I suspected he was looking at things on line so I started investigating and found that when I was gone or at 3am or so in the morning he would get on and spend anywhere from two to four hours looking at kids in the nude or undies and topless, also looking at boys as well their private parts. the topics he clicks on to see he is looking for this ex; ***** on underware, naked girls 6 to 12,sexy girl,rodderick on boys sticks,sweet boys,boys got cock inspection.etc. This has been going on for two weeks since I started searching I know it has been much longer and even worse. I have not said anything yet I dont know how to bring it up. We have 4 kids and 2 of them are in the age range he is looking at. My 20 year old knows what I know, we are sickened and sad we dont know what to do. Is this illegal or not and is this something to end a marriage over or work through it. My husband used to drink and be violent and (always turned things around on me that he still does).
2007-10-31 15:15:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um honey I didn't even get to read all of your question, but you need to get out of there quick. That's scary. Have you talk to your other kids yet? You need to question them to see if he has done anything to them. Im afraid for you. I question my girls every day. I don't care if its my husband or brother. I'm sorry I love my kids. And this world is getting crazier by the minute. Confront your husband in a womanly way. If he go crazy and flip out then its time to go. At the same time I would pray for him, ask the Lord to reveal the truth to you. Honey I'll pray for you.Please keep me posted. I'm very concerned. God Bless! I was molested when I was three. I don't want this to happen to your kids.
2007-10-31 15:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Momme 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You got yourself a sexual predator on your hands and if you don't do anything about it you will be on the 5:00 news telling everyone you didn't no he was like that. How many times have you seen on the new where the family had no idea that they were living with a monster. Look at the ice man on HBO that man would chop someone up into little piece then go home pick his kids up and kiss them like nothing was wrong.Go to work the next day and blow someones brains out and put them in a freezer or ice chest if they didn't fit he would make them fit his exact words. You don't really know what your husband is capable of you only know as much as he wants you to know. Well you do know what he is and how violent he can get. For your own safety and the safety of your kids get them away from him. How do you know your husband at night hasn't been looking in on your kids and looking at them in a perverted way. I know he is your husband and you don't want to hurt him but who is more important your husband who doesn't treat you good or your own flesh and blood your off spring. I was taken advantage of starting at the age of 4 and it didn't stop until i was 12 years old. For 8 years i was scare every time i saw him. In the middle of the night he would sneak in my bed and do horrible things to me that i didn't want to do. I'm a mother and wife now and if i knew my husband was doing something as ugly as your husband is doing i wouldn't hesitate to call the police on him. You have no idea what pain I've suffered from someone like your husband. Your probably saying right now they were only picture what do you think he is thinking about doing to them kids and what do you think he is doing to himself while looking at those pictures. If he does something to a kid and you had a chance to stop him before he did anything how are you going to feel abut yourself.
2007-10-31 15:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike on, he used to drink and be violent! Strike two, he is looking at young boys online, and strike 3 he is looking at girls as young as 6 to 12 years old! Time to not only get out but call the police and have him arrested. Not only is he wrong for looking at the young girls but that is also one reason for white slavery in which girls that young are kidnapped and abused in order to have those sites and by stopping those who look at those sites authorities are one stop closer to ending the trade, although it may never truly be stopped because there are so many like him who go to those sites!
2007-10-31 15:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you because in the end you are going to do whatever you want. I'm just concern for your kids!! How do you know he has not been secretly looking at them??
I believe what he is doing is illegal and morally wrong.
I think you have the answer to this one. If you think you can't make it on your own seek help.
good luck to you!!
2007-10-31 15:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get yourself and your kids out of there, and report him to the police. Possession of child pornography is illegal, and for all you know he might be doing more than looking. Or getting ready to. A drug or alcohol addiction might be overcome, not so a sexual compulsion. It'll only get worse. And I'm sure you don't want to be responsible if he harms a child, and you could have prevented it!
2007-10-31 15:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Faerie_Queene3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looking at any type of pornography is cheating, vulgar, and dispicable (sp?).
Looking at pornography that includes children is just sick.
In either case, leave him. You said he used to drink and act violently... why did you not get a divorce long ago?
edit-- I agree with the above answerer that mentioned that pedophiles and rapists should be chemically castrated. To add to that, all types of pornography should be made illegal. It is nothing but offensive and dehumanizing and encourages contributes to nothing but filth in contemporary society.
2007-10-31 15:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs serious help, unless you know exactly what his motives are; seperation at this time should take place. This is very serious and should not take any longer. The fact that you've known this long without action can place you as an accessory during the fact. MAKE CHANGES FAST!
2007-10-31 15:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly be concerned for your kids. That sort of thing isn't normal for a man. Looking at porno with grown women is ok..but kids..in undies..there's something wrong. You need to find out what's going on with him, try talking to him. Or take your kids and go somewhere else away from him. Because he has "pedophile" written all over him right now.
2007-10-31 15:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by **Mystica** 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The second he gets up in the morning and leaves, load up the kids and their belongings and that computer and hardrive. Then take the kids stuff somewhere you can stay till you get back on your feet and take the computer and harddrive to the police station. I wouldn't want to touch it after knowing he was getting off on illegal kiddie porn. This is proper grounds for divorce and sole custody of your children. Get away before he does something unforgivable to your children.
2007-10-31 15:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a dad with 2 boys i would tell the police you have to for your kids and others safety this is serious and illegal and sad plus sick,you have to its your responsibility as a parent and adult
2007-10-31 15:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by jd 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋