Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

Do you view your wife as being stupid or foolish or easy to deceive when she forgave you? My husband tells me that I am the best wife anyone could ever have to still love him after he did such a terrible thing. Just wondering how the MEN feel about their wife.

Please no smart alec remarks; want honest answers from real men who have actually remained in their marriage and wondering if their feelings are any different about their wife now. Thank you

2007-10-31 12:54:06 · 12 answers · asked by pussycat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what is an appropriate height ?
I´m 6 foot 11 I used to think it was pretty cool but
some time ago I realized it had some major down sides,
like flying economy class.
So I was wondering is being to tall often a turn off for women?

2007-10-31 12:51:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend found out that her husband is receiving emails from a girl he met, she knows the girl's from another country, cause he is in the air force and so is she (my friend), but the fact is that she says they had even shared pictures. She had confronted him and he says they're only friends, and that is her emailing him. But she have her doubts. What can she do? She's right here with me and asked me to make the question. any advice!!

2007-10-31 12:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by LA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They've been divorced since I was 3. It has never bothered me before. Now I'm 15 and I can't take it anymore. It's like they hate each other. I've never been told how to cope with it because I was raised this way. So now I'm totally lost. Please help me.

2007-10-31 12:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by enigma 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 12:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl about a month ago and now we are going out...ikm a junior by the way......so what im having troubl on is that the last girlfriend i had was like 2 weeks before i met this girl and we had problems because im not the physical realationship type person...im a klittle more on the respectfull side...but it didnt work out because of that.... and all i want to know is.....how should i treat the girl now..


in a good respecfull way

or should i go more for the physical way....?

2007-10-31 12:43:12 · 21 answers · asked by subhuman 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy i know he is really nice he has asked me to my school dance and he offered to buy the ticket i said yes as a joke but he took it seriously! I like him as a very good friend, but nothing more what do i do?

2007-10-31 12:38:42 · 31 answers · asked by Melo o.0 5 in Friends

I have been quite confused by the behaviour of a work collegue, she has been very subtly flirting not really giving herself away, possibly waiting to see if I take the hook, well I did bite (just by chatting with her), but now she has backed off (for now), so it seems it was all a game to see if she could get me interested, is it an ego thing...what do I do next?

2007-10-31 12:38:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People always talk about how a good personality wins friends, blah blah blah.

So what exactly are good and bad personalities anyway?

Can you define them. And please try to me specific.

2007-10-31 12:36:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were messing about. He rolled on top of me, and laughing said, "Squash Am-" and then stopped. (His ex is Amy). Then he tried to cover it up by saying over and over again "squash 'em, squash 'em" as if that even makes sense! I know he has been talking to her a lot online recently as I have been there when he's talking to her. I know they are still friends. If he says her name instead of mine, does this mean he still has feelings for her? Should I be worried?

2007-10-31 12:36:05 · 16 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

I have my new husband, whom I have been for a cuple of years by now... the problem or I dont know if it is... is this...
I had find out that everitng bad that it had happend to him it was because he was getting divorce, wich it means hes hole life have gotten really bad.. credit, life .. bankcrupcy... drugs.. rehab..suspentions... and arrests...so I think that he whent trough that becuase he could not take the pain of loosing his ex, I' I wrong? becuase now everithimme we fight I always bring that up!! and technically I'm afraid that if she trys to get her familly back toguether he will just leave everithing in here with me, help!!

2007-10-31 12:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by carolinae09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having girl problems right now and I need someone that knows them well or even be one. I met my Sweetheart in feb 06 and ever since we have been the most happy couple ever, we were so in love. For a year I actually lived with her and her parents and nothing change we just grew more in love. Of course there were times that we would argue but who doesnt argue? there were times that I didnt have time or the money to do things everyweekend, Well two weeks ago she gets her first real job and puts me out the door saying that we never do anything or go anywhhere with no sign of her even being miserable she tells me that we need to spend time apart because we do nothing but argue and she wants to be alone and hang out with her friends. Well If that was case than she could have done those things without breaking up with me, all she says to give her time and if it is ment for us to be together than we will... I cant even sleep at night and i know she wouldnt do that to me.

2007-10-31 12:29:33 · 30 answers · asked by rock 1 in Singles & Dating

My fellow NAVY shipmate is married, paying child support, and his wife still wants more even though she is financially stable. The child she's carrying is not even my friend's; it is some other guy's.

The court system and his lawyer says he is to pay both of their house mortgages, plus the child support, plus his own expenses. Is there a 'special' way he can keep fighting to have her pay her part?

2007-10-31 12:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am dating this guy who has never brought any of his girlfriends home to meet his family. Even a girl he dated for a couple years and this christmas Him and I are flying from Alaska to Idaho to spend christmas with his family. I have met his Dad since his dad lives in Alaska What I would like to know is seeing as how I am the first girl he is bringing home to meet his mom and grama and sisters......do you think that means he is looking to stick aroud long-term?

2007-10-31 12:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by Lovin Life 2 in Singles & Dating

She found out you cheated, got extremely angry, called you every name in the book and dumped you, hasnt spoken to you for weeks, but ur trying to smooth things over and then she decides to take you back. Would you think she was weak? Would u think she is easy to get over on. Would u have lost more respect for her?

This is the first time she would be taking him back for something like this and will the man most likely do it to her again?

2007-10-31 12:26:04 · 22 answers · asked by lookinfortruth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does this sound dangerous to you?
I am losing hope. I've become completely depressed. I don't know what to do anymore.We were only together 4 mo
Should he and I get back together? He said that he is not violent.That he would never hit me.?
Where did I go wrong?
Oh No!!!! He is dating someone else!!He told me that I am the reason he acted this way! Will he treat her nice
Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
13 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
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He said that he has never behaved that way before.Then said he would get frustated when I would drink.I told him that he acted that way even when I wasnt drinking.

2007-10-31 12:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

do you do genital depilation?

2007-10-31 12:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend likes this guy, and they are dating. She really wants to kiss him, but he's really shy. When she scoots close to him, he scoots away. He likes to have like a 4 inch space between them. He really does like her. He's just REALLY shy. But on the 17 of November, she wants to kiss him. (there is a metior shower, and she thought it be romantic) She dated him for two years, broke it off, and has been with him for a few months. Can you help her?? She wants him to kiss her. What can she do to "lull" him in?

2007-10-31 12:22:26 · 6 answers · asked by narlycarly235 2 in Singles & Dating

Nothing compares to love and without love there is nothing is there a name of that type of thought towards love?


please no rude answers just curious :D xx

2007-10-31 12:21:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

JUST GU3SS OK@Y

2007-10-31 12:19:47 · 13 answers · asked by helena 1 in Friends

ever since I got married to my hubby his mum and sister always seem to backchat about another girl who is part of their family, I heard from someone that she was meant to get an arranged marriage with my hubby but my hubby didnt want to etc. anyway now that I'm married to my hubby my MIL always wants me to look all pretty especially when I'm in front of that girl and her family, she is maried as well btw. We are meant to be going to a birthday party and she is supposedly going to be there with her husband, I want to go dressed simple and my MIL was like "its up to you but so and so(that girl) is going to come dressed all grand and you may feel awkward", I was thinking to myself so what if she comes dressed up grand, who is she to me? I dont understand why my MIL is so eager to make me look all dressed up in front of them, its as if shes using me to hurt them or something

2007-10-31 12:19:30 · 5 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this man in one of my classes at school. I have made it clear that I am only in my second year of college, right our of high school, so he knows that I'm around 19 or 20. He's at least 10 years older, maybe more. He's constantly touching me, my arms, my hair, and giving me hugs that I just don't return. I've told him to stop but he just responds with "But I like you..." I know I need to be a little more assertive and tell him to cut it out in a more forceful way, but I don't want to be mean. He's a nice person and I don't mind talking to him, but the physical contact makes me very uncomfortable and it's gotten to the point where I try to avoid him if I see him on campus. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to be nice about getting him to stop touching me and that I'm not interested at all? My mom also thinks that if it gets worse that I should consider filing a sexual harassment claim. Would this actually be considered sexual harassment? Thanks so much in advance!

2007-10-31 12:19:07 · 35 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

Just like arounf the house for fun

2007-10-31 12:16:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok ladies, you are going to settle a global debate once and for all. Dish it out!!

2007-10-31 12:13:30 · 38 answers · asked by blowinsmoke 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 12:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by lupe m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 12:07:50 · 8 answers · asked by theinsaneprofessor 1 in Singles & Dating

is there anyone out there that can answer this question?
my ex-husband established custody our 3 children back in 2002 now thease kids want me to take him to court so they can talk the judge them selves being that 2008 they will all be over 14.
since my ex has had custody both of the boy's have been placed on I.E.P's testing the oldest is severely deppressed person and showed signs of molestion, the second child scores insanely low on his testing scores and shows no sign of maturity for his age level. the only little we have has been getting abused emotionaly good girl excellent grades but, find little hope in being happy or love those words are 'taboo" are thease good grounds?

2007-10-31 12:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by ursula z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always wanted a tattoo and I was totally sure of the design. I got the tattoo and now my boyfriend isn't happy even though he told me earlier that he knew eventually that I would get it so he will learn to live with it. He told me that it was up to me whether to get it or not but now that I have it, he is upset and asked me "If you love me and i asked you to remove it. Is our love stronger and more important than your tattoo?". I told him that "If our relationship is stonger than my tattoo then why are you fighting me over it?". What do you think? Is it fair that he could say these things to me now? I don't regret getting the tattoo at all but I also love my bf.

2007-10-31 12:00:06 · 43 answers · asked by mhyalene 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a boy friend and we have only been together for three weeks and he wonts to get married shoule i say yes or no

2007-10-31 11:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ever since I got married to my hubby his mum and sister always seem to backchat about another girl who is part of their family, I heard from someone that she was meant to get an arranged marriage with my hubby but my hubby didnt want to etc. anyway now that I'm married to my hubby my MIL always wants me to look all pretty especially when I'm in front of that girl and her family, she is maried as well btw. We are meant to be going to a birthday party and she is supposedly going to be there with her husband, I want to go dressed simple and my MIL was like "its up to you but so and so(that girl) is going to come dressed all grand and you may feel awkward", I was thinking to myself so what if she comes dressed up grand, who is she to me? I dont understand why my MIL is so eager to make me look all dressed up in front of them, its as if shes using me to hurt them or something

2007-10-31 11:58:19 · 4 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Family