is there anyone out there that can answer this question?
my ex-husband established custody our 3 children back in 2002 now thease kids want me to take him to court so they can talk the judge them selves being that 2008 they will all be over 14.
since my ex has had custody both of the boy's have been placed on I.E.P's testing the oldest is severely deppressed person and showed signs of molestion, the second child scores insanely low on his testing scores and shows no sign of maturity for his age level. the only little we have has been getting abused emotionaly good girl excellent grades but, find little hope in being happy or love those words are 'taboo" are thease good grounds?
2007-10-31 12:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by ursula z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can go straight to an attorney and try to get an emergency ex-pa rte order to take your children first thing in the morning, but you have to have the money up front and it is very expensive. If you think your child has been molested take a look at the warning signs on line and make sure you write it all down for the attorney to get into the order. I hope this works out for you!!
2007-10-31 12:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all, an IEP stands for Individual Education Plan, I know, my 9 year old has had one since he was 4, now if he has custody, do you have any say? Cause you should have access to these IEP team meetings, and they only do these with very well prepared testing, so they may in fact need them, but even as I have sued and ultimately won against my school board for violating his IEP, I have never heard of one issued for emotional problems UNLESS it interferes with their learning, and the testing will/HAS to be in the childs "CUME" folder, the school has it and you have a right to see it unless there's some order in the custody papers. Molestation would HAVE to be reported to social services, I don't know what state you're in but here in Florida, if a teacher suspects this they are obligated to call the child abuse hotline which in turn reports to Department of Children & Families...and if the case has been closed, the records have assecibility, if your concern is for their welfare and you think he's causing this due to neglect or some other form of abuse, contact social services yourself and they will investigate his house and they do in fact interview children, they'll ask them how they're treated etc., they can also tell the worker their feelings about not wanting to live there and she/he could possibly find merit in the concern and they will file for a court intervention. Good Luck, but if you don't have restrictions on their welfare in regards to school, I would schedule an appointment with the teacher, counselor, staff coordinater, all these people HAVE to be present at any and all IEP meetings including the person that's providing the services that the IEP calls for, I know, I go to one every year, juat went to one on the 30th. Good Luck! Oh one last thing, again, if you have no resrtictions in regards to the school, you can request to be notified any time they have an IEP team meeting!
2007-11-01 00:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suggest you go to child protective services and have your children removed and have them given back to you. Or go to the health and social services and tell them you need help geting your kids back and they will help you especially you son he shows signs of molestation get him otu of tehr fast this si not goo dnature for your kids get them out fast do what every you can.
2007-10-31 19:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not exactly rock hard evidence, you will need to connect this to your ex and make sure he is responsible for all this and not just some coincidence (even if it doesnt seem like one). id suggest take them to a hyponsis and have them uncover their memories have them recorded on tape and if things pop up that they have been abused then take that to court otherwise you can fight it but he has also a good chance (depending on lawyer) of winning
2007-10-31 19:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sincerely believe your children have been abused, you have an obligation - let me say that again - an OBLIGATION - to contact child services where you live......
Your first thought must be about their welfare. Not about custody next year or whether words truly exist, but about whether they are being taken care of or not TODAY.
Get your priorities straight
2007-10-31 19:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if the kids are asking for this there is a good reason... our children need to be heard I wish the system would give our children the credit they deserve, but you have to be thier voice and thier courage so yes you need to this for your children if you dont you may regret it in the future when your kids get older they may ask you why didnt you fight for us., there is nothing in the world more important to fight for than our children, they deserve to have every opportunity in life and dont deserve to have to carry so much sadness,
I wish you and your children the best
2007-10-31 19:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by nfldwct123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call protective services and report this! Then you can worry about getting the custody ruling changed.
2007-10-31 19:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. Just make sure you all have a good lawyer.
2007-10-31 19:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um ya, get a damn lawyer already and gett hose kids SAFE WITH YOU!!!
2007-10-31 19:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theirs signs of any kind of abuse , you should phone the law or social serves.
2007-10-31 19:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by David JL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋