face. please dont say that the girl should move out because we're asian and it cant be like that. what she my dad (which is her older brother) do? if he scolds my aunt, she'll just turn around and treat my cousin bad. help!!!

2007-11-01 13:52:13 · 7 answers · asked by Xuan T 2 in Family

2007-11-01 13:51:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, since when i was 6 years old my parents got divorced so by the age of 7 i had to grow up really fast i had to be resposible and take care of my brother while my mom worked.I think that i started to feel depressed when i was 9 but i wasn't depressed almost all the time.But at the age oof 11 i felt alot of times depressed.well my closest friend said"i don't like u"i feel so sad i thought maybe my friends hate me too,i was so sad i was was about 2 cry in one of my classes.Since when i was 7 i stopped crying, but inside i feel so empty, alone and i wanna cry and scream but i don't but i keep stuff bottled up inside, i feel that like there's no one that i could talk 2 i have no best friend,i wanted to kill myself at the age 10 but didn't bc it would cause problems to my mom and brother.i feel useless,pathetic,alone.I don't tell my mom about how i feel. I have been thinking a little about cutting myself but i haven't done it.what should i do?I feel so alone

2007-11-01 13:46:48 · 34 answers · asked by That's a secret 3 in Friends

So my new girlfriend and i literally just started dating yesterday and her b-day is on Saturday. I just dont know what to write in her b-day card. Should i make it funny and tie in some inside jokes and what ever? Should i express how i feel to her? I just dont want to make it funny b/c i dont want her to think i think of her as just a friend and i dont want to write down everything i feel for her b/c i dont want her to think im mushy and get way too attached. So please help me! girls what would you want in it? Or guys what would you do in this situation. Thank you.

2007-11-01 13:44:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 13:40:57 · 1 answers · asked by & This is the depth of Beauty; 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 weeks. He's a really cool guy. I really like him a lot but there is a slite problem. We never talk!!! we're both very shy. I don't know what happens to me . I get the courage to go up to him and then i chicken out. Its all my fault i mean i can't blame him. He always says hi to me in the halls if i see him and i think he tries. I mean its not like we haven't said a word to eachother . We've went on dates although but it was pretty akward. I don't want to break up with him but i really want to get the courage to talk to him more. How do I do that?? Please help this is serious!

P.S. I think he might break up with me if I don't talk to him soon.

2007-11-01 13:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by bluechicken818 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 13:38:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...is she a goofy goober or what?!?!

2007-11-01 13:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by ericck1991 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 13:30:02 · 20 answers · asked by David R 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 13:29:17 · 7 answers · asked by anibseder 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you care if the guy you are in love with, is circumcised?

2007-11-01 13:28:05 · 52 answers · asked by gsupernova 4 in Singles & Dating

How would you make use of that skill?

2007-11-01 13:26:35 · 35 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Help me weigh this up.
1. I think I love him.
2. He makes me laugh
3. We want the same things out of life
4. He phones me every day and is sweet to me
5. He ignores me sometimes, which INFURIATES me, he'll talk to people online when I've come down to visit him.
6. I feel really paranoid and jealous a lot.
The last two points are making me want to end it, but I can't work out if this is just me being frightened of being hurt or reading too much into it, or craving too much attention, or whether they are signs that it's just not right.
What would you do?

2007-11-01 13:22:47 · 40 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

My partner of 2 1/2years rang me last night and informed me that he doesn't love me and has realised that he is using me if he continues the relationship. I am really confussed. He has just turned 39, could he be having a mid-life crisis??
What would you do? Would you leave or stay to try and keep the relationship going??

Please help.

2007-11-01 13:21:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom and I live with my mom and grandma. I hate living with them cuz they attack and criticize me about evetrything-about the way I look, about the way I wear my hair, about my likes, about everything. They dont respect who I am and are always attacking me for nothing. LIke today, I dyed my hair and my mother looks at me and say to me:"u look horrible!", she is so mean, there are a lot of things about her I dont lilke but I just keep my mouth shut but she is always trying to find an excuse to bash me about everything. I´m an adult now but they never understood that I am my own person why my own style and my own likings, they wanna make me be like them, if I dont think the same way they do or act the way they do or dress the way they expect me to they start attacking me and being mean.I dont know what to do I want them to stop and let them be myself anf accept who I am cuz I am for from being a child and have a kid of my own. I want them to stop, its not fair.

2007-11-01 13:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family