Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

Why di you think some people act do immature when it comes to love?

2007-10-31 23:59:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this kid for about 2 months now and i love him to pieces. we both gave up something special to each other. and now my ex boyfriend wants to talk. what should i do . because i love them both very much!!

2007-10-31 23:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So perhaps this is a really dumb question, but ever since my ex left me, I've felt so worthless and miserbale...I hate the fact that he's gone back to his two timimg *****!
And it really angers me so much, because she does him dirty eveyday, (and it's depressing because everyone sees it but him!)
Can anyone share a personal expierence? Some advice would be helpful too, because it hurts soo much!
Is it really his happiness?
How can forget him?

2007-10-31 23:55:38 · 10 answers · asked by pandora sin llama 3 in Singles & Dating

I need your advices... Thanks a lot..

2007-10-31 23:54:27 · 27 answers · asked by Hydz 1 in Singles & Dating

Guy 1: Used to sit with one chair in between us and lean all over that chair. Now insists on sitting right beside me, even though him sitting in that chair requires a lot of manuvering for both of us. Meanwhile, there are now three empty chairs on the other side of his friend that he could use. He also came up with a stupid question once to ask me (When's the semester over?) but I got snippy. I did finally answer him a few minutes later though.

Guy 2: I go to class and he (he's never spoken to me before) suddenly starts asking me like 50 questions. Then I'm not there the next week and he sends me an email to ask about a problem. Then the next week he chases me down as I'm walking down the street to my next class thanking me for responding. So finally, a few minutes after we chat, he sends me another email saying that he was looking forward to getting to know me better?

Guy 3: Starts leaning all over me in the elevator. Then pushes his desk closer to me in class.

2007-10-31 23:48:45 · 4 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend(more of an aqauntance) and I'm really starting to like him....he's showing signs that he likes me but sometimes he gives me mixed signals.......anyways, yesterday, me and him were partners and we were working on math problems and he would ask me the answer to some problem and I'd answer him and he'd go and check to make sure, so I'd always say "don't you believe me" and once he said "Of course I believe you, I just thought it looked wrong so I had to check.", and then this other girl (who was in our group) goes "you're very believable" so then he goes "ya you are"........and then when we were doing another problem and I asked him for something, he told me the answer, and I went and checked b/c mine was different and he goes "don't you believe me?"......so would all that sort of be a sign of him liking me???

2007-10-31 23:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that won't leave me alone. She keeps hitting on me and It's getting really annoying. And kinda ceepy. She is giving me letters and telling me how we are gonna be together and that she is planning things. I have told her several times to back off, but she just comes on stronger. I don't have a clue anymore.

2007-10-31 23:47:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf is asking me to do sex with her, but without condem, she said that when it will going to come out , just withdraw ur penis. i am scare that what happen if i was not able to do it at correct time.. Plz help me.. and what if she didn't allow me to do that thing at that time...??

2007-10-31 23:46:31 · 20 answers · asked by premliya 2 in Singles & Dating

my marriage life is a failure, husband does not want to go for work, me working earning well, two kids, husband always suspicious and now i have a good friend with whom i go out and spend time together, i am very much attached to him, he makes me happy in every way, i was attached to him more because of my husbands suspicious talk, i am happy when he is around even though my husband hates me he want to sleep with me daily which i dont allow, because i dont love him at all, i dont have any guilty feeling that i am having an affair, how to tell this to my husband, can any one guide me

2007-10-31 23:45:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My BF and I broke up.. after 2 weeks I found out he was out there dating... It killed me.. So I asked for SPACE.. he agreed and cannot wait til we are friends agian... I am in the anger stage.. I was told by my Shrink to write him a letter telling him all my anger thoughts about how he broke up with me and why it is hard for me to deal.. I did it, I wrote him a note and sent it to him.. I bashed him.. not caring about his feelings, and that what I was worried about the whole time.. his feelings not mine.. So you all think I did the right thing? the letter I mean.

2007-10-31 23:41:22 · 5 answers · asked by irish_red_93 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you think if you were 4hrs away from your partner txts&replied very frequently 20+ times a day,then hadnt replied for over 3hrs?would you think something was going on?

2007-10-31 23:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hello, well i started uni bk in october and its all goin well, the course is good although a little difficult and a made friends. The thing is in the back of my mind i don't want to be there and i cant pinpoint why.I was thinking i wood probably do better if i went to the uni near my home that done the same course but i don't know if it wood be too l8 to get on it now :S but i really don't want another gap year coz i had one last year and i jsut worked in shitty lil jobs and the only thing that kept me goin was the idea of uni, but i jsut feel i made a wrong decision and should have stayed nearer home.Tbh its really stressing me out coz i don't av any loans so i got a job which means i av to work weekends which means i neva get to see my family or friends, its also making me ill :( Please help

2007-10-31 23:29:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My 25 year old daughter has been going out with her boyfriend for about 4 months. It's really been bothering me ever since she started dating this man. When she'd visit us, she'd have bruises on her face sometimes, but she'd never tell us where they came from. I did some background research on this boyfriend, and discovered that he's been charged with domestic violence in the past. But when I showed my daughter these things, she seemed more annoyed that I was probing into her personal life and told me to mind my own business. I tried to convince her to break up with him, but to no avail.

Now I find out that he proposed and she accepted, and now I don't know what to do. She's an adult now, so I can't tell her what to do anymore, but I fear for her safety. I don't want her to be in a house with a violent man that will beat her. But when I try to tell her this, she goes into denial, and starts defending him, so it appears that she won't listen.

Is there ANYTHING I can do?!

2007-10-31 23:18:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My question goes as follows: How do I stop being easy (awkward!). I don't dress like a whore, I've had the same clothes for the past 2 years, I almost never wear makeup or style my hair, I go out once a week and with girls only. I've tried the virginity pledge thing, but it really didn't work. I'm shy, and my German isn't really good so I don't talk alot, despite all that, a few boys manage to get me. It's as if they could smell it on me. I would lie if I said I didn't like the kisses, the hugs and the hand brushing my hair, but boys don't give these things for free they always ask for something in return. Bc I've been in this country for 3 weeks, I don't have many friends, and the ones I have aren't that close. I just don't know what to do, the guy who kissed me last night and said 'we don't have to have sex if you don't want to' like I haven't heard that one b4 talked to me for less than an hour, I really feel stupid, I want to change but they won't give me a chance what should I do?

2007-10-31 23:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mother said we are nt made to be together, is there any thing i can say or do to stop her from reasoning like that. she said i have change since i meet her. and don't know how, i mean i'm still the same.

2007-10-31 23:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by everij2004 2 in Singles & Dating

contacts me but last year i met someone who just dumped me, i gave him too much time and attention, why should i be so nice and that when they end up being awful back, i thought he really liked me but it was false, i was always available, i still cannot forget it

2007-10-31 23:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think if a girl smiles like.....really nicely, it gives me a positive image of them even without knowing them..

2007-10-31 22:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont want to lose him

2007-10-31 22:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by da awsome person u luv 2 hate 2 in Singles & Dating

but he is nice to you, do you think he wants to date you, or wants something from you?

2007-10-31 22:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 18 yrs. It is school break here and my husband has taken holidays. Everyday so far he has played or taken one of the kids to tennis both morning and afternoon and gone out one evening to play tennis. i have gone out myself with one of the kids. I feel like a maid just there to clean up and cook meals. I moved to his country for this!
are your marriages the same?

2007-10-31 22:24:40 · 19 answers · asked by tp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 22:18:19 · 8 answers · asked by suresh k 1 in Weddings

go without sex if your on bad terms with your partner.. how long is too long..?? i think we've gone for too long but i'm not sure..1 and a half weeks..:(

2007-10-31 22:13:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How did you know that the one you chose was "the" dress?

Has anyone NOT had any "omg this is THE dress I'm going to be married in" feelings?

I've tried on dresses, and have really liked them, but none scream "MINE". Does it mean that it is not THE dress for me?

My wedding day is in June 2008, and I'm feeling rushed to find a dress. Everywhere I've read, you need to get it more than six months out, and I've got less than 8 months!!!

What if I can't find a dress that screams "MINE"? Did your dress scream "MINE"?

**deep breath** I'm fine, really.

**twitch**

2007-10-31 22:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by Terri 7 in Weddings

I thought they were going to come through the ceiling!

2007-10-31 22:02:08 · 31 answers · asked by buff1ne 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 22:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the summary of what has happened between me and this girl. She used to be my friend’s girl friend for almost 4 years. How ever they broke up since my friend did not have an intention to marry this girl and the girl wanted to settle down believing that my friend had enough time to know her and decide. (I am not sure why since she has a very nice character and she is very pretty).
After they broke up they continued to be very good regular friends and they still are.
Recently, she moved to the city where I live and my friend asked me to make sure that she is not lonely here. It also worth mentioning that I knew this girl since 4 years ago and we never really have any interaction till recently. Following my friends request I contacted this girl and we hanged out couple of times since one month ago. She calls me about 2 times a week and we talk about regular staff. Recently I think I started developing feeling for her because I get annoyed of why she is not calling me more often or why she some times seems too cold (I never told these things to her because we supposed to be regular friends and this is normal for regular friends). (Although I am doing the same thing to her because I think both of us from past experiences learned how to control our feelings and it is hard to know what is going on in her or my mind). Now my question from you is
1- Do you generally recommend such a relationship or you think I better move on before anything happens between us?
2- When I remember things my friend has done for her I always think it is very hard to impress this girl (although she really appreciates my friend’s efforts and still I believe she likes him very much)
3- I am not even sure if I can get over the fact that she has been my friends girl friend for such a long time am I being narrow minded or most of guys are like that? Even she is telling me about her other dates after my friend. On one hand I like her truthfulness on the other hand I tell to my self that she already dated a lot of people and she gathered a lot of experience (it is good for her but not sure if it is good for me too)
4- what do u think are we doing now? Are we dating or is it called hang out?

2007-10-31 21:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

He gave me a lecture on why he hates me and at the end he said: 'We're not brothers anymore, I hate you and have lost all respect for you'
He hasn't talked to me for 2 days now, and I think he's serious. What do I do if he doesn't listen and I don't talk to my parents, No way.

2007-10-31 21:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Theres this girl who me and my mate go and see at work every arvo and she allways seems happy to see me, jumps on me and we allways have a good time.
we can allways think of stuff to talk about and i love to make her smile.
its just that she acts this way with alot of guys, and if i ask her out and she says no i dont want to ruin our friendship wat do you think

2007-10-31 21:54:49 · 7 answers · asked by evapilot_02 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so my best friend is having troubles with this guy. apparently he told her that he didnt like her anymore for the lamest reasons and she thought everything was going really well. and theres this other guy who likes my best friend and the guy who my best friend likes told the guy who likes her "i dont like her anymore so you can have her". they were supposed to go to homecoming dance together well he was going to ask her and now he "doesnt like her anymore" so hes not gonna ask her.
that afternoon after school he brought flowers to this girl who is just a friend and was like stammering and asked "are you going to homecoming?" and she was like "yeah" and then she knew he was about to ask her but then he replied "ok" and he walked away and shoved the flowers to his friend and the girl heard him say "i cant do this right now".
does this mean that hes not over my best friend(the girl he told that he didnt like her.) or why is he doing this?
i just dont know what to tell her....

2007-10-31 21:51:51 · 1 answers · asked by marr 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 21:50:24 · 3 answers · asked by NRA 1 in Friends