Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

I'm 17 and in and out of the dating field and it seems that my only draw-back is my hieght. Every girl i've ever met has told me that I've got a good personality, a good sense of style, and my looks are perfect. But I seem to feel slightly intimidated around girls due to my hieght. And it's hard to find one shorter than me. For all girls reading this, how does a girl feel around a guy whos short? Is it an issue? Am I just too short?

2007-10-31 15:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by Kevin H 2 in Singles & Dating

The holidays are fast approaching....I already feel the sadness creeping in.....

2007-10-31 15:38:02 · 17 answers · asked by sunset28 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 15:37:34 · 9 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the deal. I dated a guy off and on for about 7 years. He was my first love. I never imagined I could love someone so much. But we ended up breaking things off because it seemed we wanted different things out of life. For years I've wished things had worked out between me and him. He has monopolized my thoughts and my dreams. The feelings I had for him were powerful, to say the least. We lost touch a while back, but I have never gotten over him.

A couple of years ago, I started dating another guy who is great. He loves me and has asked me to marry him. I love him too, but not with the same intensity I had with my first love. But, I know he'd be a great husband and father.

My problem is that my first love has reappeared in my life and has asked for a second chance. He says he loves me and has never gotten over me either. He says he wants to marry me. I'm so confused. My heart is pulling me in two different directions. What do I do? Please help!

2007-10-31 15:37:02 · 19 answers · asked by devil_in_disguise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel if your mother and wife don't get along?

Why is it that most men don't ever stand up to there mothers and say that the wife is in charge now and the mother can step back a little?

I'm really disheartened by the fact that men don't represent their families like they should anymore.

2007-10-31 15:33:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a crush on this girl, she is like my dream girl, we use 2 be pretty good friends but we r kinda fading away. I could of asked her out when i want 2 but i wasnt ready. Now she doesnt no i like her, we havent talked 2 each other , her parents think i am a stalker and i feel like i am fading away. WAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!

2007-10-31 15:32:00 · 2 answers · asked by FranzHopper 3 in Singles & Dating

In a Mexican culture it is traditional that the couple has one or several "sponsors" for the wedding. Some will pay for the liquor, food, entertainment etc. They are mostly relatives or close friends. These people are called padrinos. The padrinos are presented at the wedding and in many cases are giving a present for there help! In some cases we write a letter to ask for sponsors in advance so they can get everything together before the wedding!! Sorry if this something funny are you think is not right but that is just are culture!My best friend is getting married in July and I am in charge of writing a sponsor letter! I need help.I have no idea how to even start it. I could use any help or advice!!!!

2007-10-31 15:31:36 · 4 answers · asked by ~Yoli~ 1 in Weddings

2007-10-31 15:30:54 · 13 answers · asked by Pink Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 15:28:48 · 1 answers · asked by stanley leong 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend got married at 13 he was 16 after 3 1/2 yrs. of marriage the marriage was annulled. She became successfull business woman and he is successfull as well.

He has been married twice , he is currently single . She has never married and does not have any children.

Well they ran into each other @ the movies. Went out to dinner and talked and answered a lot of unaswered questions. Very deep.

He wants to finish his life with her. She thinks she wants to do the same, but she is also scared to death.

I want to tell her to go for it - But I am also scared and happy for her. What do you think ?

2007-10-31 15:28:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 15:27:18 · 16 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Friends

2007-10-31 15:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Over a year ago, I reestablished contact with someone I knew from school. I haven't seen him in over a decade, and even in school did not know him well. we don't live in the same city--he is flying 4000 miles to see me. We've already established mutual interest (of what nature, I'm not sure); the question is, is this just a booty call, or is he genuinely looking for a mate? He's very eligible. I'm having a hard time understanding why he would go to such lengths. I'm suspicious by nature.

2007-10-31 15:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by beatrice 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it really something you take into consideration when being with a guy? I'm honestly around 7.5" long, 5.5" in girth. Is that anything to be insecure about? I think I just suffer from low self-esteem. What do you think?

2007-10-31 15:26:00 · 17 answers · asked by im a mess 2 in Singles & Dating

About a year and a half ago my fiance and I had a bit of a rough patch. He ended up in bed with another girl(lets call her Jo) who knew about our situation. That aside, we worked together to work out all issues and rebuild the trust. A little over a year later we had our little boy. He is now 7 months old.

Our relationship is solid - we don't fight and we are happy together. Problem is, Jo - is a friend of my best friend, Sal. In january, Sal is going to move in with Jo.

Sal, was obviously worried and asked if I would still come visit her. I said yes - I was prepared to be polite to Jo, but was not interested any form of friendship with her. Sal, insists that Jo was the innocent party and that she feels very bad - because my friend is very excited that I am coming back to live. She is constantly asking for me to forgive Jo for the incident. She wants us to be three happy campers. I've told my friend repetivily, it won't happen!

Would you feel angry too?

2007-10-31 15:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by priestessofthepixels 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so in my life nothing ever goes my way, every girl i had ac rush on never liked me back, i guess im just not a likeable likeable guy. ye i have friends who are girls, we hang out and stuff, i made the mistake of telling one of them i liked her, didn't work out, we're still good friends, but ever since then i have had mixed feelings for her, one day i'd like her the next i wouldnt, one day i'd care about how much attention she gives me, the next i wouldnt and so on. im a jealous type, i get jealous over the stupidest things and im also a quiet person, not shy just quiet, i say things when i need to say things. AND I HATE IT... everytime my friends and i hang out, im always so quiet and they always ask why im so quiet, i want to say stuff but i have nothing TO say, i just listen, so well tehres no real question to this but any help on what i can do to improve on these matters thx..

btw im 17 and in gr12..

2007-10-31 15:21:15 · 27 answers · asked by John 1 in Friends

Think light-hearted. Please.

2007-10-31 15:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do you guys like to look at slutty girls but dont want your girlfriends looking/acting like them?

2007-10-31 15:20:33 · 1 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 15:17:44 · 35 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i liked a guy for a year then i went out with him and broke up with him because i'm really shy and can't talk around him and i still like him!

2007-10-31 15:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I suspected he was looking at things on line so I started investigating and found that when I was gone or at 3am or so in the morning he would get on and spend anywhere from two to four hours looking at kids in the nude or undies and topless, also looking at boys as well their private parts. the topics he clicks on to see he is looking for this ex; ***** on underware, naked girls 6 to 12,sexy girl,rodderick on boys sticks,sweet boys,boys got cock inspection.etc. This has been going on for two weeks since I started searching I know it has been much longer and even worse. I have not said anything yet I dont know how to bring it up. We have 4 kids and 2 of them are in the age range he is looking at. My 20 year old knows what I know, we are sickened and sad we dont know what to do. Is this illegal or not and is this something to end a marriage over or work through it. My husband used to drink and be violent and (always turned things around on me that he still does).

2007-10-31 15:15:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of 22 years has been messy since before I married her. As we speak, the kitchen is filthy and hasn't been cleaned in weeks. I killed (3) mice the last week, but I can't get rid of the mice because neither my wife nor kids will keep the kitchen clean.

The bathroom has mold crawling down the shower. The garbage in the bathroom is always filled with dirty pads and tampons, and it smells. There are two lavatories in our bathroom. Mine is always clean, and hers is filthy. She often uses mine.

The laundry is always piled up in corners around the house. I often do my own laundry, but can't stand seeing clothes piled up everywhere.

This is not the case where the husband doesn't clean house. I do clean often. But I can't maintain the house on behalf of my wife and 3 kids who don't work.. Because mom doesn't clean, my kids follow her example and are lazy as well.

I feel I have a right to live in a clean home, but it won't happen as long as I'm married to.

What should I do?

2007-10-31 15:10:28 · 51 answers · asked by Jeff C 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 15:04:15 · 25 answers · asked by Miss Kim 4 in Singles & Dating

If people you love are doing it and you don't touch the stuff? Driving me crazy lately..........I don't think I have a say at all, and I usually don't!! Can't just leave.....I have too much invested.....time and love!!!! I really don't know!!!

2007-10-31 15:04:01 · 14 answers · asked by Lori F 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 15:02:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife deletes her call history and is very funny acting about her phone. We never get the bill at the house. Is there any way I can buy the call history on-line. Pls help with anything!!!

2007-10-31 14:58:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..So I wore some really cute blue jeans on Tuesday.

And I want to wear them to school again tomorrow. But they are longer on me than most of my blue jeans. So do u think people would remember if i wore them and think its gross? And yes i did wash them! lol I know this is extremely stupid =]]

2007-10-31 14:56:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is obsessed with my education, my parents are divorced and when i'm at his house, he makes me study 4 hours a day and if i get a B he'll yell at me. He always wants me to be in the front row and now everyone thinks i'm a geek. He hits me a lot and yells at me in front of everyone and once even spanked me in front of the whole school when i was in 4th grade. When i was 8 i got a C and he slapped me. He makes me feel like i'm a piece of crap by verbally abusing me and calling me bad words. I once told him he was a mean person and he told me that i was going to do drugs and that i'll get pregnant when i'm 15. He hurts my mom when he comes over to her house and since he's a lawyer, if my mom took him to court he would win anyway. Everytime he gets a girlfriend, he makes out with her in front of me and when i tell him to stop he says he loves her more than me. Sometimes he's nice but sometimes he can be the most horrible parent ever. Any suggestions besides telling someone?

2007-10-31 14:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by arielle s 3 in Family

I saw an article writing about a man who mentioned about sex going downhill after his wife has given birth naturally .He has only 1 child.He claimed she was not 'tight' as before. He claimed that caesarean is a safe and recommendable birth option.
I need to ask all the fathers out there.Is that true that sex feels less enjoyable after natural birth? Did you feel the difference in sex after your wive
s births?Would you prefer women to opt for caesarean to 'preserve' the original tightness of the vagina for optimal sexual satisfaction?

2007-10-31 14:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lily B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-31 14:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by Das ist mein fluch 5 in Other - Family & Relationships